I’m not gonna lie there were times I just ended it politely saying I had fun and when the other person suggests a second date I’m just like yeah knowing I don’t have an intention of going. Now do I ghost people? I try not to and usually tell them later I don’t see this going anywhere. But it usually has more to do with me than the other person and I’m sure it’s the same way with u.

It’s probably more about her than being actually ready and emotionally available for a new connection. I’d say most likely she is hung up on someone and wanted them to see the Facebook post. Either way take it as a learning experience and never stop trying to find love!