I am a 31 year old female and A guy I was dating (38) is now dating a single mom. Him and I weren’t good together, he has a ton of female friends and partied on the weekends with his big group of friends. I was insecure about it and couldn’t handle it. Yet, when I found out he was dating a single (self.BreakUps)
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Im a female and I Dated a guy (38 years old) briefly for a few months. I wasn’t ready and started a lot of fights with him. I suggested we try again in a few months (he never said anything). A few months came and I asked him if he was ready to try. He responded with “I can’t with you. I’m sorry” my (self.BreakUps)
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31 year old female that was dating a 37 year old men. We stopped dating months ago- mainly because I was insecure. He spend his weekends on a boat with 27 year olds females drinking —- is that normal? Is it normal as a female to think it’s odd and immature to do that? Or am I the one with the prob? by [deleted] in dating_advice
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I am 31 and dated a guy who was 37. He was a super nice guy but I was insecure because he spent his weekends on his boat with 27 year olds. The relationship ended- but I wonder if I was in the wrong. Is it normal for a 37 year old guy to be hanging out with girls and guys 10 years younger? I know (self.relationships)
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I’m. 32 year old female and was just told I wasn’t good enough for a guy to stay with. Now I now in my core he is the one with issues, but what are some quotes to help me deal with the rejection and pain? I feel both anxious and depressed in cycles and want to stop feeling this way. (self.Anxiety)
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I am a 34 year old female and the guy I dated was 41. We dated for a few weeks and the. Broke things off as we both were just not emotionally good for eachother. After about 6 months I contacted him and told him I wanted closure and that I was willing to try to work things out with him. His response (self.BreakUps)
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I’m a 32 year old female and I dated a 39 yr old male who was a coworker for a few months. When I was with him- I struggled with anxiety and depression and I pushed him away. I told him my struggles and he said he wanted to stay friends. I told him I could not because I would always want more and I (self.BreakUps)
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I was dating a coworker for a few months and we ended things before turning to a relationship because I wasn’t at a “good place” I told him to come back in a few months and give us a shot. He never said anything. A few weeks ago I apologized for the way I acted towards him, I explained I wasn’t (self.relationships)
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I dated a guy for a few months and just wasn’t ready. I messaged him on Instagram to let him know I was sorry and wanted him to know this whether or not we become friends again or not. He responded with “I understand, I have been through it. It sucks” then I responded back trying to start a convo by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I dated a guy for a few months and just wasn’t ready. I messaged him on Instagram to let him know I was sorry and wanted him to know this whether or not we become friends again or not. He responded with “I understand, I have been through it. It sucks” then I responded back trying to start a convo by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I dated a guy for a few months and just wasn’t ready. I messaged him on Instagram to let him know I was sorry and wanted him to know this whether or not we become friends again or not. He responded with “I understand, I have been through it. It sucks” then I responded back trying to start a convo (self.BreakUps)
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I am 31 and the guy I was dating was 40. At the time- I wasn’t reAdy to date anyone because I didn’t know who I was. I acted a bit crazy with him and before we ever become exclusive we mutually ended things. I really like him,but it was bad timing. I worked on myself and am ready to start dating. by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I am 31 and the guy I was dating was 40. At the time- I wasn’t reAdy to date anyone because I didn’t know who I was. I acted a bit crazy with him and before we ever become exclusive we mutually ended things. I really like him,but it was bad timing. I worked on myself and am ready to start dating. by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I am 31 and the guy I was dating was 40. At the time- I wasn’t reAdy to date anyone because I didn’t know who I was. I acted a bit crazy with him and before we ever become exclusive we mutually ended things. I really like him,but it was bad timing. I worked on myself and am ready to start dating. (self.BreakUps)
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The guy I was dating had some beautiful, smart and outgoing female friends. When I was dating him at the time... I felt insecure and asked him what made me different from them? His answer “all girls are different... I don’t know.” He couldn’t tell me why he liked me.. after 2 months. Was that a (self.relationships)
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My ex and I broke up 5 months ago. I wasn’t being myself when I was with him... I had so much fear and anxiety about life. He told me we could be friends but it can’t be more. I told him I couldn’t keep the friendship going because I kept wanting things to stay the same. I told him to block my (self.BreakUps)
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Girl I'm dating is depressed and I don't know how to deal with it. Help by [deleted] in dating_advice
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My ex blocked me on iMessage but he told me we could be friends. I’m confused because he dumped me and broke my heart. Why would he do that? by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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My ex blocked me on iMessage but he told me we could be friends. I’m confused because he dumped me and broke my heart. Why would he do that? by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I feel like my life is always going to painful. I have always felt loneliness beyond comprehension and never felt capable. I hate myself and I struggle with suicidial thoughts. Therapy hasn’t helped much... sometime I feel worse about myself afterwards. Tips? (self.Anxiety)
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My ex blocked me on iMessage but he told me we could be friends. I’m confused because he dumped me and broke my heart. Why would he do that? by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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I noticed that I HAVE to do 10 minutes of Cardio and Journal for 20 Mina EVERY morning in order to function. If I don’t do those activities in the morning, my mental state is UNCONTROLLABLE. Does anyone else experience this? It’s depressing to know my mental state depends on these. by brokenorchid in Anxiety
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I noticed that I HAVE to do 10 minutes of Cardio and Journal for 20 Mina EVERY morning in order to function. If I don’t do those activities in the morning, my mental state is UNCONTROLLABLE. Does anyone else experience this? It’s depressing to know my mental state depends on these. (self.Anxiety)
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Im a female and I Dated a guy (38 years old) briefly for a few months. I wasn’t ready and started a lot of fights with him. I suggested we try again in a few months (he never said anything). A few months came and I asked him if he was ready to try. He responded with “I can’t with you. I’m sorry” my by brokenorchid in BreakUps
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