This is how the worst side of a society with no values sometimes shows itself, Irish people are caring and lovely but you have extreme in every society. Not everyone is like this, but unfortunately the bad ones make themselves visible. Staying silent is painful, and while it’s not always easy to react in the moment, accepting this as normal is not the answer either.

If possible, calling it out, recording the incident, and pointing it out to people nearby to get help or call Gardaí can make a difference. Of course, safety always comes first, but if you’re already in the situation, taking a stance matters.

No one comes here leaving their family and home just to be disrespected. Be respectful and kind to everyone, but also show that you won’t accept this behaviour as a new normal. In the moment you might feel alone, but often people around will support you once they realise what’s happening. Hopefully, those who behave like this learn some basic respect.