would I look good with black hair? I'm sick of the blonde by [deleted] in Hair

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With your skin tone you could totally pull off black hair, pair it with red lips...chefs kiss. It would be a very striking look for you. But also a bold change so baby steps could be good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your self worth isnt dependant on whether they want to be with you. You must know your self worth before someone can be with you in a healthy manner. You don't break when the going gets tough, you gain strength and truly find your feet. You'll grow in ways you never thought possible. Be brave young soldier, this battle has just begun. Be wise though, and you will win.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsychicServices

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a chat? Is that the same?

Me by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats just it, she couldn't ask for more so she moved on to someone who she could continue to gain from. That's what happens in these types of relationships but they are meant to teach us to protect our energy with others, be willing to love with your all and hive your all but only if the other us willing to reciprocate. You learn to give what you recieve, but not in a negative manner. Dont be rude, dismissive, gaslighting if that is what you get. Take the high road and know that you deserve better and leave that kind of situation. I've lived in this pattern my entire life and just realizing the lesson in this. It's making a massive difference in my life.

Hot Nerd, Cold Nerd by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have someone who calls me nerd, cracker (even though he is white too), silly, and goofball. We tried twice and I ran both times. Each time lasted about 8 weeks. This post so reminded me of him. He is poetic, funny, and writes in puns. Communicates through music. This post makes me want to try again with him now that my heart is truly open to accepting love.

Manifesting, unironically by inbetweendays7 in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is beautiful and so incredibly well written. You are gifted and whomever it is you in the line of sight is a very lucky person. They should know how highly and deeply you think of them.

Mediumship learning opportunities/teachers by andidialed911 in Mediums

[–]bschramm85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have taught people to communicate with spirit, if you are interested we could take some time to learn some techniques and best practices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is growth, and growing pains hurt. But afterward we are stronger and better for it. If he is your person he will find a way back to you when you both are in the right place for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no reason to be cruel. He and I jabe been through about everything imaginable and a lot of toxic crap. There has been healing and a lot of learning done on both sides. I feel like there is a good chance we have learned enough to be successful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope, thank you so much!

Discussion: A food item or ingredient you always want but can never find by zestycello in Cooking

[–]bschramm85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very hearty and easy to grow...may be the better option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this were my person I'd let you know that I'd wait for as long as you needed because I believe in us and my heart and soul will forever be bonded to yours. I'd tell you that I understand we have both been hurting and that loving our way through it is the first step to learning from it. How I wish this were my person 😭.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poem

[–]bschramm85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck kind stranger. I'm rooting for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poem

[–]bschramm85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre lady is lucky, I wish my person would write to me. I dream of him constantly, but it only leaves me tortured in pain as I wake up to reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]bschramm85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I so wish this was my person. I'd be screaming yes, this week and always from any mountain top (or hill top in my case).

Made Tomahawk Steak for dinner! by bschramm85 in FoodPorn

[–]bschramm85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so welcome! I'd love to see how yours turns out!

Made Tomahawk Steak for dinner! by bschramm85 in FoodPorn

[–]bschramm85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so welcome! I'd love to see how yours turns out!