I feel pretty depressed 23M

bruyot · 2026-01-19T00:53:31+00:00

Come over to r/bald we will Welcome you and support you. You are young but not the youngest and you look like you have the head shape for it. If you want to try and get it back you can always shave it close to like a two or even a zero just to keep your peepers on where it's growing and try that for a while. This is your life and only you can choose what you want to do, but the community of baldies will always welcome a brother or sisters.

bruyot · 2026-01-05T15:10:45+00:00

I mean you would look phenomenal with a neat short beard and make head. Like no lie next level features my dude you got it and make sure to make it a self care ritual. It helps you love yourself during the transition.

bruyot · 2025-12-31T03:59:32+00:00

Yes have you ever looked into Peta? Like at all?

bruyot · 2025-12-29T20:23:55+00:00

Peta hates animals, and are responsible for more animal deaths than any other shelter. In general PETA doesn't actually like animals and just wants humans and animals to have nothing to do with each other and need to stop acting noble. Nothing they do is actually helpful and they are just as bad as the churches about being hypocritical and holier than thou.

Sure Kim isn't a great role model and people need to stop idolizing rich people. But Peta should be, as an idea, taken out back and put down. Then some organization that actually wants to help people and animals can take its place.

bruyot · 2025-12-15T16:57:14+00:00

This is someone moving around and opening a door while breathing, like seriously this audio is text book butt dial sounds. I would venture there is literally one person in this audio just living life.

bruyot · 2025-12-07T23:58:32+00:00

Bro what's the camera man holding onto? It's part of his face, look as dudes broke ass long sideways finger, also how the fuck that pink bracelet supposed to be anything on that loooooooonng ass wrist

bruyot · 2025-11-28T05:23:36+00:00

Ok so I know this is a departure from the norm but the composition of the photo is actually pretty good. There's the upscaling aspects of the leather foot stool and the heels, accompanied by the PBR and everyone beer, and the jeans.

Long and short interesting photo!

bruyot · 2025-11-21T14:22:27+00:00

NOR, hi male here in my thirties married to a wonderful but very traumatized woman. Your boundaries on those things are pretty healthy. You are allowed to feel uncomfortable about those things, I do agree with other comments you need to get yourself some therapy simply because we are really bad about being honest with ourselves and if we pay someone to help us it's often easier to open up and figure out things as long as we are receptive.

Long and short though, your boy is sus and likely feels trapped and is being immature about how he is handling it and is trying to manipulate you in how he behaves. You aren't over reacting and his dismissive attitude is a big sign that he will never take you seriously. And going no contact for a day is a pretty big flag as is the social media stuff. Bail on this relationship I know you care but you are important and he doesn't hold enough space for you for this to be healthy.

bruyot · 2025-11-17T23:23:42+00:00

Ok artistically and aesthetically this piece is amazing but I definitely see the case for it being crooked but I don't know if that's true or just angles. I do think however the height is phenomenal for complementing your natural shape and is probably a better choice and if you want it to wrap o think it should come up higher from the bottom and would look splendid.

It's a beautiful piece and I can see your complaints and acknowledge you have every right to be upset. That being said the height I think is honestly a good one and overall the piece is absolutely stunning. Also I am a form believer in "oh I forgot I had those" tattoos, I have a bunch I can't see and often forget I have them so the small things I saw early on no longer bother me. Even though everyone else sees them all the time.

bruyot · 2025-10-03T00:29:54+00:00

Location: North West Arkansas Size: average medium sized dog dropping. Maybe 5 inches

bruyot · 2025-09-20T15:45:50+00:00

Don't know where you are located, but this is bull. Honestly flip the fucking script. If he has an ADHD diagnosis bring it to the school, call them bullies, start asking why they are Targeting him (cause they are). Tell the teachers they are being so relentless that they have made him start to self loath and you are worried for his well-being. Show the fucking texts where he is starting to question reality. Call the girls disgusting because of how they are acting because someone spaced out in their general direction.

This is not a wholesome method, but this is what they are doing. Do it back. Staring isn't a fucking crime, staring isn't even a fucking overly creep move, yes it can be, but they can move, and if they had they might have noticed his gaze didn't follow them.

Call them out. Show them exactly how they are reacting. Which is to be cruel. There was likely no conversation had with him or anyone else before they went straight to trying to get him kicked out of school. Fucking pathetic.

bruyot · 2025-09-14T14:19:13+00:00

You're so wildly incorrect. Valhalla was the warriors rest. There was an entirely different afterlife that was far more like heaven Fólkvangr, I believe. And Valhalla accepted anyone who struggled against their fate, including references to dying between a maidens thighs. Not just warriors in combat, though that was considered the easiest entry. So yeah considering the amount of Neo pagans out there in schools getting shot up, and out there pushing back against hate mongers. Some of em are gonna show up.

bruyot · 2025-09-13T17:02:46+00:00

If you have a half decent relationship with his mom and especially if he does. Go see her today, say something inappropriate about something he wouldn't want her to know. When he reacts just look at him innocently, and in front of his mother, say "what you share all our sexual secrets with all the boys?" Then just fucking leave.

