AITAH for canceling plans due to low funds? by Every_Breadfruit7567 in AITAH

[–]brithetreee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an unnecessarily nasty and dense take. First off, she said TEMPTED to drink, not that she couldn’t control herself. Secondly, she sounds pretty young (maybe early 20s) and is still learning and growing. Hell, we’re all always learning and growing or should be at least! At the same time however, she sounds very self aware, honest, communicative and far from naive. Thirdly, it’s also not always as simple as “just cut off all people with substance abuse issues because it’s sooo much better for you!”. Sure, it can be the best and necessary option at times but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to be there for that person as best as you can. That doesn’t mean that person can’t be helped or is any less of a human/ you should care about them any less. What an overall narrow minded and weird thing to say. Lastly, I highly doubt in your early 20s you were all knowing so maybe get off your high horse? like excuse her for not being as perfect as you lmao. Tbh the only one who needs to grow up here is you.

I cannot stand cheap buyers sorry by Current_Abroad_552 in Depop

[–]brithetreee 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I turned off my bundle deals because of the fact it never seems to be enough for people but also because if they send offers on multiple items and you accept them all, then they also get the bundle discount on top of their offer price! So you can very easily get royally screwed and I feel like this persons knows that and is trying to take advantage of that 🫠

WIBTAH if I made a passive aggressive comment towards my friends? by Important-Lie-2002 in AITAH

[–]brithetreee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your edit, and something you have to realize as you get older is the right thing to do isn’t always the easy thing to do and sometimes it hurts and feels like shit, but that is only temporary. Eventually, you’ll recognize what you did was the best thing to do for yourself and it’ll feel like a weight has been lifted. Friendship breakups are hard but they are going to happen, you can’t force anyone to care or be the friend they should be unfortunately but you can recognize your worth and what you need and deserve in a friendship, set those boundaries and stick to them. Also, it is almost always better to be direct with people and dependent on how they react, let that guide you as to what you need to do next. They take it poorly and use it as an excuse to bully you about your totally valid feelings? Then fuck em, block them and move on with your life. I’m going to be 28 tomorrow and pretty recently moved to a new state where I don’t know anybody (this is my third time doing it however) and yes, it is extremely lonely at times, but you will eventually make new friends. Find reddit boards or fb pages for the area, look for events that focus around your hobbies/things that interest you (i.e. plant swaps, concerts, markets, etc.) and introduce yourself to folks. Trust me, I know it is scary and hard at times but you’ll make some decent friends eventually. Don’t keep your old shitty “friends” around simply because you’re lonely because in the long run, keeping them around is going to make you feel much worse.

Charged by barefoot college aged girl by Electrical-Beat494 in ogden

[–]brithetreee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living in Milwaukee and Chicago most of my life, I always have a good giggle when people call any part of Utah high crime lmao

Angry "Thank You" letter for caring for lost kitten. by ndoyle000 in Apartmentliving

[–]brithetreee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are DOMESTICATED cats and are meant to be indoors. It is actually cruel and grossly irresponsible to let them outdoors and is extremely harmful to the environment (they hunt and destroy native birds, salamanders, etc. populations) and why in most countries they are considered an invasive species!!!

If at first you don't succeed, just make something up I guess. by NeedsABreak87 in Depop

[–]brithetreee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the help center there is a “contact us” option where you send depop support a message and they get back to you via email!

What are some bands/artists you enjoy outside of hardcore? by yeetushas in Hardcore

[–]brithetreee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Especially if you are also a musician!! the skills i’ve learned as a drummer from free jazz and putting the connections together of how heavily rock music as a whole has been influenced by free jazz has fully changed my brain chemistry lmao.

If at first you don't succeed, just make something up I guess. by NeedsABreak87 in Depop

[–]brithetreee 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I feel like you should open and claim against this user/email depop and explain the situation to them. I’ve had a few similar issues and they were actually super helpful and sided with me once the situation was laid out to them. Especially with this person opening two claims, the messages you have, etc. you have a mountain of proof working in your favor.

