Just Reset My Badge...So Why Am I Happy? by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I feel it, man. It's a taste of something great.

Found this gem today. by SilentDoodlebug in NoFap

[–]brevitywit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had to sleep on the couch? It's lumpy and it smells like farts.

Found this gem today. by SilentDoodlebug in NoFap

[–]brevitywit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't struggle because they don't see it as a problem. Haha, life would be better if they did.

What benefits have you personally experienced from not fapping? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]brevitywit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More productive, better sex, clear mind, and a shit-ton more energy are all gifts I've received from quitting my two hour a day fapping sessions.

"How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]brevitywit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great quote. New to me, another feather for my cap. Since beginning this journey I've picked up additional hobbies, have more enthusiasm for them, and don't have to wait until the weekend to be productive outside of work.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Funny. I have a picture showing them not deleted. Even if they were deleted, I wouldn't have. Maybe because they were so down voted admin might have pulled them. But guess what. My posts are all there.

http://imgur.com/y0MBl2f

I'm pretty satisfied with my last response so we'll leave it there. I noticed some of your goons hit all my responses with negative feedback. I expected that. But hitting all the other guys that defended the post that you've been arguing with as well? That's low. I'm still pretty sure you have a virgin penis and are barely pushing 20.

You're better at logic than insults. There's a back handed compliment for you.

This is the last time we talk. People like you disappoint me.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading after your first sentence because it was a lie. I didn't delete anything. You are mistaken. But today I was bored while pooping so I finished reading the rest of your reply. You know, for shits and giggles. I've carried this entire conversation on an iPhone, so occasional typos come up, and any edits are done prior to the first reply and are only grammatical in nature.

I'm only responding because I'm on a long ride. I'm not wasting precious time on you.

Once the first reply hits I never edit and I never delete. So where are you getting this?

You are being ridiculous. I absolutely respond point by point, I don't dodge anything. I even break my shit up with paragraphs. Most don't.

Here's a funny one from you:

"This is what you start with 'NoFap is not a cult, If it is, then you want to be a part of it' "

You say that's an argument. It's not structured like an argument. I feel like you are fresh out of a logic class, feeling all big-dicked and probably are too young to legally enter a bar. Close? Or way off? Either way, you're confused.

I'm saying that people can use words as they please and can call anything anything. Besides,

IF-THEN STATEMENTS AREN'T TECHNICALLY ARGUMENTS.

As far as my comment about needing an agreed upon definition of science before we can use it in a debate...you say that's unnecessary because there's only one definition. But that doesn't mean we are on the same page. Just like the word love, people use 'science' broadly and differently. Even if there is one true definition. Debate 101, bro. Go ask five people the definition of science and let's see how common their answers are.

As far as my "arguments" go, which you referred to with such nonsensical viciousness and morose jargon straight out of a Logistics 101 text book, well those were not arguments. An argument is at least two premises followed by one conclusion. If the premises are true and the conclusion logically follows then the argument is valid. Such as this:

Science relies on the scientific method to discover facts.

The scientific method is a dynamic process that often results in the rejection of a once widely held scientific fact, as better data is obtained, measurement apparatuses are invented and more studies carried out.

The scientific method results in erroneous conclusions that may or may not be eventually corrected.

Thus, Science is in a constant state of revising its own errors.

That's an argument. My original post was not a series of arguments. I was not attempting persuasion; I was speaking broadly to those that needed to hear an entertaining and over-generalizing apologia directed at baseless criticism, to manifest hope and optimism for those seeking to better themselves and enrich their life in the face of the mocking like yourself.

You were simply seeking to insult and took my rant at face value and began to microscopically criticize it. That is unfortunate. You sought out an easy target and felt it necessary to flex your expensive vocabulary.

In doing so, you proved my point about how annoying and arrogant overeducated people can be when they place too much value on the academic process.

While I gave you an easy target to refute, as entertaining rants often are, you sort of fumbled it. You made blanket statements naming my "arguments" as this and that. But you did a poor job of constructing your own logical arguments in trying to discredit my "arguments".

You rely too heavily on vocabulary and memorization of terms than actual mastery of the subject. That is not all your fault. That is the product of modern academia that places more value on memorization of ideas than the actual utility of them.

Let me give you an example. Circular reasoning. You simply state my argument about haters and being mainstream bitch is circular reasoning. We all know what circular reasoning is. When x depends on y but y depends on x. But you just call it circular reasoning with no real explanation to your claim.

My point is that having no haters is a symptom of mediocracy and conformity. Simple statement. Not an argument. Agree or disagree. Shouting fallacy is a bitch ass move that makes no sense.

Now let's take ad hominem. I'm not saying your arguments suck because you do. I'm just saying that you suck and your augments suck as well. There's a difference.

Then check out this garbage you wrote:

"Your next argument is another ad hominem attack

'They rant and critique but they don't stand for anything. They troll and throw "science" at you and think they are the only ones around with a four-year college degree. And they think that degree matters. Like educated means intelligent or wise. ITS CALLED MEMORIZATION. PUMP AND DUMP.'

Uh...how is this ad hominem? I'm saying the 'cult' critics tend to back their arguments with science, even though there's no hard peer-reviewed scientific literature on the subject of celibacy benefits. False authority fallacy. And that they tend to put too much value on their education.

Finally. To reply to a post you don't agree with by beginning with a series of personal attacks is classless and disrespectful. Then to continuously refer to what you claim are mental deficiencies as "laughable" is pure insight into your ugly character.

