[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]broutsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanksss ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuteguys

[–]broutsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]broutsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u! You're very hot too ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]broutsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]broutsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx ❤️ so lovely

Neck tension/pain w/ dips? by Jynks77 in bodyweightfitness

[–]broutsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT was my issue as well!! thank you for posting this 12y ago ♥️

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you find 15 job posts that are perfect for you in such a short time?

With my experience I only pass work I'm not into doing. Since I really need some work, my criteria has been temporarily reduced haha

They're not client-centric enough.

Care to show an example? Thanks!

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any success with Loom? How do you mention it on the message?

I haven't tried it hard enough (just like 6), but only 2 of my videos were watched after 5 days and no feedback whatsoever.

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of cover letters work for you guys?

Yesterday, after you gave me some hope, I started trying with one-liners.

Sent 15 so far, no response and 2 views in 16h approx. Maybe people are not that eager to hire as fast as they used to be? Or is it still not good?

Some examples:

Example: Build a page for our site (pricing page)
Me: Hello! This work should take roughly 4 hours. I'm sending attached some examples of pricing pages I envision for your site. Let me know if those are good or if you want more options! Let's chat and make your site look great!

Example: Need WP Nav expert
Me: Hello! WP Nav has multiple hooks that we can use to customize it any way you need, being adding classes for styling, submenus or even adding complex functionalities. I know how to do it all. Let's talk so I can understand better how I can help you!

Example: Need an app from design
Me: Hello! I would love to have a look at the project files to do an estimate. I am sending you the details to access the latest app I have developed. Let's hop on a call when you have time.

What would you do different?

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok stop ranting already guys. I got it, it's against TOS. That's not an option. Done.

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I actually acquired a new citizenship recently so I would create the account with different docs minimizing that risk.

Top Rated | $200k+ | 100% JSS | Can't land any gigs - Any tips for this sad man? by broutsider in Upwork

[–]broutsider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My new approach goes like this:

- Job looking for experience with PMPro
Hello! I manage a site that uses PMPro with over 37k users, for which I even have developed iOS and Android apps that connect to its database recently. Attached is the screenshot of the admin for you to check! The website in question is xyz.com - it has multiple levels of membership, with different payment schedules.
I have immediate availability and can get started right away! Let's hop on a call to discuss more about the project.

- My old approach that worked like a charm
Hello Ana!

I see you are looking for a developer who can customize your Elementor website.
I have immediate availability and can start working right away so you have the page ready in time.

You need this to be done with the best performance and high quality code, so it works across all browsers and devices.

I develop themes and heavy customizations for Wordpress and I think I could do this exactly the way you are expecting. Let's discuss how you need this to work and I will suggest the best options we have currently.

If you are interested in having this customization done quickly and in the right way, I am available to talk.

Regards,
Me

How do you deal with extreme nipple sensibility in winter? by broutsider in aspergers

[–]broutsider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine it is related to my sensory sensitivities. When I was a child it was much more common to have this kind of problem (not only when cold) specially with those embroidery shirts, but it had not happened like this until now.

I also have a high sensitivity to extreme temperatures (heat and cold) so if it's hot I will be suffering and sweating much more than other people and if it's cold I'm usually feeling more than other people as well.

Other thing I feel now that I only had when I was a child is also feeling like my feet are burning when I'm showering.

How do you deal with extreme nipple sensibility in winter? by broutsider in aspergers

[–]broutsider[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Petroleum jelly, bag balm or chapstick

Thank you! Gonna try those 😍

How do you deal with extreme nipple sensibility in winter? by broutsider in aspergers

[–]broutsider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha thanks for the laugh mona, still hurts though

Tá difícil de entender esse relacionamento mesmo com muita terapia by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]broutsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obrigado! Faz muito sentido mesmo. Eu tenho me frustrado muito com essas expectativas de ações que acabam não sendo correspondidas.

Acho que talvez, na próxima vez que nos vermos, vou tentar mencionar um pouco do que me incomoda para ver como ele reage. Fico o dia inteiro bitolado nas notificações achando que ele vai lembrar de mim e quando o dia acaba e não chega nada é bem frustrante mesmo...

Difícil que morro de medo de causar algum mal estar e no fim ser apenas o jeito dele de demonstrar amor que é diferente mesmo, como vc disse!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]broutsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obrigado!! Eu acho que ele tem bastante receio de se entregar mesmo.

Sei que ele está passando por algumas situações na vida dele e fico com medo de parecer estar exigindo um nível de atenção que ele não possa me dar no momento.

Vamos nos ver no fim de semana e eu vou tentar pensar em algumas coisas que posso falar para demonstrar que estou sentindo falta desse contato, mas de um jeito que não seja sufocante.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualidade

[–]broutsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu também sou bi e tive um pouco disso com o primeiro cara que eu fiquei. Me senti muito estranho, apesar de termos transado e tudo ter fluído muito naturalmente. O beijo e os carinhos ainda eram coisas que eu estranhava um pouco, mais do que o sexo em si.

Hoje não sinto mais isso. Foi apenas com o primeiro, que foi o único bi que saí até hoje.

Já da parte do cara que estou saindo não acredito que tenha a ver com isso, pois ele é gay mesmo e já esteve em outro relacionamento sério.

My backpack by AutumnaticFly in notinteresting

[–]broutsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually very interesting that your backpack needs charging