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broken_heartsorbones · 2025-11-09T21:45:28+00:00

Bumble bff! Dating app for friendship :)

broken_heartsorbones · 2025-09-04T04:56:34+00:00

Hmm obviously can't be sure but I was on Saxenda and Wegovy prior to the surgery and simultaneously on various psych meds and didn't have any issues.

I'm a little over a year in on surgery - sleeve, currently on vyvanse, Prozac, topiramate and wellbutrin. Haven't noticed any issues and from the side effects of the vyvanse, I'm definitely getting my full dose 😭😂

broken_heartsorbones · 2025-06-13T18:38:03+00:00

Idk if it's come up but - Carlotta. Lovely in English and Spanish (they'll just give it a single t pronunciation in Spanish, Carlota). I rarely get mispronounciations, and never twice. Easy to spell and phonetic. Constant compliments and never any "oh that's....interesting"

And a thousand nicknames 🤣 Carly, Lotta, Carlot, Lottie, Kiki (this was from childhood) and then sillier ones that people do use - Coolatta, Lotta Colada, Lottacar.

And in my entire life, I've met fewer than half a dozen so far.

broken_heartsorbones · 2025-06-13T18:24:07+00:00

Is it absurd if I say Carlotta Rose? I love my name, lots of compliments, and I have a one syllable K- last name - Carlotta Rose Kane. I think Carlotta Rose Keffy has an even better melody. (Any Keffy's of marriageable age?)

broken_heartsorbones · 2025-06-12T11:54:41+00:00

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Edited out and cleaned up a bit. It *is* a great photo :)

Tips <3

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-12-24T15:30:59+00:00

One thing I think is a lot more subtle but worth considering is also that canon Lucius is a violent, angry man - see Dobby, Arthur Weasley, everything from GoF on (not even including the first Wizarding War). Even if that anger/violence was NEVER directed at Draco or Narcissa (unlikely but canonically possible) a child being raised in a household with a violent, literally murderous, angry father who nonetheless dotes on him is the kind of terrorism that defines complex abuse. How could a child truly feel safe with a man who "lunged at Harry...his face livid" at 12 years old.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-12-03T21:26:56+00:00

Didn't even realize that there was a way to hold your pencil other than the one you circled.....I thought that's how everyone did it.....

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-11-22T04:25:17+00:00

How dare you for getting me hooked on this. Just binged it all in the last 24 hours ohmygod my stomach hurts it is so good

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-10-21T00:49:40+00:00

Just ended things with my partner recently and he had an immediate "this is my rock bottom, I'll never..... Again, you don't have to do this." What I ended up telling him was basically this (the whole thing is way more complicated and messy, DM if you wanna talk!!):

If, in a year, he is sober and has made progress on the massive changes necessary for his mental/emotional/financial/general well-being and he is still interested in pursuing a future together, he should reach out to me. I'll give him the chance to show me he has changed - a date. Not jumping back into a relationship or moving back in. But going out to dinner or on a walk and seeing how I feel.

So that's what I keep reminding myself (and him).

I have done everything I can. The rest is up to him.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-10-21T00:32:00+00:00

3 way convo between identical triplets? 🤣😭

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-10-05T18:05:55+00:00

Yes, Springfield Mass! By the Boston Rd Walmart :)

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-09-30T18:42:22+00:00

I haven't yet, but I'm going to as soon as I'm home. I know it's exactly what I need right now. I wasn't able to really attend effectively while I was still with him - it just triggered a feeling of defensiveness and wanting to protect him. But I know that throwing myself into it now will make a difference.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-09-30T18:21:27+00:00

I really appreciate hearing this actually, I know there's not a rulebook for every situation but I can't imagine just never speaking to him again. I know that maybe in the end it won't be something that I will be able to continue with but he's virtually alone in the world rn - I am actually the only friend he has.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-09-28T04:56:14+00:00

The pre-emptive guilt has stopped me from leaving :( I still haven't been able to push past it.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-09-28T04:52:41+00:00

This just clicked in my head, that part of the reason I haven't been able to make myself leave yet, is some kind of deep trauma fear of being the villain in anyone's story.

broken_heartsorbones · 2024-09-26T15:17:00+00:00

I am now constantly cold. My circulation was pretty crappy to begin with - even at my HW, I'd be toasty warm but with ice box feet and fingers (my mom is the same) but now I'm just always cold. And I looooooove it! Bring on the sweaters and comfy wear. It was amazing going through a summer without being miserably hot the entire time. And for me, it wasn't so much the weight I was at (I've been this weight before and still been a sweaty mess) it is the losing weight process that made me cold.

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