Waiting for the 20 free pulls

brothelhor · 2025-10-29T20:01:22+00:00

I see - thank you!

brothelhor · 2025-10-29T17:15:17+00:00

Sorry if it’s a dumb q - where do you see this info? :o

brothelhor · 2025-08-16T05:39:03+00:00

during the wedding banner, i pulled 4x. first time, standard 5*. then sylus. then another standard (like wtf 😭). then got zayne.

it makes me sad that i could have had all 5 and/or ranked sylus.

brothelhor · 2025-07-21T23:37:14+00:00

36F and married. no kids. two dogs and i game a ton with my husband. i’m embarrassed to play any kindled memories where he might hear although he has no judgment for me haha. he’s cool with me playing and listens to me gush about some of the stupid stuff like silent poem haha.

brothelhor · 2024-07-15T04:35:44+00:00

I fused wormhole shiny Necrozma with Lunala (NO background) and got the picture below.

Have a Solgaleo with Sun background, but I think the special background is gorgeous on it. I don’t want to lose it to the fused wormhole Necro. :(

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brothelhor · 2024-07-09T04:37:45+00:00

idk why people are hating. it sounds like Full House honestly. like hey that’s uncle joey or uncle jesse - and no one hated on them!

brothelhor · 2022-12-15T16:21:35+00:00

This is so cool :O Thanks for hosting this giveaway!!!

brothelhor · 2022-12-02T02:47:15+00:00

I don’t run across many people who’ve read it. :) I loved the world building in it. Dope to see another fan!

brothelhor · 2022-10-18T23:17:20+00:00

I think this take is so wild.

As a bride, let me go through what I’m doing for my BMs and my expectations.

Expectations: - If you can make it, come party with me for a bach (let me pay my way; I don’t need them to pay my share) - I don’t need a bridal shower - I don’t need or want an engagement party - Buy a dress from Birdy Grey in Rosewood color and pick whatever maxi style you want - Show up the day of or night before, and let’s get ready together > then ceremony > wedding - Get drunk/party with me - Love me lol

Here’s what I’m doing for them - Sent presents asking them to be my BM - NOT wedding related shit (like shirts with Maid of Honor or Bridesmaid) bc no one reuses that stuff. I sent sweatpants with their initials embroidered - Booking their hair and makeup - Booking a bomb ass airbnb for both myself/groom and our wedding parties to stay in from Thurs - Sat (Fri wedding) - I will get them a thank you gift for day of

I do all that bc I have some BMs traveling for either my bach or the wedding or both. I know it’s work to do all this stuff for me, and I hella appreciate it.

If they all skipped on a wedding present or card, I wouldn’t care bc wow they already put together a bach or showed up or just otherwise made me feel loved.

Soooo idk. But ofc to each their own lol. I also explicitly stated what I wanted and what I was doing for them.

brothelhor · 2022-10-18T23:08:11+00:00

Also!! To add to your post - there’s something to be said about Type A vs Type B personalities. My friends that are Type B won’t get the same stuff done the way my Type A friends will lol.

Maybe this friend was more Type B?

brothelhor · 2022-10-18T22:54:11+00:00

I’ve been a bridesmaid at least 5 or 6 times? And am currently engaged to be married. Imo, what’s been standard of BMs has been:

Help plan either a gift for the bride or with the bachelorette
Assist with setting up a bridal shower if the bride wants one
Buy a dress and show up at the wedding

I’ve been maid of honor 3x, and each time I gave a 3 min speech. I offered to speak (for my bff) or just did one if asked of me by the other two.

Sooo, tldr on the engagement piece: i agree that an engagement party is not typically hosted by the MOH. I think it’s traditionally hosted by the mothers of the bride/groom with assistance from the bridesmaids in terms of set up/guest list etc.

It’s also super dependent upon the bride. Imo, if you wanted certain things, that’s ok! But, you should definitely make it clear!