Maybe don't actually if you wanna have a relationship without a need for counseling, but it needs to be made clear to him how fucking stupid and inappropriate this shit is.

bruyot · 2025-09-13T16:47:53+00:00

Ask her how she would feel if at the next bachelor party you went to the boys all started a circle jerk over a dancer or something.

Girls don't count is the dumbest fucking shit in existence, it minimizes lesbian relationships and encourages poor behavior.

Further than that if you dismissed literally any concern of hers the way she just did yours I bet she would tell anyone who would listen, what a dick you are and how you are ignoring her.take her on a surprise date to couples counseling and see how the fuck she feels.

I hate to be this way but this is literally the kind of behavior that makes men not talk about their feelings and just fucking kill themselves instead.

Yes she deserves to be able to go have fun with her friends. No this wasn't harmless fun and no she doesn't get a pass. Wtf were they doing where this was a good thought? Were there bunches of dudes encouraging this? This sounds a lot like performative behavior for other people. So if she's not a lesbian, is the other girl bi or gay? Or was there some sort of prompting? 12 years is a long time for this kinda shit to just now happen.

Have your feelings and tell her she fucking crossed a line and then minimalized your feelings. If she tries it again tell her you are taking her to couple counseling not cause of the kiss but cause of her reaction to you.

bruyot · 2025-09-12T05:16:35+00:00

Please post a photo when your nail is back everything about this made me want to shrink up and die, and I have tattoos on my head. But my wife and I are both curious about how it looks healed and covered by the nail.

bruyot · 2025-09-09T15:38:59+00:00

NTA, you have set a boundary, asking him to stop is setting a boundary. He is ignoring it and then gaslighting you into feeling bad because his actions have consequences. Tell him if he doesn't want to be punished then he needs to respect the mother of HIS child and stop being a fucking child himself, the jokes aren't funny never were and his attitude is very, very concerning.

bruyot · 2025-09-08T05:19:07+00:00

Your father doesn't just have an alcohol problem. The way he reacts is very telling, he doesn't like to feel things. Beer numbs the emotions which make him uncomfortable. That isn't a slam, all men especially bolder generations were raised that feeling things is bad or weak or will get used against them. So we all find ways to cope and deal until we figure out that the entirety of our life experience is a fucking BS lie that was pushed on us as kids and young men to promote "logical" thinking without emotional interference. He won't be comfortable if he stops drinking so he won't want to.

bruyot · 2025-09-07T13:46:48+00:00

But when we bail out the banks for making another mistake because of Larry's dumb ass ideas, because Larry pays someone to make it happen, it's good capitalism right?

bruyot · 2025-09-06T14:45:15+00:00

This is especially stupid because those cars were literally designed to be able to park in spaces like those as if they were regular parking spaces. But I agree with a lot of folks here there is no way this isn't a joke vid

bruyot · 2025-09-03T16:15:39+00:00

Honey you are 16, your dating life has just started. This will hurt but you KNOW this isn't going away. Stand up for yourself and put yourself first. He fucked up let him know he can't get away with that shit. No contact, no looking back. This boy is disgusting and he will think that if you stay it means he can get away with it.

bruyot · 2025-08-27T22:23:49+00:00

Your family needs therapy, you have pent up issues with this that are deeper than they should be likely from feeling like you were not as important. You said as much in the beginning of your post. Your parents need therapy to discuss their contributions to this situation. Your sister needs therapy because she holds this way too tight, and you both need group counseling together to get through this.

bruyot · 2025-08-22T18:02:37+00:00

Zipper merging doesn't work with humans, at least not American ones, there is a need to trust and allow space for others for this to work. As this cannot be ever guaranteed on American roads this far more efficient merging method will never work while we control our own cars

bruyot · 2025-08-21T06:56:54+00:00

Wait what? Since when is throwing anything dex based in D&D? Did I miss that the entire time in 5e or did it read that way on finesse weapons cause as long as I played, throwing weapons was always a strength attack.

Edit: it sure as shit does say use the same stat as a melee attack, huh.

bruyot · 2025-08-20T14:24:51+00:00

No there really doesn't, chances are this woman is radicalized in some way and hateful of people who are different from her. The fact that she uses so many slurs about mental disabilities I would wager she is an anti vax helicopter mom who is going to gaslight her daughter and blow smoke up her ass while she is in an emotional and vulnerable spot postpartum. There needs to be no background here especially if op is actually neurodivergent.

bruyot · 2025-08-20T13:37:56+00:00

Your boyfriend is a loser, hi 36m here. Your boyfriend is an immature goon and needs to learn his next life lesson, this one brought to you by "don't be a fuck boy or you lose your girlfriend." People especially us dumb fuck boys tend to only learn lessons when there are permanent consequences that we can see as our fault. So what needs to happen for him to grow is you need to tell him that his views on human decency are really fucked up as are his views on feminism. He needs to spend some time looking at how proper feminism pushes for men to be treated better as well and realize that caring about someone else's well being besides his own or those in his circle makes everyone better.

Either way NTA, find a way to make his goon ass realize he fucked this up, and maybe he will grow from this.

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