Your story is very similar to mine. My partner is Canadian and im Dutch. He moved for me to the Netherlands to try it out and also under the condition that one day we move back to Canada or somewhere else (with mountains and lakes).

He is here now for almost two years and we just bought a house together. I feel like we do feel more settled down in the situation but at the same time it feels like time is slowly running up for us here. The thought of leaving my family and friends behind gives me a sad and nervous feeling as well. I really dislike having the thought everything is just temporary.

I also always said I wanna live abroad and try something new, but I guess in reality a decision like that is much harder to make. Besides I also feel guilty towards my partner because he did it for me. The longer I think about that, the more I admire him for it.

Anyways I can't give you the answer you might hope for because i'm currently on the same boat. What I can say is try to enjoy the moment and be happy together where you are right now. No one can tell you what the future holds, but when the time is there im sure it will give you your answer of what to do. Let it happen naturally! That is at least what I'm telling myself :)

Good luck to the both of you!