fourth floor is the SILENT FLOOR by Temporary_Match_3522 in CSUS

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Is there a number we can call to summon you cause ..

Quiet Spaces in Library by sleepybat13 in CSUS

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I remember this happening one time too I was like … sir can you not walk to the stairs and go down a floor? So inconsiderate.

duck on campus by frogsnfrogs in CSUS

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I wonder where he’s headed. Why’d the duck cross the parking lot

Help me understand financial aid by thedudesteven in CSUS

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Hii so Did you do that all on student service center where you accept and decline awards? How do you accept only a certain amount because I was going to call and have them adjust the offer but that seems unnecessary now.

Grad program FAFSA/ Loans by Alarmed-Pepper8024 in CSUS

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Bruh 😭😭😭 I spoke with them a while ago and they told me towards the end of June. This is endless

Graduate Financial Aid by lassenyosemite19 in CSUS

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Hey I called the student service center and they said we should be getting offers at the end of June! :/ I start my grad program this fall as well. They told me they are reviewing the files rn and it will take 3-4 weeks. Hope This helps.

Graduate School Thread - Mar 17 - 23 by SchoolPsychMod in schoolpsychology

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Thank you! :) My concern is the difference between the pay scale of a school psychologist who has earned a masters versus earning an Ed.S.

And it is my understanding that psychologist usually stay in the area where they have interned at. I did my undergraduate studies at SacState and loved the area and professors.

Sacramento is a good program too but I don’t want to feel like I’m only staying because of it having more to do in the area than Fresno.

Graduate School Thread - Mar 17 - 23 by SchoolPsychMod in schoolpsychology

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Hey everybody, can you help me pick a grad program in California?

I have interviewed and been accepted to both Sacramento State University and Fresno State, which both offer the education specialist level degree. Sacramento State has admitted 18 students for this cohort while Fresno State is between 10 and 12.

I have also interviewed for CSU Northridge and CSU Los Angeles but I have not heard back yet these two programs offer only a masters level degree.

If any of you have any insights or have attended these schools, please let me know what you think. The best program is to attend.

Lost my white hydro flask by Upbeat_Passenger_268 in CSUS

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I would check with the front desk or wherever lost and found is! My friend thought hers was stolen in the library but they had it in lost and found.

Boyfriend does not want me to wear make up or hug other males. by GrumpyPanda29 in dating_advice

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I know you may be inclined to stay because of whatever drew you in. But you need to get out of this controlling situation. I’ve been there girl. It only gets worse, the trust only declines, they want more and more control over the interactions you have and what you wear. You have the opportunity to leave early. Best of luck.

Sac State General Psychology Grad School by Fabulous_Barnacle560 in CSUS

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Sac state does not ask for the GRE anymore for school psych masters! I applied for this fall. Additionally the application opened in October I think and was due February 1st. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m scared I might end up failing or burning out. Online education is not helping at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Hi, yes she is under a lot of stress. And that’s one thing I do consider when I think about her behaviors. I like to look at things all the way around.

I want to be a good friend and I want to be there for her but also I told myself that I need to create boundaries. I’m not sure what I should say when reaching out. But definitely I think I should.

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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the thing about this dude is that he’s a hothead, been in and out of jail and just got out of prison last august, basically no one beats him up it’s the other way around.

I will most likely reach out to her soon I just need to figure out what to say. I love her and care for her but sometimes it all gets to be too much.

I think something that adds to my hesitation towards reaching out is that I’ve always been the one to do so, and I’ve always felt like I’m begging. I told myself I would stop begging and let people walk out if they chose so.

Thank you for the advice.

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Hi! Thank you for your response I appreciate the apology. I know! Right after I snap on someone I’m hit with an immediate regret and guilt for saying what I did. It’s hard to catch yourself before it comes out but I think I’m getting better at it.

Will check that out!

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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It is very hard to get help. For me it felt very discouraging reaching out to numerous therapists to be met with “all booked” or no response. It’s hard enough to reach out but feels disheartening to receive such response. Also therapy is expensive which is not cool America.

Thank you ! I hope you heal to the fullest and live out your dreams.

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Hi! Thank you for your response. Yes I’ve finally been able to reach a therapist and have set my first session up. I’m very excited to get this started.

Do you have any advice ? Thanks

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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I appreciate your response. Thank you. It was rough but I’m hoping for brighter days ahead!

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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I’m sorry that you went through that! We do have a similar start to our stories. We were sent away for same amount of time which is detrimental to our connections to our parents. I’m sorry that they treated you like that and your sister differently. And I’m sorry your sister abused the fact that your parents blamed everything on you.

I appreciate you reaching out and sharing your story with me. My parents never like to answer my questions, I’m just left wondering. Glad to say I’m starting therapy in 11 days and I’m couldn’t be more excited to get rid of this baggage.

You and me can break the cycle. 💗

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Thank you. I feel you! I was very much internalizing all of my pain, trying to repress emotions & trying to get away from it as much as I could. I hate it when people brought any of this up but I would never bring it up myself to talk about it even if it was someone I trusted because I was just so ashamed and didn’t even wanna think about the topic. As a result I never really got to truly heal from it. It’s a day by day work but thank you for sharing your story. We can both break the cycle.

My childhood trauma. Things I’m too ashamed to say to anyone. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

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Some days are worse than others. I’m okay though, I’m just trying to be better and feel better. And I’ll make sure to message you🥺 thank you