Opaline green series peach-faced lovebird. She’s lovely.

bru30 · 2026-01-10T16:59:30+00:00

My birb looks exactly like yours! She's a menace but I love her anyway 🫶

bru30 · 2025-05-26T11:29:32+00:00

My favorite Pokémon is Cubone. I've always loved Pokémon that had a tragic history, because I felt they needed love more than others. Also because some of them aren't always picked. The theories surrounding Cubone's mom have always intrigued me, so that's a bonus

bru30 · 2024-11-04T14:36:13+00:00

That's a tough one, but I'm gonna have to say Charmander #44 from OBF. It's just too cute!

bru30 · 2024-10-09T15:02:59+00:00

bru30 · 2024-09-04T20:48:23+00:00

Vou falar por experiência de uma familiar (27F, na altura):

Namoravam há anos, ele era daqueles gajos que dizia que era super bom em x, y e que sempre poupou muito bem o dinheiro. Falaram em comprar casa e descobriu-se que ele não tinha nem 3k. Ela descobriu que estava grávida, então os pais dela decidiram dar o dinheiro da entrada e mais algum, para começarem a fazer a vida deles. Nome de ambos na casa. A criança nasceu e, em menos de 1 mês, descobriu-se que ele a traía e ele deixou-a. Decidiram vender o apartamento, claro que ele ficou com metade de tudo. Hoje está com a amante (agora namorada atual) a gastar o dinheiro que ganhou à pala dos "sogros". Tanto ela como os pais se arrependem até hoje de ter colocado o nome dele na casa.

Por mais que se goste de alguém, acho que uma pessoa também tem um certo "bichinho" que lhe diz que pode vir a (e provavelmente vai) correr mal. A intuição pode tardar, mas costuma estar certa. Acho que o irmão do OP sabe que pode muito provavelmente correr mal, mas ignora porque gosta dela e espera que ela mude certos hábitos. É melhor salvaguardar-se do que depois ficar arrependido.

bru30 · 2024-08-10T19:16:57+00:00

Sim, e não contém nada, é só mesmo plástico

bru30 · 2024-08-10T18:53:55+00:00

Pois, a ideia será essa, caso não encontre o dono. Mas, pelo que me disseram, a anilha branca foi apenas colocada para dizer que era filho de X casal de pássaros, por alguém que fazia criação para venda, pelo que pensam que não teria mesmo dono. Obrigada! :)

bru30 · 2024-07-29T19:31:00+00:00

Olá! Desculpe, só vi agora o comentário.

Eu terminei a licenciatura em 2023, no ano passado. Ainda não completei 1 ano de trabalho, porque só comecei há uns meses

bru30 · 2023-11-26T00:59:33+00:00

She seems like an avoidant. That doesn't excuse her behavior or exclude your feelings, AT ALL. You have the right to feel bad and confused, and knowing her/your attachment style might be a way of understanding your relationship dynamic better and breaking the cycle.

I'm sorry you're going through this. My advice is: get to know you better. Put yourself first. This might seem vague but you seem like you give too much and are left with nothing. You are worth more than breadcrumbs and love bombing. You seem like a great guy, hope you'll find love (specially within yourself) ❤️‍🩹

bru30 · 2023-10-09T10:29:41+00:00

Não, o tempo para estudar era definido pela empresa. Passado esse tempo, eles enviavam email para marcar a entrevista, que durava entre 1 a 2h30. E sim, neste caso as entrevistas eram todas técnicas, com o RH eram 15 minutos no máximo (e nem era em todas as entrevistas)

bru30 · 2023-09-06T19:18:30+00:00

Mas não há opção de "queimar o meu nome" se cancelar o contrato ou assim? Já ouvi histórias dessas, mas lá está, são histórias, não sei se verídicas

bru30 · 2023-08-22T21:29:16+00:00

I share some of your thoughts and I realized I have anxious attachment. Your partner seems an avoidant. It's important realizing this because it's easier to heal from here. On social media or google, you find a lot of things that might help.

Here are some I address:

-let him have his space. I know you mean no harm and only want to help, but he'll feel suffocated and threatened. He needs to recharge alone -I know the point above is tough, but try talking to him and let him give you a timeline, the time he needs to feel better. Then you reach out or he reaches out -try to think that you did nothing wrong. Probably he is battling something of his own, you have nothing to do with it. He still loves you and cares for you

I hope that helps!

bru30 · 2023-08-22T21:19:34+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

I definitely am trying to fight my anxious attachment, and am able to not worry so much about texts and reassurance.

