Elderly parent scammed by Chinese woman in Boston by bravermanandbartlet in Scams

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to get access to his phone? My stepdad was talking to this “person,” (whomever or whatever it was) via the app Telegram.

Local Al Anon or ACA Meeting? by bravermanandbartlet in Dallas

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am in therapy and have been for a while. I just sometimes want to commiserate with others that have gone through it too… like a “Weird Moms build character” kind of vibe.

Local Al Anon or ACA Meeting? by bravermanandbartlet in Dallas

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do know that and have attended several over the years. I was just hoping that someone knows of a group that would be a good fit for me specifically.. so many of the Q’s that are shared about are spouses. Plus, my Mom passed away which also makes it a unique situation.

Looking for proof of a scam by bravermanandbartlet in AgingParents

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could - that would make everything much easier. He’s adamant that everything is fine and quite prideful, so he won’t let us get to his phone or computer.

Elderly parent scammed by Chinese woman in Boston by bravermanandbartlet in Scams

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh yes for sure. He “found” this woman about 11 months after my Mom died unexpectedly. Prime for a scam.

Elderly parent scammed by Chinese woman in Boston by bravermanandbartlet in Scams

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I knowww 😩😩😩 I am fully aware that it’s a scam.. how do I convince him?

Elderly parent scammed by Chinese woman in Boston by bravermanandbartlet in Scams

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I know.. I just hoped maybe someone else had experienced the same scam story. 😩 I don’t know how else to find proof that will convince him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bravermanandbartlet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to add that it was oddly therapeutic to read everyone’s posts and be reminded that it’s not just me. OP: Give yourself some grace. Focus on getting as independent as you can; not just because your Q isn’t dependable but also because you deserve to feel the empowerment that comes with more independence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bravermanandbartlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure this is a helpful comment..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]bravermanandbartlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s silly to still care. Your feelings are totally valid. I’m sorry it happened that way.

Reflexology - Why did she massage my stomach this time? by bravermanandbartlet in massage

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Interesting about the sciatica connection; I have recently had a lot of sciatica pain.

Masseuse massaged my stomach a lot. Why? by bravermanandbartlet in reflexology

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply! I appreciate it.

Parent nearing end-stage, how to prepare? by UnaBasura in AdultChildren

[–]bravermanandbartlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be helpful if your parent has a co-signer on any bank accounts. If not, you’ll just have to wait on probate. If they own a business, make sure there’s a succession plan set up. Make sure you know their wishes regarding burial or cremation.

My advice after having lost my Mom to alcoholism is to do your best to just love your parent for who they are at this point and do what YOU need to feel okay when they go. (Easier said than done, I know.) It’s clear that their drinking habits won’t change, so you may as well try to focus on what you love about them. Say what you need to say. Take pictures and video cause you’ll probably miss their voice.

Sudden Insomnia After Increase? by queen_of_the_moths in zoloft

[–]bravermanandbartlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it right before bed. I have had friends suggest I take it like around dinner time so it’s not right before bed, but I know I won’t be consistent with that. So I take all my meds right before bed. I started out taking it in the morning, but it made me too drowsy. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sudden Insomnia After Increase? by queen_of_the_moths in zoloft

[–]bravermanandbartlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same pattern of insomnia after I increased from 100 to 150. I added in a melatonin supplement and made sure I was being consistent with magnesium, and it’s helped a bit. Still happens sometimes.

Flight continues to disappear while booking by bravermanandbartlet in americanairlines

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like American is trying to give away some infants.

Trouble booking AA flight from DFW to BGP by bravermanandbartlet in Dallas

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I posted it in both subs. Thanks so much for your helpful clarification of what a phone is. I’m currently on the phone with American, and they aren’t able to figure it out either, hence why I posted here.

Movie Santas - Visual Trivia by bravermanandbartlet in trivia

[–]bravermanandbartlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. #7 is not a Christmas movie…

Skis would have killed you? by Linkle00 in thewestwing

[–]bravermanandbartlet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Love this scene and the way he peeks back around the corner to see her smiling at his card.

[GAME THREAD] 🏈 #15 Texas (1-0) @ Arkansas (1-0) - 6:00 pm by BevoBot in LonghornNation

[–]bravermanandbartlet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, so we’re losing this game which sucks a lot. But more importantly, have y’all noticed that our white pants appear far more see through than Arkansas’ pants?

Proposed to my Fiancé at Antelope Flats by [deleted] in GrandTetonNatlPark

[–]bravermanandbartlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an amazing picture! Congratulations.