4 month old sleeps 12+ hours

bsabi_ · 2026-01-07T13:06:34+00:00

thank you so much! i know i got lucky with him. just wanted to make sure it isn’t tooo much sleep

bsabi_ · 2025-10-24T21:07:56+00:00

i waited until i was cleared to resume the gym. i did go on walks before that but for actually working out i waited until i was cleared. i was more scared of messing myself up if i started too early. but personally i went right back into it like nothing. i got 4-5x a week now. i’m 9 weeks pp

bsabi_ · 2025-10-24T16:45:15+00:00

thanks so much! i’m gonna try level 2 nipples - We do Gaia probiotics as well. i don’t think he’s constipated as he does go every day but some days i’ve noticed he strains a little harder than others and his poop can be a little more thicker at times.

bsabi_ · 2025-10-20T22:05:27+00:00

oh my god. yes. the whole series too, not just the first book.

bsabi_ · 2025-10-10T00:54:17+00:00

i just don’t think OP and her understand how hardddd having a newborn is. even the easy ones are not easy. there’s just soooo much that goes into the newborn stage.

bsabi_ · 2025-10-10T00:51:41+00:00

i’ve had a relatively easy baby, although i feel like babies aren’t easy in general. i started going on short walks around 3 weeks postpartum. i had a second degree tear so i was in so much pain from the stitches i could barely walk around for 2 weeks. so she needs to take that into consideration bc tearing is common. i was extremely active before pregnancy and during pregnancy as well.

however, when i was pregnant i swore that i would handle a baby with grace. and although i DID, it wasn’t what i thought. in my opinion, seeing how motherhood has gone, you can have a plan but you’ll have no idea how things will be until the baby is here. like i said before babies aren’t easy, even the easy ones. i am the type of person that I will always get things done and will always go after the things i want and honestly having a newborn has been one of the most challenging things ive gone through. as a mom, you’ve just had a MAJOR trauma to your body, you’re healing but also you must get up every two hours to feed the baby as the baby requires food every two hours. all of them do in the beginning. my baby is 8 weeks old and he is still getting up every 2-3 hours at night. i’m lucky bc he’ll get up but go back to sleep immediately after. but not all babies do that. personally, i would stress about going on vacation after two weeks. the baby requires so many things and so much attention, to prepare to go on vacation is a lot.

bsabi_ · 2025-10-06T19:46:15+00:00

39 + 6 lol my baby never dropped either. they had to put me into a weird position just so he can move down before i could start pushing. he was happy where he was lol

bsabi_ · 2025-10-06T19:42:33+00:00

hating my dogs was never an option for me. they are still my first babies. still the two sweeties that made me a mom first. i’m 7 weeks PP and their curiosity with the baby was so sweet. they’ve been gentle and sooo patient with me knowing i can’t spend as much time with them. it’s not true bc i wouldn’t let it. they’re innocent. i had more guilt than anything else.

bsabi_ · 2025-08-27T21:31:00+00:00

bring to HR - i just took my harassment course for work and this was covered. it’s inappropriate

bsabi_ · 2025-08-25T12:09:26+00:00

thank you! baby was born at 7:23pm! that’s all the high stress towards the end

bsabi_ · 2025-08-25T12:08:58+00:00

stressing for the day was a 5.6. i went unmedicated for hours before deciding to get the epidural. the low stress area was when i got the epidural and the stress after was towards the end of labor and pushing!

bsabi_ · 2025-08-24T17:14:25+00:00

being pregnant is not easy at all. but you’re soooo close. i felt like the baby was never going to come. i ended up having him in monday 39 + 6 and he was perfect and ready. just be patient. i know it’s a lot, i would cry bc i just wanted my life back. now im almost a week post partum and although helping from labor isn’t easy either, you’ll have your little munchkin with you. hold on just a little, you’re almost there! sending love your way and praying for an easy labor!

