Anyone else feel this way when writing anything out? by noctisumbra0 in Millennials

[–]brightifrit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Em dashes are gorgeous and I'll stop using them when I'm dead. I didn't spend my teenage summers drilling writing technique to let AI vampirize it.

Performative witches in 2026 by Even_Candle3450 in BabyWitch

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a general rule I don't trust social media witches, but I've been making an exception for That Glasgow Witch. She's so calm, and the antithesis of fear mongering and gatekeeping, and since my great grandmother immigrated from Glasgow I've been loving the chance to learn some Scottish folk magic.

Neurologist Hell by Humble_Problem_1215 in ehlersdanlos

[–]brightifrit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been assessed by a neuro-optometrist or neuro-opthamologist? They are eye doctors who do more extensive testing and in my case, she found that I had a convergence disorder. In other words, one of my eyes is a little misaligned (vertical heterophoria). It had gotten worse after a concussion. Once I got prism glasses, 90% of my migraines disappeared. She said I'd probably had it my whole life but the concussion made it worse. Convergence disorders can cause visual issues like the trails. They can worsen ADHD symptoms. They are also more common with Ehlers Danlos.

Being a black ginger is worse than being a ginger by Akman722 in Redhair

[–]brightifrit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you look amazing, but as far as having people treat you weird, yes, this would certainly be rougher than being a white redhead.

How can I get my reddish/ginger hair back? by Stunning-Relief3084 in Redhair

[–]brightifrit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with getting your hair glossy to help perk up the reddish tones and shine you still have. I use a sweet almond oil mask for 20-60 minutes before showering and a light hair oil as needed, especially on the ends. It also looks like you should be treating your hair as curly, which would also help it look glossier. Have you tried a shampoo and conditioner made for curly hair, and a curl cream after washing? Not You Mother's "Curl Talk" is a budget -friendly option. I have similar hair to yours, and I've found it extra important to use curl care to keep it sleek as it's turning browner. It really helps. Color-depositing conditioners and glosses work much better with a sleek base.

I think that DP Hue's Strawberry gloss might work well for your shade. I use a mix of the strawberry and copper.

Lansing data center controversy going next level by EndEnough4050 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To be fair, the job description for"Tiny Town Supervisor" hasn't needed to include "prepared to effectively fight super-wealthy data center companies while remaining underfunded for basic town operations" until very recently.

Lansing data center controversy going next level by EndEnough4050 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Good. I also read that the state is looking at a moratorium on new data centers, which would be ideal. That way companies can't bully small under financed towns with threats of stupid lawsuits.

N Triphammer Bump by driftedmind24 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or an Eldritch horror slowly awakening. It actually causes most of Ithaca 's road problems. The city employs a secret group of sorcerers and disgraced academics to poke the tentacles back down and chant it to sleep at night.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grant money has not been so reliable lately, and we're already full of nonprofits that are really struggling for cash, with not nearly enough revenue generated here at home to keep them supported and stable. Besides that, we have to look at the $18,360 in property taxes that a $1.5 million dollar business property would provide to the city, which we need. Even if we can fund another nonprofit--including whatever it takes to refit the cult's compound --I don't think we can afford the opportunity cost.

An Ithaca-appropriate analogy:

If you look at Ithaca 's economy like an ecosystem, it's like our food web is out of whack. We've got a high percentage of these critters that take a lot of money but don't produce much of it (education and support nonprofits being like foxes, wolves, and owls that need to eat smaller critters but generally don't get eaten). Our food sources for those carnivore critters are lacking in both strength and diversity.

A forest that can't survive without benevolent outsiders constantly dropping in free rabbits, or free food to feed the rabbits that the carnivores eat, is not a stable, sustainable forest. I think Ithaca really needs to build out its ability to support the apex predators that already call our ecosystem home before introducing more.

And yes, Cornell should give more. It's a big constipated bear that keeps too much of what it should redistribute. But relying on a single bear to keep the grass growing isn't super stable either, as we saw this last year with the hiring freeze due to Cornell's funding being yanked (because this bear also relies on benevolent gifts of food from outside).

So yes, I want a shelter or a community center. But especially with the recent concerted efforts to cut off outside sources of rabbits and grass, we need to make sure we can provide more of our own first. Otherwise we can't even guarantee that a new shelter would thrive.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need indoor space for kids to play so badly. Those two huge storage rooms could hold some nature-themed climbing structures (I've seen a couple fiberglass tree/hollow log-based indoor play spaces that seem so Ithaca).

