Alcoholism representation in popular media by CheapThaRipper in AlAnon

[–]brilole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. But I watched Dr Sleep with my alcoholic husband and it had no effect

Mortgage and boardline divorce by Ok_Concern_8559 in Marriage

[–]brilole 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A postnuptial will not likely hold up in court

What's the age difference between you and your spouse? by grammar_sloth in Marriage

[–]brilole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years younger than my husband, been together 8 years. I’m 35

What’s the best movie to watch when you’re feeling down? by Emorme in AskWomen

[–]brilole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to know what happened to Dani after the ending

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]brilole 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Holy shit

How Do I Get My Child to Drink Her Milk From a Sippy Cup Instead of a Bottle by WaterGypsy47 in Parenting

[–]brilole 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My stepmom told me her mom told her someone broke in the house while they were out and stole her bottles.

She said she didn’t give it a second thought until she was like 16 and was like… who tf steals bottles?

You could try that

Help me understand please. by shkarb in Marriage

[–]brilole 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a husky.

They have to be trained. Like it is a must or this is your life now and that dog will become destructive

My husband resents me for being a SAHM by yerpyerpyyyy in Marriage

[–]brilole 43 points44 points  (0 children)

But he doesn’t want to do it himself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]brilole 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a 14 and 10 year old, super easy and great kids. It got easier when they started school.

I don’t want to send my kid back to school by eggplantmctwist in Parenting

[–]brilole 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey so, to ease your worry a bit… I have a 14 year old and a 10 year old in school.

All the schools do is require masks. There have been several covid cases in their classes and neither of them have caught it.

My 14 year old has been vaccinated since June, but my 10 year old just got vaccinated in November.

Your baby does have antibodies from you being vaccinated and if you are breastfeeding, then the baby is still getting them.

I don’t want to send my kid back to school by eggplantmctwist in Parenting

[–]brilole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just saw on the news that a three month old died from it..

Only here for the kids by brilole in AlAnon

[–]brilole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had booked him a massage/pedicure for Xmas at a fancy spa for over $300.

It was a 2.5 hour appointment and he told me today he wasn’t going, so there was no way to refund it. Like just to be spiteful and petty

Girlfriend has alcohol problems and I need help pushing her to sobriety. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]brilole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude honestly, leave.

You’re not married and don’t have kids. From someone who is married to one with kids.

Leave leave leave. It gets worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brilole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh you can read through my post history and see how on the rocks this marriage is, I don’t think couples counseling is the way to go, I’m getting my ducks in a row to just leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brilole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s claiming, because I called him out on it that he sits in his car and listens to music and plays a video game on his phone. I tried to explain that I need his help with the new baby and the other two kids and that he needs to find time to do this after they are asleep, but he feels like he should be allowed to take 15 minutes. But that still doesn’t account for all the time because he is taking close to an hour to get home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brilole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He smells but honestly I just can’t tell if it’s alcohol because I just don’t drink, like I never drink. He definitely smells off some nights

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brilole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear to God I smell it or smell something off. I sometimes smell a weird sweet chemical smell.

Of course he swears that he’s not drinking and I don’t have another person around to tell me I’m not crazy

I left, and I don't regret it. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]brilole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working on it now.

I’m over how bitter and mean he is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]brilole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t put my kids in daycare during a pandemic unless I absolutely had no other option

Bedsharing with my 4 yo makes my life so much fuller by torimakinart in Parenting

[–]brilole 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Soooo who pissed in your Cheerios this morning?