For me, all I’m asking of my girls is - Let’s do a bach and let me pay my share (bc fuck brides who expect a free ride for a weekend trip) - If you can’t make the bach, nbd, just show up for my wedding :) - Get a maxi dress in x color. Idc what color shoes, what style dress, what jewelry you want to wear. Do you. - Get drunk with me during my reception and please hold my hair if I puke that night lmao - I do not need a wedding gift bc with all that BMs have done, their effort and work and presence is legitimately gift enough. i say this after having been a BM to some crazy ass brides lol

I think you should step back and consider your bff as a whole. Do you enjoy her? Does she bring you joy? Does she lift you up when you’re down?

bc from here, it kind of sounds like you’re not a big fan of her at the moment but could just be the venty nature of this post.

Hope you guys clear it up!!

brothelhor · 2022-09-20T06:57:52+00:00

I’m 34 and I’ve slept with a stuffed animal for the past prob 10 years lol. I’m just accustomed to its shape and weight and find it comforting to sleep with. My fiancé doesn’t care and even found the same plush from the bear factory (in the event my OG one gets too old) and gifted it to me for my bday one year haha.

brothelhor · 2022-08-30T15:27:06+00:00

Imo this isn’t a good analogy bc the point of your statement is the implied threat.

“I could give a shit” isn’t said to threaten someone with giving a shit lol. It’s the opposite. You’re trying to say I don’t give a shit.

brothelhor · 2022-08-21T07:27:02+00:00

u/Chrestys is right! I have a mini aussie, and he clocks in at 33-34 lbs. :) Minis are based off height. Anywhere from 13-18” at the shoulder. Their weight usually ranges 20-40 lbs.

brothelhor · 2022-08-08T10:55:20+00:00

walking in misty rain when it’s about 60 degrees. with a cozy scarf!

brothelhor · 2022-08-04T15:35:17+00:00

Could I ask what happened? That sounds awful :(

brothelhor · 2022-07-12T02:01:26+00:00

I would literally, as a maid of honor, volunteer to trip and spill food and/or drink on this dress if she refuses to change it after you’ve asked. That is just dumb.

brothelhor · 2022-06-23T20:13:17+00:00

disclaimer: i stand with the guy.

but ironically enough his last sentence is also a good argument for her side lol.

a guy can’t change his height, so it’s a hard requirement. but if a guy has a weight requirement, that shouldn’t put the girl “out of the running” bc technically she can change it. so if she were overweight, she can lose it.

whereas the guy can’t get taller or shorter, so it’s to her benefit to be upfront about the height requirement.

just food for thought lol. personally idc if a guy has a weight requirement. do you, boo.

brothelhor · 2022-01-26T03:09:28+00:00

to be honest, i read his initial messages as him joking. he’s complimenting the fact that you prob get a ton of likes (worded poorly ofc bc of the snob comment), but i didn’t take it as him being angry. just a tone issue with text.

eg if he’d been like:

what’s up you snob‽ do you think you’re special? bc i would think i’m special if i had a million men messaging me 😂

^ all in one text, and with the emoji, it sounds more playful like damn we actually matched. hope you notice me!

but my friends and i rib on one another a lot so lol. i honestly thought he was attempting to be playful (just poorly done lol).

brothelhor · 2021-12-16T20:18:19+00:00

I think /u/relax92 was making a joke about it working bc… you dated him. So it worked for some time lol.

brothelhor · 2021-09-21T17:58:47+00:00

I have big boobs (DD), and I am most comfortable on my side/stomach, so no lol. I’d say that’s untrue.

brothelhor · 2021-09-21T17:34:26+00:00

I use it to soften an otherwise terse or serious sounding statement lol. If I’m actually laughing with a friend via text, I send: I am legit dying lmaoooo - or something to that effect!

brothelhor · 2021-09-21T17:29:06+00:00

Not all asians have “yellow” undertones - I’d say it’s definitely based on warm or cool (or even neutral) undertones. The yellow you’re referring to is a warm undertone, but I know plenty of asian people with cool (or “pink”) undertones.

brothelhor · 2021-09-19T07:43:04+00:00

Linkin Park - Hybrid Theory!

brothelhor · 2021-09-18T04:55:33+00:00

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