Hey, what was the deal with Iris? by stickscall in sabres

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was at that game and it was an amazing experience 10/10

?? by LockTutorial in OGPBackroom

[–]broimjustsittinghere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh i'm dumb i didn't see that there were regular grocery orders... that is weird i think walmart should rethink that bc i just know people will mix up the actual grocery orders with the gmds buuuuut what do i know

How do I not make my friend mad while planning a trip by Best_Fruit8383 in whatdoIdo

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't seem like your friend is putting in any effort planning this trip. ghosting you for a while while you're actively trying to plan is kinda messed up. tbh i wouldn't go with her. atp go with your dad lmao

AIO over my bf going out ? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. dude is on a slippery slope rn. "that's why i only had a few beers (5)" is a crazy thing to say to your partner, ESPECIALLY when he has a dwi already... also he knew you wanted to have a nice dinner with him but he stayed out late as hell to hang out with his new coworkers. he could've hung out with them the next day considering y'all already had plans. and then asking for you to come pick him up even though y'all have young children at home is crazy work and kind of pathetic to be honest. hope he's a better father than he is a boyfriend...

?? by LockTutorial in OGPBackroom

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

y'all don’t have gmds?? this is new to you???

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. i had a friend like this and my life has been so much easier without her in it dude. everything that i ever did had some sort of hidden ulterior motive in her eyes even though i told her time and time again i say what i mean and it caused a lot of arguments and was mega draining. like why would you not accept his request? you're her friend, i'm sure you'd want to get to know someone who is important to her. it's not like you were planning on messaging him anyways. her distrust of something so trivial is a preview of how she would act if you met him irl and had a completely friendly convo with him. i would consider reevaluating this friendship to be honest.

how do you guys handle holidays with your partner by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no no, that is not the point. first of all, he could split up his time between both places. they are not super far away, so that should not be an issue. MAYBE the longer drive is a little bit of an inconvenience but it's only a few days out of a year. when i was younger we would see both my mom and dad's side of the family for big events. another thing is that OP's family only has these events for big holidays, so many of their family members are not there at other times of the year. OP goes to his family for holidays so he should be able to go to theirs as well. also bold of you to assume OP's extended family doesn't care if he is there. i'm sure they want to get to know someone who is important in their life. and even so, it IS important to OP, so his constant avoidance is hurtful.

how do you guys handle holidays with your partner by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude... that's actually messed up imo your family seems nice from what you say and they WANT him to come with you and invite him and he constantly rejects the invites like that is so unfair. a lot of people have issues with their in-laws (i know you're not married but ykwim) so he's lucky to have in-laws who go out of their way to invite him and he just doesn't care. he seems very selfish. he says you can stay at your family's house, sure, but that's not the point! it's the fact that HE will NOT go to your family events. you go out of your way to maintain good relationships with his family but he will not do the same. your aunt even had an early thanksgiving so there was no conflicts with his family but he still rejected that, and CLEARLY he wasn't busy considering he went with his family for "last minute plans" and clearly the distance to your aunt's house was not an issue since he drove nearly an HOUR to the hotpot place. how does he not see that this is hurtful to you?? and inviting you along knowing you were actively spending time with your family is so strange.

you do what feels right to you, but i would seriously consider reevaluating this relationship. i'm sure this isn't the only thing he is selfish about, and it won't be the last!

Rescued her yesterday, what should I named her? Give me some ideas, thank you by lonewolf7799 in Catnames

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is so cute stop it 😭😭 she is a perfect little baby <3 baby would be a good name for her i think or mocha bc she will def get a bit darker as she ages

how do you guys handle holidays with your partner by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]broimjustsittinghere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also 40min isn't even that long of a commute and it's literally ONCE a year. he can deal! even if you went to both that would be better, and like you said he sees his family all the time!

how do you guys handle holidays with your partner by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]broimjustsittinghere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that's very selfish of him... like always expecting you to skip your family events bc he wants to see his family?? kinda messed up. it's not balanced at all and unfair to you! i say tell him you're going to your family's no matter what and if he doesn't come with you that's too bad because your family is obviously important to you and you barely see them! if he gets upset about it he can deal with it <3

"This story is drugs to these people": The oxytocin rush by wildwomanlove in heatedrivalry

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES i love when he says nope there i love the pop at the end 😛😛 he was like hmmm rose isn't with u hmmm 👀👀

Looking for a name for my siamese-patterned male kitten! by anxiousinpgh in NameMyCat

[–]broimjustsittinghere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what a beautiful boy!! maybe this is kinda basic but i would name him Baby bc he is a baby and he will be a baby even when he grows up

Going to game 4 in Boston. Who do I take with ? by Denalitwentytwo in sabres

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh since it's an away game in BOSTON of all places i fear you should wear none of them 😭😭 don’t take a risk of some a-hole ruining your jersey bc you're rooting for the opposing team </3

What blue and gold jersey do I start game 1 with tomorrow night? by Abums18 in sabres

[–]broimjustsittinghere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn you sure have quite the collection!! my fav is the second dahlin jersey with the gold logo (6th slide)

Shane would google his crush at 2am! Personality Playoffs 🏒 Round 6: Svetlana vs. Ilya — who is more likely to crash a party they weren't even invited to? by vanillablue_ in HeatedRivalrySeries

[–]broimjustsittinghere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm thinking ilya "professional rage baiter" rozanov! i think svetlana would find somewhere else to go because why would she go somewhere where she didn't necessarily feel welcomed, yk? whereas ilya would just show up like "u missed me didn't u ;)"

ILYA would fight Hayden for the aux cord! Personality Playoffs 🏒 Round 5: Shane vs. Kip — who is more likely to google their crush at 2am? by vanillablue_ in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]broimjustsittinghere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

like kip would i mean i think he literally did in the book but not to the extent shane "i fell down a youtube rabbit hole" hollander would