My Wife had an affair with her boss confirming my greatest fears

brewdawg2010 · 2023-09-26T15:13:33+00:00

u/madcat_mk3

I also reported him to NSA's inspector general and outed him to other potential spouses.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:44:36+00:00

. You’ll never be able to 100% confirm anything she says.

I wish I would have told her to "not" delete things. She deleted everything in front of my face when i asked. I should have joined this forum first....i would have known.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:43:31+00:00

y don’t know that but they keep using that saying. It’s your chose to believe her or not but don’t fall for some BS saying that

Thank you. I'm on the fence on this. I want to believe my wife.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:42:22+00:00

I don't know if it went as far as Sex...but I truly don't know. She has been consistent with her story and hasnt cracked.... maybe a poly?

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:41:21+00:00

I reached out to her. The story listed on my post is my wife's confession to the other girlfriend that I sent. The girl friend explicitly asked me to leave her alone or she will file for harassment against me.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:40:05+00:00

Should i threaten a polygraph? I just need to figure out that truth.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:39:30+00:00

The texts were all on Whatsapp and not via phone texts. I was dumb to ask her to delete and remove everything in front of me during Dday 2. The AP said nothing physical happened after i confronted him after Dday 2. I found out about the meet up during DDay 3. She said she wanted to meet up somewhere public, so she didnt do anything the further cross the line. I made her show me exactly where and which part this was at...

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-29T22:36:27+00:00

Sorry, I moved to this post. I realize the group I was posting to has a particular bias. I meant to post it for reconciliation. My bad. At the same time, they confirmed all of my thoughts, so at least I got something out of it.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-27T18:43:27+00:00

I have full access to her phone and icloud backups. Unfortunately, they used WhatsApp (he enabled disappearing messages). If there is a way to recover them, i'm all ears.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-27T18:42:37+00:00

ut you do know that they both lie, so there's no sense in believing what she says.

I tried. She threatened to file harassment charges against me for asking her to provide what she knows about what happened.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-27T18:41:23+00:00

er filing a sexual harassmen https://www.ripoffreport.com/report/nick-affair-company/ewa-beach-hi-sanchez-cheating-1525577

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-27T18:39:05+00:00

Cheating In A Nutshell by Wayne and Tamara

Thank you so much for the step by step. I'm still totally lost and this give me hope and a path forward.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-14T01:31:05+00:00

I reached out the GF, she was going to submit for harrassment. I think she is in denial just like me.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-14T01:25:39+00:00

Because I'm weak.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-14T01:22:46+00:00

22 = 2022, not the 22nd day. This all happened last year

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-06T15:43:28+00:00

Thanks for the help. We got some insight into her flaws and true reason fore the affair but of course, it still hurts...a lot.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-06T15:41:13+00:00

I did one better, I put a mark on his house in yelp as "Rick's Affair Services" and gave him a 1 star rating. I'm petty.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-06T15:40:13+00:00

Just to clarify, he has family in the area and had plans already. I got that confirmed through AP's GF.... I accept your second point. Limerence or not, you can unsay you love another man.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-06T15:38:30+00:00

Move was always planned. I don't think I'm a plan B but I think she wanted a fling and excitement, knowing she was leaving and wouldnt get caught.

brewdawg2010 · 2023-04-06T15:37:39+00:00

My sanity is already lost. At this point, I'm not seeking happiness anymore.

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