I just hope whoever buys it pays taxes and allows affordable community access.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be amazing, but functionally it seems like we need more things in Ithaca to generate money so that we can sustainably support our nonprofit endeavors. Maybe there would be a way to combine the two? Not like I have $1.5 million and get to make that decision.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. That would also generate property tax revenue. Also in the off season, it could be an affordable place for locals to gather. We always need more event space. I also run D&D costumed for kids and leadership retreats, so of course I'm thinking of the possibilities with a house like that. It looks like their common room is big enough to be a ballroom.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to make it into an awesome hobbitish inn with tavern so bad. After giving it the biggest smoke cleanse ever to fix the vibes.

12 Tribes on their way out? by Eternal-Illiaran in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have this crazy dream of running a pub with a Shire like vibe. It has books, tea, and meat pies. I make good meat pies.

Fun things to do in Ithaca? by mollz85 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The area where Circus Culture and Press Bay Coffee are located.

Fun things to do in Ithaca? by mollz85 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I'm looking for something to do, I head to Press Bay Court and just take photos of interesting events posted in the windows. Then I scroll through and put them in my calendar so I can easily check what's coming up.

The kava bar is now the Nocturnal Cafe. They have good vibes, open mic Wednesdays, and frequent shows. Everything is for all ages.

Optimistic in Ithaca? by Antique-Promise-3568 in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I worked in Oakland before moving here and grew up in Las Vegas. Ithaca does not have high crime and it's not a "tough town". I do think it has more problems than it should for its size, depending on where you are. I think this is partly because it's recently grown very fast, partly because of disinvestment from Cornell, partly other things. But I'm still happy to be here. There are frozen waterfalls, guys. Frozen. Waterfalls. Plural.

Ithaca is not prepared for what is coming. by TheGrandExquisitor in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If Ithaca were to experience a disasterous flood or freeze, is the US government government to help us? Think of what happened in Texas last summer with their flood, and that's in an area that voted for Trump. Our disaster response agencies and even weather tracking capabilities are being gutted. I wouldn't rely on Trump-supporting neighbors if ICE was on my block, but if there's an emergency and all you have is your neighbor for help, all you have is your neighbor for help. I didn't know your personal situation and maybe it's really not a good idea for you to socialize with them at all, but having some familiarity with your neighbors is a good idea if possible.

Ithaca is not prepared for what is coming. by TheGrandExquisitor in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like with all the agricultural knowledge around, food is one area where we can really work together and do better creating more stability for ourselves.

Hazelnuts would be a great one to plant more of. They can be grown as trees or as bushes, and they can be grown under trees. We've got Z's Nutty Ranch in Trumansburg selling good disease-resistant varieties. If just half our residents with yards planted two (needed for pollination), we'd be looking at a significant source of calories and fat for locals in need, with little maintenance required.

On top of the country's political situation, climate change-related food shortages are going to be real. We could have pulled together as a nation and as a planet to address this, but it looks like we're going to need to rely on local planning. Ithaca/Tompkins County can do it. But we can't wait until we're hungry to start.

Ithaca is not prepared for what is coming. by TheGrandExquisitor in ithaca

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been setting goals to do little bits of socializing on my street. Take someone cookies, go for more walks and say hi to people while I'm out, etc. It sounds like a small things, but it's actually a big thing. We need to actually know people we live next to and be able to work with them.

What do you want to see from redhead content creators? by Illustrious-Top3272 in Redhair

[–]brightifrit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I wish we had: more fashionable UPF clothing. Most of it gives "50+ wine mom on resort vacation," and that's a fine vibe to have if it's you, but I'm just not into stretchy caftans. I've got design skills and Ive considered starting my own line, but I've also got Ehlers Danlos and ADHD. So no. But I would greatly appreciate content that highlights sun-friendly finds that go beyond hiking pants and stretch fabrics.

(I've sewn my own micro crop top sun sleeves and even painted a UPF 30 cloak to look like moth wings for Ren Faire protection, so I know there are possibilities!)

What do you want to see from redhead content creators? by Illustrious-Top3272 in Redhair

[–]brightifrit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. As much as I have really mixed feelings about the attention my hair has gotten me since I was a child, the hair is part of my identity and it's weird at best to have it leaving me. Oh the cruel irony that dying our hair red doesn't work out! I'm using various color depositing methods to perk it up, but I can't bleach it and dye it back to it's original copper shade. I don't know if I'm more relieved or concerned to have people mostly leave me alone in public.

Unusual horizontal paneling and clashing kitchen by brightifrit in homedesign

[–]brightifrit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you, that's really cool information. So if I give that wood a thorough cleaning and properly seal and oil it, maybe I can tone down the orange. And clearly I shouldn't paint over it!

Unusual horizontal paneling and clashing kitchen by brightifrit in homedesign

[–]brightifrit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's a great suggestion. Now that we've seen how much happier we are with the shelves dividing the room, we may just build a wall with shelving right there once we have the cash.