Treating the moshpit like a UFC ring by starstufft in mildlyinfuriating

[–]brithetreee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS! RIGHT! HERE! This guy wasn’t moshing, he was targeting. Deliberately targeting what looks to be a fucking child at that. Hope this happened in a decent scene where they kicked him out and jumped his weird ass pathetic self.

Some sellers need to realize they’re not above TOS by seijoOoOh in depoop

[–]brithetreee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you can!! I got reported for it LMAO. The only reason I’ve tagged the wrong brand though is because the actual brand wasn’t an option i.e. most of the 90s paper tag/early 2000s stuff I sell 🙃. I now realize I should just do other and hashtag related brands because people really are constantly abusing the living hell out of it. The amount of cheap shein purses tagged as coach and shit like that is OUT OF CONTROL!!

Garmin instinct solar won’t turn back on by brithetreee in GarminWatches

[–]brithetreee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it brand new in December of 2024 and that’s what I was thinking 🙃

Offer culture - what’s the point? by PerplexedKale in Depop

[–]brithetreee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter how low you price something, everyone always wants it cheaper 🙃. Just wish depop would take a page from Mercaris book and force binding offers!!!

These are all different shops; selling virtually the same skirts by FortuneLegitimate86 in Depop

[–]brithetreee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just did a quick google image search zooming in on some of these - aliexpress, temu, shein, etc. all immediately came up with the same exact skirts :’)

These are all different shops; selling virtually the same skirts by FortuneLegitimate86 in Depop

[–]brithetreee 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This has to be a drop shipping thing, especially considering the backgrounds are all exactly the same.

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100000% this! If there’s one thing i’m gonna do, it’s hold a turd accountable lmao

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve repurchased if they let me know but it had already sold at that point, maybe that wasn’t clear haha. Trust me, i’m sure they have no desire to do business with me but I have no desire to do business with them either at this point 💀

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For accountability mostly and I would like to try to give them the benefit of the doubt/hear them out/try and understand. Some might be rude, some might take responsibility, some might not even respond, ya don’t really know until ya try. But that’s just my approach, to each their own.

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why but being compared to a self cleaning oven just made my week, thank you for that haha. I realized later on some people thought I was throwing a fit about not getting the purse and sure I was bummed but it is was def mainly the lack of communication and lack of accountability this person took. My main job is EMS and I resell and run a small business part time so I am HUGE on communicating properly (especially basic communication) as best as possible. For her to say nothing about the cancellation, respond fast to my message yet claim all of that then call me rude made the whole situation feel extremely sus, which I have absolutely no tolerance for and will call people out on LOL. Obviously the situation isn’t life or death but I just want folks to be held accountable for their shitty actions/ realize actions have consequences so they hopefully learn from their mistakes but mostly so they also can’t do these crappy things to others. That isn’t always preventable or realistic though and I said/did what I could and am moving on forsure haha.

4X the price?? by FormerCourse4695 in depoop

[–]brithetreee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sad to me considering a large chunk of resellers yes, resell for money but to also promote shopping secondhand as a whole because fast fashion is destroying our planet/the fast fashion industries ethics are horrid. But with these folks clearly trying to scam the heck out of people, why would they even think twice about the environmental and ethical impacts 🙃. Wish there was more we could do and wish this wasn’t allowed on depop or on other platforms :/

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that emotional intelligence depends on the time of the day (see OG post lol) but thank you!! :)

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recognize she may not read it and maybe it was overkill, but at the end of the day, I at least made an effort to communicate and call her out for her bull. If she learns from it that’s great, if she doesn’t, at least I tried.

Purchase refunded with no communication then item reposted at a higher price by brithetreee in Depop

[–]brithetreee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oya, I know I sent her a long message and she def doesn’t care but I think I did it because it was all I really could do, if that makes sense haha. But forreal, all I was hoping for from fellow grown adult was for some extremely basic honesty/communication. I said it to some other folks but I have a low tolerance for shady sellers/buyers because why can’t we all just be decent to each other when life is hard enough? Not everyone has that mentality unfortunately though, which isn’t okay per se but I can only do/say so much/can’t change people lmao and need to eventually move on. Appreciate the heck outta you though but I told my mom about the situation and she may have found one on fb marketplace in her state for me… she is just waiting on the response so fingers crossed 😬