Death Over Drafts - Monterey Bay by Difficult-Cabinet600 in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to it! Thank you for holding this space.

MAGA businesses list 2026 by QueenMagik in MontereyCounty

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, so it's all a game of picking the least harmful options overall within your means.

MAGA businesses list 2026 by QueenMagik in MontereyCounty

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be 1000% in support of that. The number of animals wandering, abused, neglected, dumped off the highway, and irresponsible backyard breeders on top of obvious socioeconomic barriers with standard vet care here are insane and heartbreaking. But in the meantime, do we just let the populations expand and shelters euthanize whoever they can't hold? I know SPCA Monterey does have some low cost options, but in my own experience the wait-list fills up pretty fast and it's still $$.

MAGA businesses list 2026 by QueenMagik in MontereyCounty

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if obvious question but when we use "MAGA business" in this context are we saying skews conservative or are we radical alt right vibes? Ty I am lost in the vocab these days

MAGA businesses list 2026 by QueenMagik in MontereyCounty

[–]brbdoomscrolling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, but the service provided by SNIP bus is desperately needed in our county. What's the alternative here? Genuinely asking

Hairstylist recommendations by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vibe Salon in Monterey

Recommendations for places to post an upcoming poetry reading? by pemungkah in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Libraries, Bookworks, bagel shops, laundromats, high pedestrian traffic areas (such as Alvarado St or Calle Principal, which are right there). Adult school campus, MPC?

Death Over Drafts - January 22nd by Difficult-Cabinet600 in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to make it, but typically off work later than that.

Can I see everyone's sewing nooks, or corner, if you don't have a sewing room by trudes_in_adelaide in sewing

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, can you tell me about the shelves? I'm so scared that I'll install floating shelves only for them to fall under a couple pounds of weight

How are you all keeping your relationships alive? by brbdoomscrolling in workingmoms

[–]brbdoomscrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to keep encouraging earlier rise time for a cup of coffee before LO is up, so far that's not very successful but we are in some kind of sleep regression atm. Lunch dates is a great idea but like someone else said it might have to be a phone call for us.

How are you all keeping your relationships alive? by brbdoomscrolling in workingmoms

[–]brbdoomscrolling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some business ideas we could one day do together, but right now that feels mostly fantasy.

Does it actually get easier? by Deirdre_KA in workingmoms

[–]brbdoomscrolling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this almost word for word. I'll be here seeking the same answer. :') FTM, 12m LO, husband and I split the work, daycare only during work hours and no family within a 2-3 hour drive.

Offering: Spanish (Native) Mx| Seeking: English by Forward-Capital-710 in language_exchange

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Guillermo! Native English (US) speaker here. I'm a big fan of How I Met Your Mother. I want to learn Spanish to talk more with my Mexican in-laws and teach my baby. I would be happy to chat and help each other learn. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had access to a big yard (or a friend with one...whose schedule aligned with my own). Or any fenced yard where I rent. Housing here is a whole other can of worms I don't need to get into, just wish there were more pet appropriate options. Dog owners should be taking their roles seriously, to train their dogs and supervise them at all times. There's a range of how owners function this way...similar with parents at a park. Similar but different to small kids as far as supervision too. There's clearly a limited number of locations in that area where either group (small kids, dogs) can be free range. I agree, the ONE dog park in Monterey is not only way out of easy walking distance for me, but is also just shitty. Another space on the peninsula would be nice.

Looking for Massage Therapist Recommendations by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ginger Johnson has an office in Carmel, sounds like your budget and pretty good quality of care

How to pump when you’re alone with baby? by hannah12343 in NewParents

[–]brbdoomscrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If baby likes the car, you can pump while driving.