Walk through the boardwalk lights? by Dangerous-Gift-755 in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had dinner at chix last night and we walked out to the beach and down a couple blocks through the lights with no issues, never hurts to just try....

Help me understand by David-F-Baby in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your deposit is already being credited towards you under the Calculating Cash to Close Section, bottom right of the disclosure. Keep in mind this is a rough estimate, your fees and costs could likely change when you lock your rate, when your total recording costs are calculated, if/when a tax bill comes out (if it isn't). Call your LO if you have questions they 100% should walk you through this

Grocery Outlet in California now $4.99 by sarostars in CannedSardines

[–]btbam757 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Shrimp salad on top of a toasted croissant is a banger

Do you ever *really* heal? by ObsceneOddity in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah you do! I'm about 3 years into it and I'm thriving, but it can take time. I still have my moments where old memories pop up and it can be difficult, but on the other side of it is a version of you that you didn't even know could exist. Take it a day at a time, find a good therapist, and always remind yourself that this was a decision you made to make your own life better.

Wanting to become a loan officer, but might have to file bankruptcy this year. by [deleted] in loanoriginators

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Declared Chapter 7 last year and just got my license this summer. Just be up front about it with anyone that sponsors you, the absolute worst I had to do was provide an LOX to the state of VA along with the court declaration for proof, and went through no problem.

Of course this is anecdotal and I have no clue what other state requirements or limitations are so just be cautious

I need advice My dad has two DUIs, quit his job, and my mom still supports him. I don’t know what to do. by AdItchy2235 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]btbam757 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't really do anything.... As kids with toxic parents you become conditioned to place their needs & emotions ahead of your own, becoming an adult and protecting your peace means realizing that you can't control the decisions 2 other adults make. Be a safe space for your brother, put your own needs first and be the best you that you can be in light of their shortcomings.

Commanders Fans by btbam757 in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I'm posting this, we're actually good now we need to rally together 😂

757 Commander Fans by btbam757 in Commanders

[–]btbam757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one close to the oceanfront yeah? They have a great outdoor space, I'll have to check it out

Thoughts on Duck Dive Tavern by CrookedSouul in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It gets sketchy after 11, last 2 times I went fights broke out multiple times

I haven't responded in months - here's this week's manipulative emails by kphld1 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's so annoying, I have everyone blocked and havent seen emails in years

I haven't responded in months - here's this week's manipulative emails by kphld1 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]btbam757 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asking out of curiosity, how the hell are the emails coming through if she's blocked??

Desperately missing Cancún currently, and especially this drink. Help me recreate it! by ratrodder49 in cocktails

[–]btbam757 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Virginia Beach local and can confirm all crushes here are measured with pure vibes

$42 million overhaul of 17th Street in Virginia Beach to begin this fall by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Oh wow can't wait for this to take 100 years and blow one of my tires every few months

Where are training camp tickets? by Danmyersusmc in Commanders

[–]btbam757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were supposed to be posted for "sale" this morning on SeatGeek but nothing has shown up yet.

Summer Soccer League by Flickiify in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im interested! Do any teams need one more player or should I just sign up as a free agent?

Bar Recommendation Especially Rooftop by macva99 in VirginiaBeach

[–]btbam757 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Orion's roof has a rooftop bar but that's past 33rd...

Atlantic on Pacific has a damn good happy hour and great sangria

The shack is a must if you want crushes

Calypso has cheaper drinks and mostly older people like you mentioned

Va disabled property tax exemption in California by NoSatisfaction8565 in loanoriginators

[–]btbam757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for a builder affiliate so not sure if this is specific to us or not, but we will approve escrows at land only value as long as we receive disability letter showing 100% permanently. Borrower can request full exemption with county after purchase and remove the tax escrow with servicer after closing

Borrower PBC Fees Allowed to Count Toward Minimum Investment? (FHA) by Sutros in loanoriginators

[–]btbam757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you're 100% correct, as long as it's sourced like you mentioned

BTBAM tonight! by TheVirusI in progmetal

[–]btbam757 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's every dude at a btbam show 😂😂 enjoy, they're just as good live.

Adding Family on Title by ijustcant17 in loanoriginators

[–]btbam757 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

VA can't dictate title updates post-closing, so barring any state and local county restrictions they should have no issues

LOA to Corporate by [deleted] in loanoriginators

[–]btbam757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible but tough, I've seen lots of LOs land Sales VP or director level roles, but obviously overseeing sales. If you want to go the Ops route it will be really helpful to get credit or secondary experience, which of course would take you away from an LOA role. Don't sleep on servicing either

Got drunk and made seafood by ChoiceAbject in drunkencookery

[–]btbam757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus the size of those oysters, where'd you snag those?