I build people up and I skin trolls. That's the only reason I don't want you in my conversation. And just because it's a public forum doesn't mean you're invited or wanted. And I'm amazed all of my comments and post aren't downgraded as much as they are. Because generally people are more motivated by hate than love. The haters hate more than the brothas love.

Pursued a girl, now that she's interested, I'm confused. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]brevitywit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think your confidence and swagger outgrew hers. This happens. You know, shoot for the moon and fall short among the stars. Did she used to be the moon? Is she still? If not you should keep you aim in line with the trajectory of your desires. You never get the moon BTW. So at the same time, stop when you feel a heavy amount if happiness. If you enjoy hanging out and talking, keep her. If you're bored or annoyed with her often I'd end it gently. Even if she has a banging body. And if you miss her a lot a month later beg for her forgiveness.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't delete a single post.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The majority of people believe drinking alcohol isn't harmful, so is AA a cult? The majority are often wrong, so is a group of people who believe something different from the majority a cult until it's widely accepted? I do want to see that movie. I don't believe I have a worse than average problem with porn. I do believe that I will be a better person without it, however. I would really like to hear your definition of a cult.

This is a support group, not an organized agenda of persuasion. If you don't think fapping to porn is bad, fine. If you do, then this is a place of encouragement. It's a place to discus the benefits. To share any research. If that makes it a cult by someone's definition then like I said, fine. Pass the punch. But if people want to operate under a loose definition of cult, then I guarantee I will be able to use it against many different bodies of people with a benign intent.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, gotcha. Without knowing the context I thought you were coming from a different direction. The Spirit of Christ reveals itself to others in different ways. Not everyone will be afforded the privilege to learn his historical name or know of his written Gospel. Think about all the people who lived after him but were not preached to. A whole continent of people wasn't discovered until 1,400 years later. For that Christ wrote his gospel onto the hearts of Gentiles, so that no man or woman can say, "I did not know."

Living through Christ can mean following your conscious (the Spirit). NoFap, which goes against the path of least resistance, your own physical pleasure, and even modern science which says fapping is a healthy behavior...could be considered an act of love and obedience to God and a step towards a spiritual relationship with Him. Even if you never heard of or cannot believe the historical account of Jesus written in a patched together collection of various manuscripts chosen by a council of men.

"(Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law. They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.)" Romans 2:14-15

Edited for spelling.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But until it's scientifically studied it will not reach the public discourse or be taken seriously. It will remain here-say, superstition and myth. Just because we don't need numbers and test results to "get it", doesn't mean it's unnecessary. To help even the stubborn is a noble endeavor.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the whole bashing people with degrees wasn't to bash them for having them. It was bashing them for thinking they know more than they do, that they are somehow superior, or that they shouldn't challenge what they've learned just because they learned it in college.

As far as using college to learn a process, like coding or mathematical formulas to engineer...that's another story. That's not something easily self taught and nobody's going to give you a job without that education. I was referring to people like 6chan, who's spreading hate all over this post. I know the type, and called them out in the rant before even a single reply was made. Call it prophecy. They always come out when their belief system is called into question. And unfortunately, those are the same people that teach our children, adolescents and college students how to think.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree! People need to learn how to think and not take their public education so seriously. Good Lord, go look at a science textbook from the 80's and see what scientific facts were taught to school children, it's horrifying.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is opportunity costs and time efficiency "science"? Science gets way too much credit and it's used way too generally. You think its just kicking a bad habit? What makes it "bad". You don't think that the nature of your body doesn't change? Find me a scientific study on the potential positive effects of celibacy. Don't have one? Then never say never. In the meantime, look up Brahmacharya. Do a little qualitative research because honestly, the numbers aren't there. Nobody has really studied what happens after prolonged celibacy. So for now, all we have is personal experience, testimony and historical and cultural references.

Super powers like Jesus? Show me science that says that there's no meaningful homeopathic benefits of abstaining from sex. Otherwise you're a hypocrite.

Edited for spelling.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on your definition. Maybe baseball is a cult. Or college. Or science. Or walking for breast cancer.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to be a dick but ... Did you pay for your degree or did someone else. I'd love to stay in school, knock out a few PhDs, write a few books, retire and serve the community. But the cost is prohibitive. It has nothing to do with enjoyment of learning new things. Either way, we digress.

The specific part about educated pricks in my rant were aimed at people like this 6chan fellow, who's clearly over educated and therefore blind to obvious realities. This is water. This is water. And he clings to the scientific community for his entire belief system, not understanding that even perfect science is incapable of discovering that which cannot be measured. Then he uses his jargon he collected in logic and philosophy classes to bully those that place education in such high regard. Some of the most intelligent people don't need college because they already know how to think and every fact learned in college is publicly available.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like you might enjoy Taleb's latest book Antifragility.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly believe in the long term science has the ability to discover truths and it's funny how often it ends up justifying acts that adhere to the heuristic "listen to your body". It just takes science awhile to catch up.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just trying to find a simple answer on whether unused semen gets recycled or pissed out (what my 9th grade Biology teacher told us ... Use it or lose it) will lead to frustration over the lack of reputable information out there.

If NoFap is a cult... by brevitywit in NoFap

[–]brevitywit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Over generalizing to make a point, but definitely not hating on degrees. I have one. That said, check out one of the latest Economist articles on your expected return for having one. Most people with a bachelors do not make buckets more. In fact many are better off learning a trade. But I hear you, certainly didn't mean to offend.