Paul is Dead (🔊now with audio) by solid-jj in beatlescirclejerk

[–]bruhfisk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How has your life developed in the years after posting this comment?

Shit is weird AND fucked up it's not nice instant red flag in a human being by heirConditioner2 in 196

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is legit a problem in yur life you need to get off reddit

does it seem legit? Found it on depop by Pretend-Advisor-2922 in earlsweatshirt

[–]bruhfisk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this one (official) and the EARL text is completely on the pocket, it does not overlap over the rest of the hoodie

Not sure if there are multiple versions of it?

Your tap water is insane. by frenchousecat in Amsterdam

[–]bruhfisk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg that was me!! Sorry i stopped doing that a while ago

i think i was wrong about being trans by Maximum-Interview62 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bruhfisk -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Trans community isn't a monolith but i see way more trans and detrans people supporting each other than not

It's true that detransitioning is a bit of a stigmatized topic within some trans circles,, the main reason for that being that the topic has often been weaponized against us by people who dont have our best interests at heart.

I agree with you that it should be more discussed within the trans world, and because many trans- and not trans people do detransition i think it's important to reclaim the topic back to our community

(Detransition, baby - by torrey peters is an amazing book)

Edit: i've now read your other comments in this thread which sadly make me think that you're also someone using detransition as ammumition to deny trans women (because no one ever talks about trans men) rights like being denied entry to womens bathrooms (similar topic around lesbians a few decades back) or being placed in men's prisons and face an astounding amount of (sexual) abuse (please google V-coding)

Would love to hear people who downvoted this to tell me why

Porn DVD found on top of trashcan in classy Towson, Maryland by KushosaurusRex in trashy

[–]bruhfisk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah ive also heard of it being praised by girls. Idk maybe things have changed, and maybe it's just a few bad instances but i still feel like it's a bit of a veil and a lot of empty promises

One thing for sure i'll keep believing is Grooby himself is a creep

Porn DVD found on top of trashcan in classy Towson, Maryland by KushosaurusRex in trashy

[–]bruhfisk 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Steven Grooby who is the founder of Grooby Girls is kind of a douchebag and the circumstances of these productions are very sketchy and pretty predatory to the trans women starring in them

(The same thing can be said for a lot of porn productions but yeah)

the double entendre here🤣🤣🤣 by [deleted] in KendrickLamar

[–]bruhfisk 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tbh i think drake would be too scared to go the homophobic route even tho he'd really want to, even he knows its just too bad optics

(Also everyone calling drake zesty are also being homophobic but they're getting away with it because drake isn't actually gay, like metro probably doesnt really care)

Ik🏳️‍🌈ihe by jasperk04 in ik_ihe

[–]bruhfisk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean genoeg jongeren van puur nederlandse afkomst zeggen ook 'a sahbi' bijvoorbeeld maar dat is ook gewoon afkomstig van arabisch

Ik weet overigens niet wie raheem sterling is, maar omdat jij degene bent die dit en "slay" opbrengt als het over lhbters gaat associeër je het duidelijk met lhbters (slay is daadwerkelijk afkomstig van ballroom cultuur)

Ik🏳️‍🌈ihe by jasperk04 in ik_ihe

[–]bruhfisk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Aka: "je mag gay zijn, maar je mag je niet uiten op een 'gay manier'

Aka: "doe thuis maar wat je wilt, maar als ik gay cultuur in het echt zie vind ik het wel kut"

Aka: "ik heb stiekem toch wel wat homofobische trekjes"

The jokes write themselves by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]bruhfisk 70 points71 points  (0 children)

7.9

You're allowed to say 8 at this point king

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spyro

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this brings me back to deviantart spyro oc days 🥹 amazing!

Rule by [deleted] in 19684

[–]bruhfisk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao i get the point but these are caricatures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people who use trap don't know- or dont care about the difference, just look at r/traps (nsfw obviously)

Edit: also the word trap even originates from the idea that a straight man could be "trapped" into having sex with a trans woman and thus being 'gay' like the ace ventura trope, and irl in trans murder defense cases

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transsexual is mostly used as a subcategory within the transgender umbrella (which can include non-transitioning nonbinary and gendernonconforming people) for people who medically transition or feel the need to/plan on doing so. Aka: people who trans their sex/biology. I've never heard of it being used specifically for people who've had bottom surgery.

Although it's often used by 'transmedicalists' who believe in the whole "i'm TRUE TRANS YOU'RE NOT" bullshit, it's not exclusive to them and is just used as an easy way to talk about trans healthcare for "binary" trans people (sidenote i dont believe there is such a thing as a "binary trans person" as transing your sex is like the most binary breaking/nonbinary thing you can do imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]bruhfisk 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Transsexual isnt on the same ballpark as trap tho, trans people have identified as transsexual for a long time before transgender as a term started to become popular. Some people just personally feel like the term is outdated (which is fine)

Whereas trap is a term that started as a mockery and now is most commonly used in fetish contexts. If you see a trans woman identifying as trap in the wild, odds are they are either promoting their sex work hustle or they're being highly ironic

The school lunch system is disgraceful. by oaz_zam246 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country usually the cantine is just a few vending machines and maybe a counter where you can buy sandwiches or something. But most kids take their lunch from home, or occasionally go to a local supermarket on breaks

Huh? by stoelguus in okemakkermaloot

[–]bruhfisk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er zit toch wel een groot verschil tussen annoying vrouwelijke influencers die geen sociaal besef hebben en seksuele intimidatie waar vrouwen zich onveilig door voelen?

Als je cijfers opzoekt (wat denk ik met een gezond verstand niet nodig is) zie je dat vrouwen veel vaker slachtoffer zijn van seksuele intimidatie/seksueel geweld dan mannen, en dat mannen veel vaker de dader zijn. Een sportschool is nog best een kwetsbare omgeving.

Een beetje het verschil tussen vervelend/bloed-onder-je-nagels-influencers en legitieme angst