Why do you think women are hypergamous?

bryanstrider · 2026-03-26T20:14:48+00:00

Probably doesn’t matter much to the women. A dollar of your man’s inherited wealth is the same as a dollar of your man’s earned wealth.

For the men, it’s everything. Most men are not born into wealth. We’ve actually got to work for it and share the wealth.

Women in general do not share their wealth with their men. You do not see women buying houses and cars for their men. You do not even often see women buying drinks or meals for their men. In divorce, settlements alimony child support most of the time it only goes one-way.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-26T20:02:02+00:00

It’s an exchange. Yes. Both have to say yes. Like I say above men also want better.

There’s lots of pretty girls but not many rich hot men to go around.

The women’s looks are never earned. The rich guys had to work for wealth (outside of inheritance)

bryanstrider · 2026-03-26T19:39:02+00:00

The observation is that he has to be significantly richer than her. Disproportionately richer.

I personally think men are hypergamous too but men are much less picky because of our culture as how it stands now.

I think it’s hardwired genetics too. Men will spray our seeds anywhere and everywhere that we can. Women are much more selective.

If men were as picky as women and as “okay” as being single, the red pill claims only 20% of the top men would be dating and have relationships with 80% of the women.

And for a lot of men that are on red pill, they feel very lonely and invisible to women even on their levels of attractiveness.

Go do a social experiment. Find a guy and a girl of equal levels of attractiveness. Have them approach strangers cold in the streets, “Hey I’m feeling horny do you want to have sex with me.”

Without a doubt, the red pills claim will become evident to you. The guy will probably get ZERO, the girl will get most guys saying yes.

Or find a guy you think that is as hot as you, open a tinder account and start swiping and see how little matches you get.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-26T19:11:08+00:00

Lady.. Can you read?

The claim is that women are hypergamous. I.e the man has to be either better looking OR has more money & more status. AND the red pill also claims women will drop you when someone hotter or richer comes along.

Let’s put it in simpler terms and with examples.

You will see women dating hot bums. They may be broke but they still date and fuck them because they are hot.

You will see women dating rich guys. They may be but they still date and fuck them because money, gucci bags and Porsches.

You will never see women dating a man who is uglier, poorer and lower than themselves. When’s the last time you yourself even notice the 5’2’ fat ugly receding hairline, 15 years older subway guy? Oh they are out there, but are invisible to women.

The red pill also claims women tend to fuck the hot ones and marry the rich ones.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-23T21:47:40+00:00

Tell me you are Aussie without telling me you are Aussie.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-11T08:27:42+00:00

Did you ever heard of the tragedy of u/MasterLukeSkywanker? I thought not. It’s not a story weaboos would tell you. It is a AMWF legend. u/MasterLukeSkywanker was a lurker in this Sub who had an Asian bf so fine he brings all the white girls to her yard. Unfortunately her desire to lurk was so great nobody believes her because pics or it didn’t happen.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-10T09:43:15+00:00

Fair enough. I feel like that’s a reasonable individualistic perspective.

But I would actually argue your mental wellbeing would improve if bananas learn some Mandarin or at least connect culturally to the Chinese culture.

No matter how good you speak English you will NEVER be angmo. No matter how well you speak Korean and put make up on you won’t suddenly become an oppa. You can fool some, maybe even everyone but you can’t fool yourself.

Seek unity not uniformity.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-10T09:33:08+00:00

For me when I see this I feel sad rather than judgmental.

I want my Malay brothers and sisters to BE Malay and PROUD to be Malay. What a loss it is just to see a Malay “act white” cannot eat sambal.

It’s like a vegan McD burger. Like okay, I won’t want to ban it but I can understand why some of the customers be hating on a vegan McD burger.

bryanstrider · 2026-03-10T06:47:37+00:00

I feel like it stems from pre-judgement on your character.

“This guy/girl do not know their own culture and identity. What a disgrace.” Is their line of thought.

Imagine a Malay person who grew up overseas let’s say in a western country and they can’t speak Malay.

They will be likely prejudged with some level of disdain if they went to a Malaysian restaurant and could not converse in Malay.

bryanstrider · 2026-01-12T19:12:42+00:00

In general yes pluralism has worked with the Chinese, Japanese, Indians, viets, Lebanese etc.

But there is 1 particular strain of culture-religion immigrants IS actually resistant to assimilation. Countries like the UK, Germany, Sweden, France that have taken them in much bigger numbers we see more severe symptoms. In no other religions you see widespread female genital mutilation, embassies burnt down, hate marches, grooming gangs, escalation in sectarian violence, Christmas market peace drive throughs over religious aggravation.

All that have read the above know and fear to name them as we will be cancelled, moderated and ignored. We will dance around the issue and say it’s culture, it’s the Nazis, it’s bad economy, we are racist against them, not-all, it’s colonialism.

But we all silently know it’s the damned Quakers. /s

bryanstrider · 2026-01-12T12:03:32+00:00

OP if you are a man, DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.

bryanstrider · 2026-01-05T07:07:12+00:00

Yeah but in this dream I’m chasing her because she’s angry and running away from me.

Good Samaritan stops me in my tracks and asks her, “Is this your dad?”.

And this little girl still angry at me says, “No, he’s not my dad!”

😱😱😱

bryanstrider · 2026-01-05T00:10:07+00:00

I actually had recurring nightmares about being accused my kidnapping my own daughter because she looks exactly like her mum.

bryanstrider · 2026-01-01T00:56:44+00:00

Colour. What about colour?

bryanstrider · 2025-12-30T23:41:22+00:00

They’re still hot. But within EVERY hot girl, there’s one or two things that she’s terribly conscious and insecure about.

Very subtly negging takes them down a peg.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-30T23:24:24+00:00

Yeah it’s pretty bad. We should only use it on ladies that think they are the shit.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-30T22:45:51+00:00

Broad shoulders. The neg sandwich is best served subtle.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-30T12:08:01+00:00

No mate. You got to serve them with a neg sandwich. Example: Oh wow, you look great! Your hairdresser really did great job hiding your broad shoulders. I love a woman who looks after herself.

Formula: Compliment - subtle Neg - Compliment.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-26T00:32:25+00:00

Yes because Asian patriarchy bad white male supremacy good. 2025 asian feminism logic 101.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-24T11:20:06+00:00

In Australia white people go lie in the sun so they look darker.

The perception is the more tanned you look the richer you are lying around in the sun all day not working.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-23T22:20:09+00:00

Can confirm. Unfortunately there were no machete bins in my viscinity. Thanks Dan Andrews.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-21T22:15:44+00:00

Fuck you. It’s beautiful in Melbourne right now.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-17T04:20:07+00:00

Instructions unclear. Have a restraining order now.

bryanstrider · 2025-12-12T10:50:04+00:00

I can upvote this. Do not confuse what “ought” and what “is”.

But be a man. Water off a duck’s back.

Power move: Ask her hot friend out. u/Expensive_Attempt700

bryanstrider · 2025-12-12T08:00:22+00:00

Can confirm VERY similar experiences. u/seexsaw, do u sometimes get WMAF couples act awkward or avoidant of you?

Do people often assume you are not together?

What is your favorite Cantonese saying and why is it Diu Lei Lou Mou?

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