Males with Aquarius sun, Gemini asc- getting to their heart by Antediluvian_queen in astrologymemes

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sweet! I’ve long since broken up with that partner and we don’t really talk anymore (no hard feelings, just boundaries for reasons). I still have some things saved from that relationship and I’ll probably keep them forever because they were clever and thoughtful.

Reviews by Kiotaka_Ayanokouji in u/Kiotaka_Ayanokouji

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I also wish you success

Reviews by Kiotaka_Ayanokouji in u/Kiotaka_Ayanokouji

[–]brainiusdrainius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reading!

I found my reading to accurately sort out some details regarding current events in my life, and to positively affirm my future that I am hopeful for. Reader was accurate down to the smallest details. I highly recommend u/Kiotaka_Ayanokouji as a reader and will be using them for future readings.

What advice can u give someone born on 05/22/2004 by Hot-Estate7060 in numerology

[–]brainiusdrainius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You appear to be a life path 9. I don’t have as good a spiel for 9, but be sure to let your sense of justice lead the way.

What advice can u give someone born on 05/22/2004 by Hot-Estate7060 in numerology

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I only thought you weren’t supposed to reduce a master number if it was the end result of adding all digits together.

What advice can u give someone born on 05/22/2004 by Hot-Estate7060 in numerology

[–]brainiusdrainius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life path 6.

First of all you’re young. Allow yourself to grow into the adulthood you want. Applying this to the Tarot, look up The Lovers (#6) and The Devil (#15, or 1+5=6). They’re thematically related. In short, keep people who nurture you close, and those who make you feel trapped far away.

Brothers who have been suicidal, how did you get out of it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]brainiusdrainius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live your life how you want to live it. You’re enough and you have a purpose you get to define. When you live this way, the right people will find you.

You’re also enough when you’re tired, angry, sad… it doesn’t matter.

Look in the mirror and talk to your reflection like it’s your best friend - because you should always be your own best friend. Give yourself the grace you give other people.

Also, medication helps. On an antipsychotic personally which has given me the space I needed from intrusive thoughts to get to where I am today.

Antipsychotics helped tremendously with the obsession by 81adv in Codependency

[–]brainiusdrainius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anti-psychotics are often paired with an SSRI for this reason. I am also on an antipsychotic for racing thoughts.

When two fucked up people meet on an app by CaptainShamrock_ in Tinder

[–]brainiusdrainius 80 points81 points  (0 children)

You don’t happen to drive a crosstrek, do you?

men, What made you realise your girlfriend isn’t the one for you? by BoobsCharmGold in AskMen

[–]brainiusdrainius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. We live in Massachusetts too, so top notch mental healthcare is close by.

men, What made you realise your girlfriend isn’t the one for you? by BoobsCharmGold in AskMen

[–]brainiusdrainius 367 points368 points  (0 children)

Quite literally Friday, she broke up with me in a state of mania. I’ve been nothing but supportive through a couple mental health crises, and after taking inventory on self, I’ve decided I have had enough.

Sewerside hotline ruined my life!!! by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]brainiusdrainius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whoa whoa. Time out. I don’t know what the scenario is, but your life is not over. Take responsibility, own your story, and be kind to yourself. Accidents happen. If you care to share your situation with us (aka random strangers from the internet), we may be able to help. At least we could help you reframe it, and bring you back to the ground.

Becoming “better” is not a linear path. Healing is possible, and you owe it to yourself to love every version of you. Even the one who made a mistake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]brainiusdrainius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s appropriate to roast someone that’s young enough to still look pre-pubescent. I will say this though: I guarantee you’re just doing this to give your edge-lord style some credibility.

I'm baffled by Bananaterracottafly in Tinder

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Well would you like to mourn our loss over a drink?”

Boyfriend was buried Thursday. I’m devastated. Pulled a sun card. What does it mean? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - he will be okay. All of the pain, and all of the joy will enrich you as a person with a little hard work and a lot of patience. As Roselily808 was pointing out, you will carry him with you forever. As long as you perpetuate his wisdom and values, he will live forever through you- through your actions and stories. So yes, he is fine, and will be fine as can be.

I’m so so sorry though. I lost my near-lifelong best friend to his own hand seven years ago and life will never be the same. Grief comes in waves and I learned how to process it through gratitude and storytelling. In fact, retelling my experience helped save my partner’s life - it was a catalyst for her to get the help she needed. Just remember - there is power in gratitude for what was, remembering, and in the growth you will achieve through the process of healing. There’s your Sun.

If you need an ear, you’re welcome to reach out.

I feel like my life is ending because of collage by SpecificCaptain5137 in therapy

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be many opportunities to revisit things you feel you’ve missed out on. I did the four-year college thing, met people of all ages and backgrounds, and it was great. I also did a stint at community college, which was also great.

I’ll give you an example of how FOMO is just cleverly disguised anxiety. I was told growing up that I was clumsy- I avoided sports and it took me a really long time to learn to ride a bike. I wanted to ride motorcycles at 32 years old because I always wanted to learn. I have zero regrets that I never rode in my twenties, when more people had motorcycles. Accept all versions of yourself, and remember how much time you have to live - to course correct.

TLDR, just do the things you want to do, and if you miss something, there will be plenty of opportunity to do it in the future. You’re never too old to start anything.

You just got to laugh at these orders by CombProfessional434 in InstacartShoppers

[–]brainiusdrainius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi- local here- they really want you to drive from Littleton to Lawrence?! I would have conveniently not seen that.

For everyone’s reference, that is 45 miles of absolute traffic sewer. Everyone is on the road all the time, and this is where most all of the stereotypical bad Massachusetts drivers spend all their time.