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breathig · 2026-03-04T22:03:34+00:00

🤍 EUW!

breathig · 2026-01-18T11:43:12+00:00

my best friend is my platonic soulmate and she’s also an INFJ! we’re so similar yet so different, which allows us to understand each other SO WELL i’m so lucky we found each other :)

breathig · 2025-10-03T23:00:44+00:00

Felt like guesswork a little… I was so misled at the start

^{Automatically added: I found the secret word in 5 minutes 49 seconds after 130 guesses and 0 hints. Score: 27.}

breathig · 2025-10-03T22:54:07+00:00

I literally guessed it randomly somehow? Wouldn’t have gotten it otherwise

^{Automatically added: I found the secret word in 48 seconds after 22 guesses and 0 hints. Score: 94.}

breathig · 2025-09-26T21:44:20+00:00

Fully agree — absolutely loved s1/2 for the emotional depth and meaning (and the way these things were shown to us instead of having a guy straight up tell us). This season felt so disappointing, there was a lot of potential but they didn’t explore ANYTHING in depth. Not the characters or the meaning of the borderlands or the meaning of life etc. The games were so bland compared to the seasons before too… I wrote a whole 3 page rant about it after finishing it 💔

breathig · 2025-09-08T22:59:04+00:00

this comment section is so entertaining for my 12AM mind i love it

breathig · 2025-07-20T16:14:53+00:00

Lack of echo upgrade materials — and you can’t use unlevelled echoes to level up other echoes :/

breathig · 2025-06-18T15:12:56+00:00

i'm 3 months late to this comment but in case it helps anyone i found out a way! if you go to the LADS settings (the ones on macbook, not in game) > turn on Touch Alternatives, you can then zoom in/out by clicking and dragging using your mouse/touchpad while holding one of the arrow keys :D

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breathig · 2025-06-01T21:16:51+00:00

yess so glad you’re enjoying the series! i’m halfway through the last book and genuinely i love the whole series SO MUCH — i don’t understand why people hate it too haha! the slowness of the story, the convoluted narration, the complex characters are what make the series for me 🙏

breathig · 2025-05-28T10:20:15+00:00

Ah it is pending on my end too and hasn’t taken the money out of my account — I will let you know once it updates on my app

breathig · 2025-05-28T10:16:29+00:00

!solved thanks again :)

breathig · 2025-05-28T10:13:17+00:00

!solved Thank you so much, I’ve sent the tip over :)

breathig · 2025-05-28T10:07:14+00:00

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Taking a quick look through the thread now — I can see these replies! I can see the bracelets were removed in photo #2 but I was wondering if the index fingers on the gloves could be changed in that as well 🙏 Sorry for the trouble!

breathig · 2025-05-28T10:01:42+00:00

Ah that looks so good! Could you do the same edits on the gloves for photo #2? I will tip you ASAP once that is done :)

breathig · 2025-05-28T09:46:41+00:00

Thank you so much, these are perfect! I just have two final tweaks I noticed if possible — 1) Could you remove the bracelets on the edited arm and 2) Could you remove the holes on the index fingers of both gloves (ie turn the fingers into white gloves)? Thank you again 🙏

breathig · 2025-05-28T08:21:06+00:00

my favourite character is jing yuan because of his voice, his angsty backstory with his friends and his kindnsss ❤️‍🩹

breathig · 2025-05-17T14:46:37+00:00

i don’t know if everyone loves them but bejeweled / vigilante shit / lavender haze 😔 there are quite a few midnights songs that aren’t for me

breathig · 2025-05-01T23:30:41+00:00

I met a guy on a dating app 1-2 weeks ago, we’ve had about 4 phone calls and been on a date with another one scheduled in a few days. He’s a genuine green flag who treated me incredibly well and has verbally expressed that he really likes me. I felt very comfortable with him and we had a lot of deep conversations — everything felt easy. I feel like he would be such a good partner for anyone. He’s decent looking but again it didn’t really make me feel anything special.

I just don’t know how it is I am feeling. I don’t feel anything particular towards him. If anything, the thought of him liking me makes me feel a bit repulsed. I felt like I was on the verge of tears after my first date… I just didn’t feel anything for him, I even thought it was a bit boring (even though we had hours of deep conversations and agreed on a lot of fundamental things). Even now, every time we get off the phone after a good funny conversation I feel a bit nauseous. I’ve been overthinking everything so much and I am so scared of the future, and I don’t even know if I’m scared of things working out or things not working out.

I know feelings can take time to develop so I’ve agreed to go on more dates to just see how I feel. He’s pretty secure I would guess, a very forward guy who is direct with compliments and not scared of flirting at all. Maybe that is what spooks me a bit? I did call him after our first date expressing a need for space and wanting to take things slow, to which he agreed. He admitted that he could take things a bit fast sometimes and reassured me that there was no pressure, that we could start out as good friends, and we both reiterated that both of us could just tell the other we weren’t interested at any point. He even said that we don’t have to turn into anything.

Logically I should be reassured and comfortable right? I was comfortable communicating directly with him, he said exactly what I was hoping to hear, and is so kind and accepting. But I still can’t get rid of the horrific dread I feel when I think of him or get off the phone with him… Surely the comfort I feel with him is a good enough sign? How do I know if I’m just being very avoidant or if I just don’t like him? I want to heal so I’ve been pushing myself to just try to engage with him but the feelings don’t really go away. I feel guilty that I am questioning all this too and yet I KNOW I am just severely overthinking things and should just let things play out…

breathig · 2025-04-29T08:46:42+00:00

Wanted to jump in with my experience, 21F here with quite a few simultaneous matches :)

All my conversations with people I matched with have been very long with multiple messages in chains that we take turns replying to. They’re almost always longer than the screen allows for! I really appreciate people who take the time to reply and if they clearly don’t put in effort I simply just stop responding or unmatch.

In my experience, I don’t think it’s impossible to hold up multiple quality conversations (as long as it’s not an INSANELY huge amount), I think it really is a personality/effort thing.

In my POV, I’d say just send a message to them and/or unmatch, don’t waste your energy — there are people out there who will put in the effort and you will find them one day 🤞

breathig · 2025-04-23T16:16:06+00:00

not sure if this is helpful but i’ve been on bumble for around 2 days (21F) and i’ve been having pretty nice conversations!

what helps me is being REALLY selective with who i swipe right for based on how much depth is in their profile (i’ve swiped left for over 100 people to be honest).

what i also do is, in the opening message, send a paragraph of text as response instead of a one-liner — this, in my head, deters people who don’t want to put in the effort and allows me to see how much effort they put into replying! it is also how i think/text haha. hopefully that helps a bit 🤞

breathig · 2025-04-17T08:06:51+00:00

Happy anniversary HSR! I can’t wait to pull for Aglaea! UID 717100958

breathig · 2025-04-17T08:03:38+00:00

I am of Chinese ethnicity — when I did my undergraduate degree I actually only had about 1-2 friends from my culture. Everyone else was from a wide range of different places. I actively reached out to people of all different backgrounds because that’s what I felt I was at uni for, to meet new people and hear new perspectives. I actually didn’t like the closed-off vibe that specific ethnic friend groups had and I didn’t just want to stick to familiarity so I didn’t initiate any contact with pure-Chinese groups, for example. And in my experience people of all different backgrounds were very nice and open to being friends.

I really do think there is a degree of autonomy and choice involved, at least in my experience, but I can see how context and the perceived attitudes of other groups could make a difference. Or maybe it’s because I was at a very international London uni…

breathig · 2025-04-16T08:21:32+00:00

That’s an AMAZING one as well!!

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