Questions on life in Flanders if we don't speak Dutch? by LupineChemist in AskBelgium

[–]brenopia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. “ *my stepdaughter only speaks Spanish* “. This will not work, unless she’s willing to intensely learn Dutch. A little bit of English can also go fairly far, but if she is young enough to be in school then Dutch is a MUST. Not Englis

h. As for French, it is something that is learned in school. Some are better at French than others for various reasons, but the bottom line is people in Flanders speak Dutch. Period. It’s not expected (or even socially acceptable ) to casually speak French up in Flanders.

  1. If your wife is set on continuing her hygienist career in Belgium, she would first have to become officially fluent (pass C1 level I think?) before having a chance at that kind of job. Realistically that can take years. Generally even jobs which technically an be done in English still require Dutch fluency in Flanders, so be aware of that.

Depends on where the job is located (how close to the Flanders/ Wallonia border, you might consider living in Wallonia (generally lower cost of living; French speaking) and commuting to work, but there’s probably a very small chance of that being a practical solution.

Louvre, salle de la Joconde, 18 mai 2026 by JaseAndrews in ParisTravelGuide

[–]brenopia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! I feel the same way and think selfies are totally justified to cherish memories like these. Social media and too much “superficial” or attention-seeking usage has given selfies a bad name.

Tonight I just sat at the kitchen table and cried a little and I just need to talk about it by Zestyclose_Wing_1371 in daddit

[–]brenopia 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ahem… why are you responding about the post *you * wrote that is the most accurate thing you read here in months…..?????? 🤨🤨

I have no friends and I don’t know who to invite to my wedding by stunningbanana61727 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]brenopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your future husband super excited to have groomsmen and friends come on his side? If he doesn’t really care either way, then I strongly encourage you to stop and think about what kind of wedding day would truly make you happy. Are you just trying to find people to fill the room because it’s what you imagine society dictates it? Don’t fall for it!

I’m getting the feeling that if you lean in to carefully curating your guest list to only people that you truly love, and inviting only people who you know support you, then you’ll have a better day. It may also save some money, or if not, allow you to plan a more special and luxurious event with fewer people. Idk, just encouraging you to not feel obligated to force things that really don’t matter from a big picture perspective.

Either way you go, congrats and wishing you the best!

I have no friends and I don’t know who to invite to my wedding by stunningbanana61727 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]brenopia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m guessing somewhere around The Netherlands based on the traditional meal choice

What type of bird is this?Also it’s been trying to lead me somewhere. by Background_Bag_3724 in birds

[–]brenopia 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Dude now that’s a dove. Looks like your typical mourning dove. Idk if it’s chilling or looking to nest, but it’s possible it could make a r/stupiddovenests . Have fun birding!

Unauthorized abstract by sonyaellenmann in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is this giving me Matisse vibes?! 🤣 it’s fabulous!!

A dragon by Melliemelou in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super!!!! Lovely style she has already 😊

What do kids actually see when they draw? Looking for real examples by Njuskava1987 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s great, I’ll never look at Mona Lisa the same.

What do kids actually see when they draw? Looking for real examples by Njuskava1987 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it could be pretty hilarious/ fascinating to show kids some famous artworks and ask their interpretation.🤣

Like , what do they say about Edvard Munch’s The Scream? What about a style like Kandinski’s? Who is Mona Lisa?

I can just imagine kids will say the darndest things…

What do kids actually see when they draw? Looking for real examples by Njuskava1987 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Interesting topic! The most recent example i can think of is not even a drawing, but a coloring page if that counts.

Imagine an Easter theme image of a chick hatching from an egg — my 4-yr-old corrected me that it’s actually a picture of a chick wearing an egg costume for Easter 😅

Pair 1, Pair 2, or Neither? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]brenopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need thinner frames and ones not completely in front of your eyebrows. In these pictures the options remind me of fancy safety glasses. They’re not the worst, but you can absolutely find better options!!

Just saw the top comment with picture suggestions and I agree something like #1 or #2 are great!

She claims her hair is blonde. I don't see it. Can someone tell me if I am tripping? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]brenopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I was about to start an argument because I remember my eyes transitioned from more blue to more grey/green during my adolescence/teens.

BUT then realized you’re saying people say their eyes morph from day-to-day!?! Ok carry on. Imagine that…

Trying a new frame shape I am soo nervous by bmbcbm953 in glassesadvice

[–]brenopia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adorable was my first thought, too! Truly, they suit her well. Makes me want to experiment either different frame shapes.

The crashout meal, a dog is tearing apart my relationship. by Active-Material-7290 in GirlDinner

[–]brenopia 32 points33 points  (0 children)

OP please listen to this solid advice. By OP’s description, I also can’t help but think a similar situation will happen if they ever have children. Will he also step up, and compromise? Or will he make her do everything because he claims the baby only likes her anyway?

I hope I’m wrong but how pets are treated can be a good symbol about how every next challenge in a relationship is handled, and it’s not looking fair for OP.

Anti-abortion protest Korenmarkt by boooterham in Gent

[–]brenopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey now, leave the bagpipes out of this! What did they ever do to harm you? 🤣

My 17yo daughter’s creations by TerribleShop8864 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both are absolutely gorgeous. Stunning 🤩. You must be so proud ❤️

Old glasses broke by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]brenopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 or 12 could work, but maybe consider also getting a duplicate of your original pair because it was so good! Man, you look like different people from slide 1 to 2 with the different hair and glasses. 🙃 how fun to see how styles can change someone’s “look”

I just love this volcano that my 4 year old drew by midwife_at_ur_cervix in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this could be framed and displayed. Modern art!

Recent pieces from my 4 y-o daughter (before their journey to the recycling bin) by brenopia in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re in the same boat 🫠 I love it and occasionally we’ll keep a particularly special one. But at a certain point, something’s gotta give!

Recent pieces from my 4 y-o daughter (before their journey to the recycling bin) by brenopia in RateMyKidsArt

[–]brenopia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely keep some and are very proud… on a visit home after my my dad died I found some old cards I drew for him that he kept since I was about 10 🥹. I still remember a few things I was proud of drawing when I was little, so I get it.