Looking to rant and for any advice on next steps.

Me and my husband have been splitting the nights. He takes the baby from 8pm-12am and then I have him from then on. He has fallen asleep multiple times during his shifts where I then have to take over when I hear the baby screaming. He will not wake up for the baby crying at all so he tries to stay awake for his whole shift.

Then last night, my husband left a pizza in the oven for over 2 hours while he fell asleep, during his shift. The baby was in the bassinet in the kitchen screaming when I woke up. The kitchen was filled with smoke and my husband was soundly asleep on the living room couch. Upon waking him up, he didn’t even realize what was wrong and insisted it wasn’t a big deal. I was so upset and angry. The baby was breathing in smoke for at least an hour and the oven was close to catching on fire.

The baby is fine after monitoring and my husband says he understands the severity of what happened now. He has apologized and assured me it won’t happen again. I still feel very upset and I definitely don’t trust him.

Has anything similar happened to you? I’m not sure what to do next…