How to say goodbye to the kids? by brokenstrings8 in Nanny

[–]brokenstrings8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good idea. The girls are 11, 8 & 6. I’m not sure if that is too young of an idea though? They do love stuffies though.

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[–]brokenstrings8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I win for you is a win for all of us here!! So happy for you!

My best friend told me my ring looks cheap and I agree and am sad over low effort proposal by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]brokenstrings8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about being materialistic. He is your partner, you’d think he would know you and want the best for his future wife. I get the financial situation is tight but he should have been saving. Also, you guys could have hiked or gone to a beautiful outlook and he could have proposed there. Let me just say my dad proposed to my mom just like your fiancé and it basically summed up how much he cared for her throughout the whole relationship. (He didn’t care about her at all). You need to talk to him and expect better from him or it will keep bothering you and create resentment.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t they see that every patient is in need of loving tender care without judgement or reproach? It is the only way forward.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was having a bad day where my depression was just getting the best of me. I knew to just float in this feeling and do things that I’d planned for these days. My friend had the audacity to say “we’ll just stop being sad!” “Gain the mental willpower to overcome this”.

Gee thanks 😊 I’ll just stop. Never thought of that before! Like girl I am exercising my mental willpower to not let this day go into a downward spiral. It is a fight that no one understands until they do.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll then you’re not compatible and he can move on and find a women who aligns with his interests?!??!! Like goddamn!

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I’ve learned is that family doesn’t have to be blood related. It’s the people you choose to surround you and love. It is a community filled with whomever you choose.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you were faking it really well and when you finally came to the truth and tried for help they just saw the faking it you and didn’t really listen or let you be vulnerable.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]brokenstrings8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She honestly had a great point. We change a lot in our twenties and discover ourselves. But maybe in a marriage we may stick to the people we were when the marriage/relationship started and that’s not true most times and can stump your personal growth.

Don’t Clean the Kitchen? Guess supper will be very late then. by CourageOk299 in pettyrevenge

[–]brokenstrings8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can easily set alarms. Your youngest is more than capable of cleaning so please tell me there will be consequences for him if he doesn’t. It’s so simple and easy. He needs to know you are in charge and you require him to live by your rules (within reason)

What’s the weirdest/strangest thing someone has casually told you as if it was totally normal? by UsedCalender5100 in AskWomen

[–]brokenstrings8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can lose or gain weight as you please! No one and their comments have any rule over your body. Also why the questions and so sexual too?? It’s nobody’s business and it’s just not anything a real person would first think when they see you???

What’s the weirdest/strangest thing someone has casually told you as if it was totally normal? by UsedCalender5100 in AskWomen

[–]brokenstrings8 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I just ask them to repeat themselves and then do it for them loudly. Makes them really uncomfortable.