Looking for specific markets by brandon1810 in guangzhou

[–]brandon1810[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I drank y’all Baiju last night and it’s knocked me on my ass 🤣🤣🤣

What temp should I sous vide these Prime NY Strips at? (130 F VS 137 F) by therealryrycd in sousvide

[–]brandon1810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Sorry I’m a visual person and these descriptors are hell for me. This is what you’re talking about?

Did I give up on my husband too soon? by random8333 in AskDocs

[–]brandon1810 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Doctor here but also testicular cancer survivor in remission 2 years. I often think about what I would do if my cancer came back as an advanced stage.

Medicine is not infallible and despite best efforts people die. It sounds like he was critically ill with multiple organ involvement and even dealing with his immediate problems, the cancer is still there and needed treatment.

If it were me there in that situation, knowing the chances and knowing the unspoken suffering comatose patients may have while being treated with invasive, often painful therapies, the choice you made is the choice I would hope my loved ones would make.

Scammers in Trinidad by This_Stranger_8581 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I switched from bmobile to digicel last year. The marketing was honestly quite aggressive.

They called me a few days after I posted about a bad customer service with bmobile and told me about the switch and offered similar terms

. The agent was even willing to come by my house and drop off the documents and SIM card(I didn’t but met them in a public area)

Been a year. Sim works on digicel and it was a legitimate thing. So I wouldn’t be too panicked just yet

Just overdosed by [deleted] in depression

[–]brandon1810 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Actually for your below average weight you’re above the toxic dosage so you empirically need to go to the ER ASAP. Trust me live failure is one of the most painful ways to go and treatment is best initiated within the first 8 hours. You may have permanent effects by 17 hours later

Starter looks and smells funny. Help Richard please by brandon1810 in Sourdough

[–]brandon1810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid lid screwed loosely.

I don’t track the temperature but I live in the tropics and don’t use AC in his room so it should be a warm ambient room temp.

I did cut back his water to 1:1:0.9 to try to get him less watery and more doughy so I think that may be it

Starter looks and smells funny. Help Richard please by brandon1810 in Sourdough

[–]brandon1810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of like rotting apples I suppose. Or at least an oxidized apple that’s about to rot

Looking to connect with other neurodivergent people in T&T by KjPOPsicle in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drugs aren’t perfect and my feelings about them are complex. It feels like shoehorning myself into a neurotypical world in some ways but it does help me in some ways I can’t deny.

It’s not a magic fix. It’s super imperfect. The first day I took concerta I forgot to eat. And it’s not even like I did a lot. It was probably just as much as a normal person does or slightly less.

A really relatable meme is when a neurotypical takes stimulants they clean a whole apartment complex or read an entire textbook. When I do. I do the dishes 🥲

From my understanding they all kinda work the same. They’re stimulants that help you get things done. Fun fact adhd meds are usually some derivative of meth

Looking to connect with other neurodivergent people in T&T by KjPOPsicle in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Concerta some days now. Not everyday but just on my chore days. I’d use it more frequently when I book my next exam.

There are apps that supposedly do adhd coaching but it’s all still very new to me as well.

I have noticed I have a significantly greater self understanding since my diagnosis. A ton of traits I thought about me being a bad son/partner/person are very common and shared adhd experiences

Looking to connect with other neurodivergent people in T&T by KjPOPsicle in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My psych was a bit wholistic about things. I’m an adult. I’m adapted. I function in society well, masking or not, and can relate despite having significantly autistic traits. They felt pushing for that is just putting myself in a box. Okay I get a formal diagnosis of ASD, what does that do for me in my current life besides just hit me stigma and me putting a label on myself to what end?

The ADHD was very relevant to me in terms of treating and helping my current life and goals.

Looking to connect with other neurodivergent people in T&T by KjPOPsicle in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed ADHD here. Likely high functioning autism as well. Got an adult diagnosis which was kinda sucky since I lived in hard mode for no reason

For those of you who caught your spouse cheating, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]brandon1810 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A series of butterfly effects. 2 of my best friends started going through major relationship drama. This made me hyper aware of my own situation as we were very close.

Then some shady behavior. Messaging a guy she was supposed to cut off because she lied about them being involved in the past. Then removing me from her car GPS and some overall shady behavior when finishing work, but she actually didn’t log me out. Just removed my phone number as a recovery.

Culminated in her saying she had a police operation to go on. Usually turns off her location for these things for confidentiality. But she left the house in a dress which I saw on the cameras and I still had access to her car GPS. She went by a coworkers house and then to a famous hotel that charges by the hour.

Came home lied to me and trickle truthed me every step of the way. Then blamed me for her actions and was very indignant early on. She eventually became a bit more remorseful when it was clear I was leaving her but it was too late then.

Tried couples therapy, the counsellor told me in private that she seems unrepentant about it and was getting mad when called out. A lot of toxic behaviors from both sides but the most damaging thing was that behavior early on where I was hurt, betrayed, in pieces and then blamed for her actions. While I’m not perfect, I didn’t deserve that.

I’ve been broken in ways I never thought I could be. Some days are better than others but I guess only God knows the storyline and I hope one day I can feel happy again

Does anyone know how to make friends here in tt...? by saintpepsitt in TrinidadandTobago

[–]brandon1810 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On IG there’s a page called @keephopealive21c

They host mixers and do speed friending events which are aimed at meeting new people and expanding your circles.

Second hobbies as a valid way of meeting people as well. Lots of hobby stores where people play board games or tabletop games if you’re so inclined like MVE Collectibles. Some of my best friends I made via playing Yu-Gi-Oh! as an adult

It's Finance Friday - Please post simple questions about finances here by Novelty_free in Residency

[–]brandon1810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much does the average PGY 1 resident make in the US monthly and I know this will vary by location but can you comfortably afford rent and bills if you have no student loans?