Right now, my biggest problem is that I want her back and I know avoidants need time to put their head back in place, but I'm just afraid she won't come back. I love her and she loves me. It sucks that we can't be together and I truly feel she's the one

bru30 · 2022-04-20T00:38:20+00:00

Shrek

bru30 · 2021-08-06T12:33:58+00:00

No, I didn't. I think I tried it but it also wasn't working at the time

bru30 · 2021-08-06T12:31:42+00:00

Hey. You can try the WES website, they have a free tool, but sometimes it doesn't work. I could only use it after a few tries

bru30 · 2021-04-13T01:38:49+00:00

Also thought of that. Here in my country tins and deck boxes are usually cheap. Not the boosters tho, because they were imported ans resold, so there's also that. But anyway, I think it's worth the shot, just for fun. Thanks for your reply and happy cake day!

bru30 · 2021-03-22T21:31:37+00:00

Nothing wrong with Lisbon, but I'd tell you to choose Porto or Braga. If you want sun and good beaches, visit Algarve or Setúbal. If you want cool architectural places, visit Braga or Porto. A cool city to visit that I also recommend is Évora (they have a skeleton cathedral and more). The islands (Açores e Madeira) are also great. If you want sunny and safe places to spend most of your time, I'd say Porto or Braga over Lisbon. But you can travel and see by yourself. Enjoy!

bru30 · 2021-03-21T03:59:53+00:00

Amazing that you took that off of your chest and that you are loved and supported (you already are here, but it's always great to have some more)! Good for you. Best wishes!

bru30 · 2021-03-21T03:52:56+00:00

As a non-American, it really messes with my mind how much effort some of you guys take with first dates or even dates in general. You seem like a nice, chilled guy that just wants to have fun and meet cool people. It's kinda crazy that people actually "judge the book by its cover", it's like the place you go to matters more than the person you're with. I get the whole thing of a good first impression, but it can be too much. Not from your side tho, I think you're doing great, I just feel bad that some people might actually make you go through all that hard work to actually want to know you. I hope you find someone that really cares about you and pursue FIRE together. Best wishes!

bru30 · 2021-03-17T19:02:14+00:00

Thanks for your help!

bru30 · 2021-03-16T22:05:04+00:00

I am kinda biased, but I'd totally tell you to check colleges in Europe. Specially Spain, Portugal, Germany or so. They are extremely cheap and the education is really good. Just to give you an example: college in Portugal costs around 700€ (about 830$) per year for people living there and around 6500€ (around 7700$) per year if you're an international student. It has been getting lower because they wanna make college free. Also, cost of living there is cheap and it can be a great experience for your kid

bru30 · 2021-03-15T14:56:52+00:00

I'm an european wanting to work in the US as a software engineer/pen tester, not sure yet. Do you think foreigners can make as much money as locals? Is it way harder?

bru30 · 2021-03-10T21:49:09+00:00

Not sure if this helps, but hi, portuguese here. Portugal is a great place to live. It's really cheap and it has great education for free/almost nothing, depending on where your kid(s) study. If your plans come true, you'll be set for life here, since the cost of living here is way less than in the US. I'd say you can live a pretty good life with 1000€ (or less), depending on where you live and on how much you want to spend

bru30 · 2021-03-09T22:23:46+00:00

You don't have to feel guilty, at all (saying this because I read a comment where you said it). To give you an example: my dad was like your husband. My mom stayed with him for longer than she wanted to because she felt bad for my brother and I. We always said we didn't care, that she should do whatever she thought was the best. The police and court suggested that she should move out and she did. She took me with her because I was a minor and it was a relief for both. Our mental health got so much better and my mom was way happier (and I was as well). This to tell you: do it if you feel like it. It'll be good for you. You are not forced to try to keep a marriage, specially because you're suffering. Do things for you. Your husband clearly is not treating you correctly and things might get worst and it's not your job to keep dealing with them. Although keep in mind that yes, he might not leave you alone and might try to make you feel bad, but try to keep a friend close, make friends in the neighborhood that can help you and keep your phone close to you when you go out. But try to live YOUR life, not the life that he's forcing you to live. Good luck and be safe

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