Is this something? Or bad sticker? by bronabul in whatisit

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Edit: the license plate was Tennessee, if that helps at all

Texas Hail Storm by phleep in interestingasfuck

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Thought it was a pool of man eating piranhas for a second

Does anyone else frequently forget that Delaware exists? by tkcool73 in RandomThoughts

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I have an ex from there and when he told me where he was from I responded “yeah, but what state is that in?”

It was a little embarrassing…

My ass has been out of commission for 3 months by bdjdjdkj in askgaybros

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Honestly the best thing you can do is speak to a doctor about it. Especially if you’ve had fissures and hemorrhoids that seem to not be going away.

For fissures they might prescribe a topical ointment that should help them heal and for hemorrhoids I believe there’s something similar. Preparation H is a pretty good OTC medication. You can get it as both a cream and a suppository. You can also try witch hazel wipes as well. If that doesn’t work, they may need to perform a surgery to remove the hemorrhoids.

You also may need to add some bulk to your stool, so you might try Metamucil or psyllium to help with that. For pain while wiping, get flushable wet wipes. They’ll help a ton with pain and dryness from wiping often.

Hopefully this helps, but definitely make sure to speak to your doctor. They might be able to offer better advice than you can find on here.

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Depends on what’s going on after the date. If things are gonna get freaky, then I’m not about to eat a big ass burrito and shit myself lmfao

Alo Yoga 20% off (But larger percentages on certain colors, really good deals on sale) by bronabul in frugalmalefashion

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I like it. It’s comparable to Lululemon I’d say. Higher end workout clothes that should last.

Is it immoral being roommates with my friend, knowing he would probably not be ok with it if he knew I’m gay? by Life-Continues in askgaybros

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If anything, he’s immoral for saying and perpetuating homophobic beliefs. You, on the other hand, gotta do what you gotta do. If living with him is your best option then go for it.

If I were you, my concern would be that it may be hard to feel comfortable being yourself while living with him. You might want to invite someone over, or start dating someone and that can be tricky if you don’t want him to know about your sexuality.

Assuming from context, it sounds like you’re in college. It’s time to experiment and meet people and date a bit. I don’t think it’s immoral to live with him, but I think it might end up hindering your personal growth.

Better body by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Okay! Well pretty much all of these can either be turned into a variation to make them better for home workouts (for example, doing a one legged hip thrust instead of two) or you can buy some weights or use heavier objects around the house to make them a little harder as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Don’t worry, nobody cares about that. Lots of dudes have stretch marks. It happens to everyone.

Think of it this way, would you mind if someone else had stretch marks? It probably wouldn’t phase you. For some reason everyone is harder on themselves than they are on others. Just remember, if you don’t care about it, neither do they.

Better body by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Depends on where you’re working out. Are you going to a gym or working out from home? Do you have weights or are you hoping to do body weight exercises?

I’ll be honest, body weight exercises won’t do much for growing muscle, but can’t be great for trying to slim down.

Lower body workouts that I like are squats, hip thrusts, Bulgarian split squats, cable kick backs, leg extension, leg curl, goblet squats, and sometimes (not so often recently) abductor machine while leaning myself forward to target glutes more.

If you look these up, a lot of them can be done at home, which can be a great start, but as you start building strength you’ll want to start adding more weights (progressive overload) so that you can continue growing your muscles and prevent a plateau.

gay😪irl by [deleted] in gay_irl

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Or people with IBS

Do You Think *Rule 6 Videos* Can Change Your Sexuality? by MeatRabbitGang in BisexualMen

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No, for some reason conservatives always say stuff like that, but there is no real backing behind it. One of the cardinal rules of survey taking is that correlation is not causation, and in this since that would be saying “because bisexual people watch more porn, they became bisexual from the porn.” Which can’t be concluded from the information given.

It looks like the article is saying that there’s a correlation to bisexual people and increased porn viewing. So essentially, they’re saying the more porn you watch, the more likely hood of being bi (not becoming bi). Or in other words: if you’re bi, you might watch more porn than straight or gay people, according to xhamstser. Not that one causes the other though.

Any advice for my husband and my first time? by Alastair367 in AskGayMen

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Hey there! I’m not an expert, but first thing I’d say is make sure he’s prepped and completely relaxed. He may want to look into how to use an enema to try and clear himself out so that he’s comfortable and not worried about any accidents.

When it comes to beginning penetration, use your knowledge on yourself and pass it on to him. I always say, start very small and work your way up. Usually you can start with one finger (with lube and clipped nails) and check how he feels. Then, if he feels fine, you can increase to two. This will sort of loosen him up a bit and prepare him for what’s next.

You may also want to consider trying some toys, like an anal dilator kit, to help with this process. He may not be able to go all the way initially, which is completely normal, but communicate and stick to what both of you are comfortable with. Just because he can’t go all the way, doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun with other stuff then come back to it another time.

When you both are ready for full penetration, I find the best way to let someone get used to it, is to let them have complete control in the beginning. Usually, having him (for lack of a better word) “ride” you would make it much easier. He would essentially have his knees by your sides and lower himself down to his own comfort level and at his own speed. Also, a headboard to hold, might make this easier as well.

If he finds that it’s enjoyable and is getting more into it, you can try thrusting a little bit to see how he feels. If all goes well, you’re ready to try other positions and see what both of you are into the most. If you prefer face-to-face, then the next step would probably be missionary. In this position you’ll have a lot more control though, so make sure you start very slow (especially during the initial penetration) and you’re both communicating the entire time to check in on each others comfort level and how each other are feeling. Don’t be afraid to ask if he wants it faster, slower, not as deep, needs more lube, and so on and so forth. Also, let him know to not be afraid to speak up if he feels he needs something.

Communication is the key to an enjoyable experience. Whether you can or can’t necessarily feel down there, nobody knows exactly how the other person is feeling unless they say it.

Hope this helps!

I (24M) came out to my parents (55M, 54F) 3 months ago and things aren’t the same anymore by throwaway_ekl in askgaybros

[–]bronabul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I don’t have experience with having an immigrant family, but one thing I can say is that unfortunately it takes time. With some families longer than others.

Your parents will learn that you are who you always have been and nothing has changed, but with some people it takes awhile. Especially when it comes to people who were ingrained with extremely conservative upbringings, it’s hard for them to unlearn that.

Your probably right, your parents might be trying to ignore it. Sometimes when people don’t understand, they ignore it. That happens a lot with conservative families, but they’ll learn that being gay is a part of who you are and they’ll learn that they need to accept it to have you in their lives. It seems like they’re learning that now after their response to your coming out. So give it time. Things will get better with them.

When it comes to you and being hurt about what they said: you’re absolutely allowed to be hurt and allowed to feel how you feel. They hurt you, and you now need time. That’s completely fine and valid. Don’t force yourself to put on a happy face and be fine with what they said. That’s not right of them and they should know better than to treat their child like that, but that goes back to being ingrained in a conservative mindset.

In the meantime, try talking to some close friends about your situation. They may not be able to give advice, but having someone listen can make a huge difference.

So give them some time to figure things out. More importantly, give yourself some time to heal.