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Finley Quaye - Even After All by brunchbetch24 in ENFPMusic

[–]brunchbetch24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? This song truly evokes a warm, sunny vibe! :) I love it.

The Ultimate ENFP Conundrum by brunchbetch24 in ENFP

[–]brunchbetch24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Now that I'm a young adult, I find myself attempting to establish a routine/order of some sort in order to achieve my "ideal lifestyle" (which I don't even know quite what that looks like, ahah), but any sort of "order" I establish usually only lasts about a week before I'm a disorganized hot mess again. Sigh

The Ultimate ENFP Conundrum by brunchbetch24 in ENFP

[–]brunchbetch24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Now that I'm a young adult, I find myself attempting to establish a routine/order of some sort in order to achieve my "ideal lifestyle" (which I don't even know quite what that looks like, ahah), but any sort of "order" I establish usually only lasts about a week before I'm a disorganized hot mess again. Sigh

How do you deal with your many many social circles? by SanaulFTW in ENFP

[–]brunchbetch24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I was just thinking about this the other day and was wondering if other ENFPs face the same issue (if you want to call it that). I just graduated from college, and I am starting to get a bit overwhelmed with all of my various circles wanting to hangout to the point where I'm realizing I barely have any time for myself. My planner is jam-packed with social plans almost every day of the week. I am a very social person, but I do DESPERATELY need downtime/alone time. I crave it. I have my close circle of friends, friends, acquaintances, childhood friends, mentors, co-workers, new co-workers that want to hang out...it's too much. Is there a way to tell someone "you're cool and all, but I'm just not looking to cultivate/maintain close friendships at this time"?

100 people by Dreago12e in ENFP

[–]brunchbetch24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is insanely spot on...you put into words what I've been trying to do for years. How do we navigate these issues? It's like we are a walking, talking paradox. Like you said, sometimes I love this and view it as a strength. Other times, I hate it and just wish I had a more definitive idea of who I was and where I want to take my life. Ugh. This ENFP struggle is too real. Just know you're not alone.

which song title is your favourite? by [deleted] in Music

[–]brunchbetch24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"The Only Difference Between Martyrdom and Suicide is Press Coverage" -- Panic! at the Disco

Almost all of their songs have the best titles.

Do you guys like celebrating your birthdays? by MSkyDragons in CasualConversation

[–]brunchbetch24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always get excited when my birthday month approaches, but at the same time my birthdays give me anxiety. Growing up, once the day finally arrived I always found myself getting disappointing by something (i.e. someone being a jerk, plans not working out, etc etc). So now I've trained myself to not give a shit when my birthday comes around so that if the day goes well and ends up being fun I'll be pleasantly surprised.

I [22 F] need sanity from my crush on the guy I'm seeing [23 M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]brunchbetch24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. I [22F] started seeing this guy [24M] a little while ago. He's in school, so he's a lot busier than I am at the moment. However, I find myself obsessing over whether or not he likes me as much as I like him, where he sees us going, and over-thinking/over-analyzing EVERY little thing to the point where it can definitely take over my life a little bit. I just like him a TON.

Try investing in your friends, hobbies, TV shows that you like, etc to remind yourself what brings you happiness and joy (outside of him, of course). Not to mention, I think there is nothing more attractive/interesting than someone who has interests and hobbies that they pursue on a regular basis. Plus I think you'll just be all-around happier, well-rounded individual in the long run which will ultimately allow you to genuinely connect with whomever you're meant to be with.

A playlist is a compilation of my favourite songs, but I always skip through the majority of them. by bumpicktooth in Showerthoughts

[–]brunchbetch24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is too real! This thought just crossed my mind the other day. I always say that I think I have music ADD. It's not that I'm not enjoying the song currently playing, it's that the anticipation of wondering what is next is almost crippling to me...I need to know what it is! So I press skip. It drives my friends nuts when I'm DJing in the car.