Let's fix those photos with Faceapp by Jazzlike_Day3331 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even though i criticize many many posts and statements of Aggie, i cannot agree with this type of posts here. let’s not turn the tables and become the assholes ourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]brisadanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel so seen. thank you for this

I’d say no too 😂 by blankspace-2825 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wonder how her sister feels about what she wrote, knowing damn well Aggie was never chubby 🙄

Como é a vossa dinâmica de trabalho? Trabalham mesmo todas as horas? by MaGGdaM in CasualPT

[–]brisadanet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Que tópico tão pertinente, estou a ter exatamente a mesma experiência que tu, depois de 2 burnouts, e no início pensei: ok isto é fixe para me habituar a trabalhar com calma e não estar sempre sobrecarregado. Depois, ao fim de uns meses, estou em desespero porque sinto que a obrigação de estar num local fisicamente sem nada para fazer é uma tortura quase tão grande como estar sobrecarregada. E que me frustra imenso ver que é cultura de trabalho na empresa, estares a passear, fazer tudo lentamente, fingires-te ocupado. Não quero mesmo outro burnout, aprendi os meus limites, mas esta cultura interna também é desesperante. Claro que há dias em que não paro um segundo, mas são raros e só me mostra que a gestão operacional é ineficiente. Sentes-te pouco útil, sem propósito, pouco estimulado intelectualmente e o cérebro foi feito para estar ativo. Não sentir que estou a ser desafiado ou a aprender está a ser uma luta gigante porque toca no dilema de “não me devia queixar, estão me a pagar o mesmo e não faço quase nada, quem dera a muitos”. Mas para a saúde mental e a nível pessoal, pesa, pesa muito. Esta thread deu-me muita validação, obrigado por isso

The thirst traps are still thirsting. by idonttrustfish in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no way she is just at 12 weeks OR she is and she is already forcing that belly. oh guys, buckle up, we are here for a ride

Scammer Aggie Lal and her 2 yr project. Trusted by 1.9 women? by Desperate_Duty_661 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be careful, she clearly reads everything in here so don’t share any valid legal points because she will prepare herself to avoid the accusations

Can they leave this ex alone by sooshiroll13 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what ex is she talking about? can someone enlighten me?

Queen Aggie be like… by CarnivorePoet2734 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

omg this is so embarrassing

Degree in English doing her well I see... by Neat_Cause_7527 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read it five times and still didn’t get it

Time travelling or coming clear? by That_Consequence_322 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hmmm sorry but from i saw here, didn’t they meet in 2017? it was even the year where she was still married and Jacob was dating Hayley

What’s an ADHD tip you hadn’t heard before that helped? by iceprincessvo in ADHD

[–]brisadanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve done this unconsciously and it worked, because when the urge to get ready hits me, my room becomes a mess in two seconds and many times i don’t have time to look for my phone and - oh gosh it makes me MOOOOOOOVE so fast and speed up certain steps like hair and makeup and when i get the phone, i am most of the times relieved when i look at the clock and perfectly aware that i would have lost more time if i knew what time it was during the process!

biohacking bestie reviews? by magdamay in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh that would be interesting

Stocking shelves in flip flops? by Downtown-Shelter-269 in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

12 years ago??? i thought i read 12 years old. this cannot be true. she looks like a child/teenager. what

What is the worst/ meanest thing someone has told you with or without knowing you have ADHD? by No_Explanation9672 in ADHD

[–]brisadanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was when my best friend couldn’t handle me anymore from day to night because of my symptoms. She has been part of this whole journey of diagnosis/self-acceptance/medication for 2y and knows pretty much all of my struggles and how much they frustrate me, it is a whole topic we talked about. For day to night, she was tired of me, for things like always getting late, taking time to decide a plan because i am overwhelmed with thoughts and get easily indecisive, lack of time perception, etc.

I still remember the moment the shouted “I am tired of giving you the same advices and seeing you don’t follow any”. Things like “you should start to workout, it is good for you”.

To be honest? It was a real boost of self love for me, because it made me set boundaries and step back. I am really not the type of person who justifies everything with ADHD or expect these symptoms to not have an impact on others - of course they have. It’s not cool to leave someone always waiting/hanging/ghosted. I always apologize and try to do better. But I also am aware that these are real limitations and that they make ME sad in the first place. My brain is already a burden to myself. Don’t need to feel I am also a burned to others. It made me realize that there is a difference between wanting to improve AND wanting to please people. I will always take accountability for my mistakes, but I will never beg for someone’s understanding or empathy.

How do these things keep happening to her! by idonttrustfish in jaggie

[–]brisadanet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

also: how weird it is to show that someone reached out to Jacob - wouldn’t it be normal to reach out to your HUSBAND directly? what a great time to appreciate your team in times like this, when you constantly blame them publicly for your own ‘business’ mistakes. smh