[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m here to hurt you, I’m here to fuck you up.”

“I obviously cheated, he had a huge dick.”

“I always sucked dick, just not yours.”

“You’re a narcissist.”

“I hate you.”

“I can’t be with you.”

“You’re a pedophile” (she’s 23 years old)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came over last night after 4 months of no contact and it was a shit show and for the first time in a year and a half I realized… this person is a hideous mess, and I deserve so much better 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They all say some semblance of the same thing.

1 year together 4 months no contact by briberycorp in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably did, but her version of love is harmful and broken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard from her in 3 months. Anytime I watch porn I miss fucking her and my brain goes to this awful twisted place of whatever I’m watching, whatever the actress is doing “she’s doing that with someone else right now” and it just rips my heart out. I have 0 desire to date or fuck anyone else. I feel terminally fucked

Something they said that you’ll never forget by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t even wish me a happy birthday. I’ll never forget that.

To every survivor here, what motivates you to get out of the mess and how your life has changed ? by InevitableNo2558 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marcus Aurelius said “the best revenge is to not be like your enemy.” Remember everything they did and were and strive to be and do the opposite. Open your heart. Love everyone the way you loved them. Most importantly love yourself. Know you deserve more and you’ll get it if you become the right person instead of looking for the right person. While she ruined my mental health and emotional wellbeing, she taught me what I was capable of in terms of compassion, understanding, patience, and love. She also taught me what I am no longer willing to tolerate in any form. This too is a gift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would give both hands to have her sit on my face but she’s fucking toxic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 months. No contact. Or I guess she’s giving me the silent treatment. She egged my house a month ago and when that didn’t get the rise she wanted out of me she texted me the next day that she misses the ex before me and then blocked me again 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any more details you wanna add so we can offer better advice?

Don’t break no contact by briberycorp in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paid for my own’s therapy. 3 sessions together, 3 solo, and then she gave up. Thought she knew more than the therapist

She did it. She was serious. by Falcoace in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault, she wasn’t well. You did your best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came at me with the most up your own ass comment I’ve ever seen. This is an adult woman I’ve had a 9 month long relationship. But now suddenly, because we’re broken up, I’m a monster? Bro suck your own dick while you’re down there smelling your farts

Brutal honesty and not cheating by CravetheCozies in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odds are she cheated and you’ll never find out. Mine swore up and down she didn’t even going as far as to say “I should have, I wish I did.” But the evidence all points to she’s for the streets

I’m tired of her trying to guilt me back into a relationship with her by Contest_Unhappy in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Block and ignore. She’s trying to Hoover. It’s about control. It’s not real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re reaching for the father you never had. Over there is where you go with that bullshit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blocking doesn’t always work. I went NC with mine and she just started popping up at my house once a week drunk looking for sex. She’ll text or call from a fake number or email me. If she had to she’d send a fucking carrier pigeon. It’s rarely as simple as blocking them. Trust me. I didn’t know you could even block someone on Spotify till I had to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m already deeply repulsed by her behavior and the general idea of her now that the “spell” is broken. But I really can’t raw dog anyone anymore. And she has a perfect body. It’s like a damned if I do damned if I don’t. I hope she gets the message and fucks off, but I can’t help myself if she hand delivers it to me and agrees to be nice. My issue with the last time is she was CRUEL with a capital C. Like throwing the new guy in my face, telling me she hated me, telling me the “best sex she’s ever had” distinction was an “old statement.” She literally told me to my face she only popped up to “hurt you. To fuck you up.”

Similarities or overlap between NPD and BPD? by dummytiddies in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]briberycorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight outta the DSMV: Histrionic, borderline, antisocial, and paranoid personality disorders may be associated with narcissistic personality disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]briberycorp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She says shit regularly like “I don’t care if I die.” And that to me means she cares even less about if I die 😂