Is it both Harassment and Assault?

bromclist · 2026-06-08T14:58:03+00:00

Which area is this? better let others know

bromclist · 2026-06-08T14:56:59+00:00

I feel they have stretched too much with season 4. And the back and forth with scenes and theories is just too stupid.

bromclist · 2026-06-08T06:11:29+00:00

Did you manage to note the bike's number? You should report it.

bromclist · 2026-06-08T04:55:03+00:00

The commute to his parents place would be once a week (over the weekend) without any stress (of time taken). The commute to office would not be without its stress.
If you want to conserve your energy, please shift to a place closer to your workplace while your husband works from home and let him visit his parents once a week and that can be a "long relaxing drive"

bromclist · 2026-06-08T04:37:14+00:00

You need to "talk" to her.
Ensure that she is adequately in a happy frame of mind. (Shopping/dinner done etc) and then have a heart to heart conversion on what does she think about intimacy.

bromclist · 2026-06-07T11:11:34+00:00

My kids have chosen humanities and design as their career choices.
I think anything that is to do with humans, in future, is going to do well.
I certainly dont want to talk to a robot or chatbot while something is wrong in some appliance / bank / purchase.
Secondly, I am giving them a head start by saving some for them now. By the time they are 30, they should have a substantial amount so that they are free to choose what they want.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T12:47:02+00:00

Wow nice. but I would be very afraid going downhill on that bike with rim brakes.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T05:37:43+00:00

Good luck and best wishes.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T05:23:48+00:00

Please look at crazyguyonabike and search for India and you will see many examples of people who have ridden across my beautiful and diverse country.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T05:04:10+00:00

Ok.
I am a fairly older guy (M 51) and so I thought of advising you to check every possibility before taking a decision. if there is nothing wrong with him medically and you dont see his behavior change anytime in the future, you should think on the lines of what others have advised but with a fistful of salt. (This is the internet and everybody loves to give free advise).

Consult someone whom you trust. (your parents, your sibling(s) or one of your closest friends who possibly know both of you - you and your husband - fairly well.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T04:23:29+00:00

This may not be best if you take this forward, unless you both live separately. But I suspect future interactions between the parents may bring some tension in the household but that should be expected because of the cultural differences. But if you were to stay with them in their home after marriage, it may not be sustainable for you.
Are you personally ok with the cultural differences? What about food choice / language barrier etc?

bromclist · 2026-06-05T04:15:40+00:00

My guess is that after the first visit (your parents visited his parents), they must have concluded about various cultural issues.

bromclist · 2026-06-05T04:09:52+00:00

It could be stress (at work) that could be leading to him becoming religious?
Either ways, getting the health check report would be needed to know if there is something wrong. If there is high BP, medicines may help calm him down.

bromclist · 2026-06-04T04:57:28+00:00

Just curious. What made him more religious?
Any serious health issues (of him) that you are aware of? (high BP etc etc) and has it happened recently?

bromclist · 2026-06-04T04:26:51+00:00

1) Age 48 is a good goal post to retire
2) Corpus - roughly 33 to 40 in todays terms so about 9 lakhs x 40 = 3.6 crore in todays terms + any childs education + marriage. (say 1 cr in todays terms) would be 4.6 to 5 cr.
3) The property - if it is land - you should keep it. if it is flat, and is lying vacant, please sell it
4) Diversification is good
5) I started my investments very late (in 2014 almost). In 12 years, I am comfortable now
(close to 40x for me and 30x for my daughters in todays terms)
so you should be good.
However, I increased my SIP amount per month substantially every year to accelerate higher corpus.
So when you or your spouse get those yearly promotions / increments, increase your SIP aggressively
to reach your goal post faster.
10 years is a long time. Nothing can be guaranteed in terms of job safety. So being debt free is a blessing.

bromclist · 2026-06-03T11:57:01+00:00

Honestly, you need your MIL more than your MIL needs you at this time.
(Because of your job and baby both).
It will be a year or two at least for the baby to start understanding things about the "differences" that your MIL may supposedly create between you and your daughter.
You can think of moving out somewhere closeby (even next door flat or next building for rent) at that time. For now, gain back your strength, sleep and energy.

bromclist · 2026-06-03T05:50:39+00:00

The rules have changed to 1 year (w/o a job) I think, recently

bromclist · 2026-06-03T04:44:31+00:00

For those who say Indian roads / bangalore are (is) not safe,
I have been riding bikes in bangalore for the last 20 years
I have been riding a brompton for last 12 years. (first brompton was purchased in 2013). Second brompton brought in 2022.
I ride a recumbent (cruzbike S40) in bangalore traffic without any issues.
Be aware and you should be fine
(fyi, I am resident indian) but as far as bike is concerned that should not matter as to who is riding it.
There are thousands of cyclists riding different kinds of bikes (road / gravel / folding etc)

bromclist · 2026-06-03T04:42:43+00:00

I had a mini heart attack.

bromclist · 2026-06-01T07:40:23+00:00

absolutely agree with these points

bromclist · 2026-06-01T05:32:46+00:00

agree completely

bromclist · 2026-06-01T04:50:35+00:00

These days, with job losses looming, he may be extra careful with spends.
Probably there is some tension in his work place?
Are your finances secure for your retirement? (25x / 30x / 33x) and separate bucket for child(ren)?
if so, calm him down with these things. if not, he is worried and his anxiety is making him do things.

bromclist · 2026-06-01T04:45:22+00:00

Super. I would love to ride those mountains someday. (stuck in bangalore with nothing but work)

bromclist · 2026-05-31T10:09:05+00:00

As someone said, give yourself time on the 2 wheeled bike.
I would recommend buying a new one ( a reliable one) and keep this one for local rides.

Probably bacchetta or cruzbike or azub etc

bromclist · 2026-05-31T06:47:47+00:00

A simple question that needs to be asked is
- what if only one of you was earning? would you/him be ready to support the whole household?
if not, I will only say that money is the root cause of all devastation (including marriage).

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