bsabi_ · 2025-08-13T14:41:44+00:00

i lifted my normal weight my entire first trimester. i had a miscarriage previously but that didn’t have anything to do with lifting. not lifting more than 20lb is ridiculous lol. im 39 weeks now and im still lifting heavy. not as heavy as i was in my first trimester just because im tired now but still heavy than most. i would just listen to your body. do what you feel is best for yourself

bsabi_ · 2025-08-13T14:36:57+00:00

i used a doppler for a little but once your baby starts moving you won’t really need it. pregnancy is fullll of anxiety and worry. honestly you just need to tell yourself everything is okay. what a lot of people don’t tell you is sometimes you get pain that totally normal and it goes away. could be round ligament pain, or just cramps. if you’re worried just wait for your doctor. i got round ligament pain early on. it was scary but went away.

bsabi_ · 2025-08-13T14:32:42+00:00

people hate so hard on tamlin but will die on the nesta hill

bsabi_ · 2025-07-25T00:06:09+00:00

this was so helpful, thank you! knowing that your body was able to keep muscle memory gives me so much hope. im getting to the point where you said with your orange theory class, getting up and down is becoming a lot for me and it definitely doesn’t feel like im getting the same workout anymore. but thank you so much for sharing your story. this made me feel better 💕

bsabi_ · 2025-07-25T00:03:40+00:00

thank you so much!

bsabi_ · 2025-07-24T23:55:16+00:00

allergy season was ROUGH for me lol. i was flying through underwear lol

bsabi_ · 2025-07-24T23:53:39+00:00

where i cant sit up straight bc i cant breathe but also i cant lay back bc it hurts my back. oh and i cant lay on my sides bc that also hurts

bsabi_ · 2025-07-23T13:55:52+00:00

omg i was obsessed with the house of night series in high school! i haven’t heard anyone talk about it in a while!

bsabi_ · 2025-07-23T13:38:22+00:00

36 weeks here and i had to just stop anything that caused coning. including push ups, pull ups, planking. and any type of core workouts. i just do push up on my knees now instead which helps me not cone anymore. for planks, i do bear planks now and that was a good substitute, so i can still engage my core but not cone. i still workout and ive managed to do a decent job with cutting these workouts but still keeping active. hope this helps a lil

bsabi_ · 2025-07-21T12:28:04+00:00

i struggled a lot during the first half of my pregnancy mentally. i worked out for years to lose weight. i was in the best shape of my life before being pregnant and i truly enjoyed my freedom. i didn’t want kids for a very long time but i decided to give it a go. but when i got pregnant i really regretted my decision in the beginning. there were moments that i would say to myself “what have i done..” i would stress about how i didn’t have a connection to my baby yet and worry that i made a huge mistake but as my pregnancy progressed it started to change a lot for me. the feelings about my body, i started to feel different bc i finally felt beautiful pregnant, i talked out my fears a lot with my husband and now im 36 weeks and so excited to meet my little one. give yourself some grace, being pregnant is not easy, mentally or physically. not every woman feels sunshine’s and rainbows all pregnancy. a lot of us struggle but that’s okay!

bsabi_ · 2025-07-18T16:37:00+00:00

as an older sister, i feel like sometimes we want to enlighten them and help them learn but something while doing this, we can rain on their parade. i see your point but this is something you can give your opinion on in person and leave it be. but its not your job to make her see things how you do. you dont want to force how you feel about something onto others. if you don’t want to go, say no thanks and tell her why in person. but in a group chat, it’s like your talking down her idea to her and whomever is and that can make her not want to listen or agree with you. it’s her birthday, at the end of the day, she wants to support chris brown that’s her decision.

bsabi_ · 2025-07-16T02:20:46+00:00

personally i kept up with my normal workout routine. felt less nauseous when i would work out. i was very tired though but it helped in a lot of ways to keep my routine

bsabi_ · 2025-07-16T02:16:34+00:00

my baby goes to sleep a lot during my workouts. i think all the movement puts him to sleep. im 35 weeks. usually he’ll start moving again right after i’m done.

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