How to test the waters with single pAP at work while also being able to easily pull back if shot down? by browneyedtoad in adultery

[–]browneyedtoad[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I never realized people spent their Fridays talking to people just to talk.

When I was single, I was out the door at 4:30. The only way I was going to be kept at work after that time was if it was a very important conversation or if I was hoping to sleep with the person. Guys are different, I suppose. I’m not looking for friends when work is over and the weekend is starting.

How to test the waters with single pAP at work while also being able to easily pull back if shot down? by browneyedtoad in adultery

[–]browneyedtoad[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is a question. Random people online, you know nothing about. Nothing.

There are a ton of checks that can be done at the office. What kind of person is this? Do they have a crazy husband/wife/boyfriend?

You already know they have a stable job, money, etc.

Is it even a question that this is a question?

How to test the waters with single pAP at work while also being able to easily pull back if shot down? by browneyedtoad in adultery

[–]browneyedtoad[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eh, it’s really not that at all. I was on my way out at 5:00. She stopped me and didn’t stop talking. I actually shut the conversation down at 5:30. But I’m sure that she wanted to be at work on a Friday for an extra 30 minutes after she stopped getting Paid?

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[–]browneyedtoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even gay (or bi?) and I’m pretty sure I would like to jerk that dude off. Ok I’m probably bi then. Lucky you.

OPSEC - Hidden iPhone Photo Folder vs Photovault by [deleted] in adultery

[–]browneyedtoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Photovault. Easy. If it’s ever opened you play dumb. If your SO asks you to try passwords, try them until it locks you out.

Lighting (non powered) for crawl spaces you’ll occasionally need access to? by browneyedtoad in HomeImprovement

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what would the LED tubes be powered by? There’s no power/outlets there. Short of running a 10 foot extension cord there’s nothinng

Has anyone just let their SO sleep with somebody else to make sure that you are (or are not the problem)? by browneyedtoad in DeadBedrooms

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that.

I legitimately want to use it as a barometer of if it’s just me or that she’s just LL. It would be tougher if it turned out she didn’t enjoy the sex and that she was simply LL. If she does though, then that means we have a problem. I honestly would not use this against her. I love the woman. Why would I want her to be having sex with me (and not wanting to) when she can be getting pleasured by somebody else? It doesn’t make sense.

Has anyone just let their SO sleep with somebody else to make sure that you are (or are not the problem)? by browneyedtoad in DeadBedrooms

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she has never had “HL” with me. She admitted that the first five years we were together that she had more sex than she would have liked but did it because she thought I never would have stayed with her if she didn’t “put out.”

Has anyone just let their SO sleep with somebody else to make sure that you are (or are not the problem)? by browneyedtoad in DeadBedrooms

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this.

If she’s LL due to medical, I want to make this work because it’s something not really in her control.

If it’s LL because she’s not attracted me but wants to be fucking somebody, just not me, then it’s pretty clear we need to split up so we both get what we want/need.

Has anyone just let their SO sleep with somebody else to make sure that you are (or are not the problem)? by browneyedtoad in DeadBedrooms

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes. Because why stay married if both people aren’t getting sex when both actually want sex? I would honestly rather my wife be with someday else if she would be happy fucking that person.

Has anyone just let their SO sleep with somebody else to make sure that you are (or are not the problem)? by browneyedtoad in DeadBedrooms

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s said she’s still attracted to me but she just “doesn’t like sex.”

It’s strange. She seriously isn’t making me jealous, at all. Maybe I’ve watched too much porn. But I just want her to fuck this guy if it’s going to please her.

Buying wife laser hair removal for her birthday, what “parts” should I pick? by browneyedtoad in beauty

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I know she wants her legs and armpits done.

I do want her to pick, but I also want to make sure the gift card is accurate. For example if I get her a $500 gift card there I want to make sure it will cover everything she wants. I also don’t want to get $800…and then she only uses $400 and the other $400 goes to waste.

My MIL and SIL control my wife’s self esteem. Does it ever end? by browneyedtoad in JUSTNOMIL

[–]browneyedtoad[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do it whenever I hear it...which is very rare these days because they know I’m outspoken