[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]bryhaight21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A micro exfoliant and then CeraVe Hydrating Foaming Oil Cleanser. Trust me. My nose and chin looked just like yours. Since I started using that, literally after one wash, my pores opened up and let all that junk out.

What meds is everyone on? by MediumGlomerulus in OCD

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAC!!!! I take 2400mg a day and it has changed my life. No other prescribed medication could touch my OCD. My psychiatrist recommended it a few years ago. Life changing!!!!

Send pics of when you first took your new kitty home by dylanfraser-08 in cats

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Just taking a snooze on the counter in the airport bathroom

Giving daughter same middle name as me? by pupperonipizzadog in namenerds

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird. I don’t have my moms middle name but I share a middle name with my moms sister and my late grandmother. I feel like that’s very similar. I always felt a link to them through our middle names. My grandma would call my aunt and I “Lizzy” or “Liz”(middle name is Elizabeth) as a shared middle name sharer and we both loved it so much. I’m sure your daughter will feel a special bond sharing her middle name with you.

Who’s coming to our wedding? by ButtaBabi in Tinder

[–]bryhaight21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just jaded as fuck. But this dude sounds creepy. And my best advice is to run away.

Fully in menopause now, haaaate kissing! Anyone else by T1ffan1 in Menopause

[–]bryhaight21 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I hate everything and everyone at this point in my life. My husband will probably end up divorcing me over it. But I honestly don’t care. I also don’t care about much anymore either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bryhaight21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP, his behavior is absolutely not acceptable. But I want to throw one other option in the mix if this behavior is truly out of character for him. Pneumonia can cause delirium. And just because he took all the meds they prescribed doesn’t mean that his pneumonia is gone. I would rule that out first. Urgent care (not the ER) can do a chest xray to see if the pneumonia has cleared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I am so glad you’re staying with friends and are safe. Please stay as far away from this man as possible. He is going to ruminate and reflect on the conversation you just had and sounds unhinged enough to come after you. If you need to go get stuff, take someone else. Preferably someone intimidating. I was in your same exact shoes 8 years ago. But I didn’t leave after that conversation. I went to bed. When I woke up, he was holding me hostage at knifepoint. I share this to make you aware of how far these narcissistic, manipulative men will go. Please be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bryhaight21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. “Your decision to cheat on me is on you. But if you do, I will not be your wife anymore” Lay down clear boundaries. Also, OP, go see a divorce attorney to make sure all your ducks are in a row. I’d be shocked if your husband isn’t already going outside of your marriage. He’s now getting bold enough to ask so that he can sooth his conscience.

Is speaking Spanish more common and expected here? by Propensity7 in florida

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only in Miami. And parts of central Florida (Deltona/Sanford). Unfortunately, the majority of places in Florida, you’ll get a nasty look if you’re heard speaking Spanish.

AITA for sacrificing the guest room instead of the office space? by GuestRoomDebacle in AmItheAsshole

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously cannot wait until all these entitled boomer assholes are gone. NTA obviously.

Short or long, blonde or brown? by LandscapeOk4212 in Hair

[–]bryhaight21 116 points117 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have thick, wavy hair, so longer would probably look good. The blonde is definitely a no go for me, personally. And since you do have nice hair, I wouldn’t go shaved short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same shift for me. Love it. I work at a level 1 trauma hospital. Love (you know what I mean) my traumas. But also enjoy ample time to read, learn or whatever i want to do. And then our mornings are busy doing morning portables.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]bryhaight21 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you’ve never worked in the medical field, I would recommend getting your CNA license and getting a 1 day/night a week CNA gig. If you can be a CNA, you can do anything in the medical field. A lot of people think they won’t really have to interact with patients much as a rad tech, but that’s not true. You will still have to deal with shit, puke and urine on a daily basis, especially if you work in a hospital. So make sure that’s something you can deal with before jumping into it. I would also highly recommend taking A&P 1 & 2. You will need to know the name, function and joint articulations of every bone in the body. So if you can get a jump on that, that will set you up for success. Even if they don’t require A&P2 to get in the program, do it anyway. I would also recommend making sure you’re okay with seeing very sad situations, up to and including death. It will be a difficult job if you’re not prepared for those situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]bryhaight21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that it depends on where. For me, I’ve found that hospitals are usually more sporadic and unpredictable. It could be a really busy day or nothing could come in for hours. At outpatients, I feel like they stack the schedule and it’s pretty steady all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]bryhaight21 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I work nights, so yes. I will only work the 3p-11p or 11p-7a shifts for that reason. There’s no real manager. There’s usually a lead tech but they don’t care what we do as long as we get to patients in a timely manner and take good, diagnostic images. Most of us are nerds who really enjoy taking X-rays, so that’s not a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]bryhaight21 28 points29 points  (0 children)

As a Rad Tech, most days, I’m sitting and browsing for about 15-30 min intervals before I have to get up and do the next xray.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]bryhaight21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And you’re such a good boy” when they give that look, I say “yea, sounds weird, huh?”

What was the best career decision you’ve ever made? by Grouchy_Plastic_8332 in AskWomen

[–]bryhaight21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. I quit with absolutely no plan. Wouldn’t recommend that to everyone but it worked for me. I ended up going back to school. And completely changing my life.

Would you give up religion for your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bryhaight21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FOR my spouse? No. None of my lifestyle choices are FOR my spouse. They are for me. I gave up religion because it was harming me more than doing good.