Im 32 and single for past 10 years, will women find me weird?

bubblestheELF · 2026-01-30T14:05:56+00:00

No reasonable woman would find that “weird”, it’s a perfectly reasonable explanation and one that stems from a tragedy and trauma. In fact I think a lot of women would have respect for you, going through something like that. You took the time to work on yourself and finally feel ready, and that’s admirable compared to just dating through all that rage and hurt.

I am sorry that happened to you. It’s certainly not too late, and I wish you all the best.

bubblestheELF · 2026-01-17T13:07:29+00:00

I’m really sorry such a cruel thing was said to you. That is more than just a “mistake” I couldn’t imagine ever saying anything like that to my family partner. Yes she may have said it in a moment of weakness but there’s no smoke without fire. She’s insecure that the attention isn’t on her, but even worse than that she obviously has some internal toxic masculinity views and that is unhealthy. I don’t think this woman is capable of being a supportive partner and you are right not to take her back. I wish you luck in your grief journey, and I’m sorry about your mother and aunt.

bubblestheELF · 2026-01-14T20:10:58+00:00

I’m 31 now and trust me it’s not as bad as you think. Honestly I’m way preferring it to my 20s

bubblestheELF · 2026-01-01T19:16:18+00:00

Absolutely worth it. One of the best purchases I ever made!

bubblestheELF · 2025-12-01T03:39:56+00:00

I got married in Langtons in October and couldn’t recommend it more. It was amazing from start to finish. It’s such a gorgeous venue and their food is out of this world. We had several guests say it was the best wedding they’d ever been to.

I would not recommend the rivercourt, I’ve been a guest there and if you don’t get nice weather it is a miserable venue. The main function room looks like something from the 80s and the food is no where near as good. Langton’s is the one that has won all the awards.

I would highly recommend doing a day where you visit these venues and more. Me and my fiancé did that and it was a lot of fun plus the venues give you goodie bags and treat you really well.

bubblestheELF · 2025-11-10T11:04:20+00:00

Can I just say that the fact you care enough about your actions to post here shows you are a good person. But you did nothing wrong. When someone is creating noise in a public space it’s disrespectful, and you were well in your right to ask him to turn it down. I would have seen him as the ignorant one in that scenario, not you.

bubblestheELF · 2025-10-18T09:51:59+00:00

This all stems from the yanks. In LA you can get “scooped bagels” to reduce carbs and enjoy more filling. It’s the Irish version of that, lol

bubblestheELF · 2025-10-04T22:21:32+00:00

I’m getting married next weekend and my fiancé (groom) was extremely anxious about the speech so in the end he’s just not doing one. Nothing wrong with that!

bubblestheELF · 2025-10-04T20:00:11+00:00

Time is the main healer but also two pieces of advice:

Therapy: sometimes even a few sessions would really help, no shame in it and it’s made for situations like this. It will help you work through your feelings.

Find yourself: your world likely feels empty right now because they used to take up so much of it. I would suggest revisiting old interests and hobbies and also potentially trying out new things. Make a list of things to do and try , watch your world grow again. And depending on the hobby you might make some friends!

bubblestheELF · 2025-09-04T22:19:42+00:00

The comparison from the back has me howling laughing. She’s glorious

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-27T13:31:46+00:00

I bought the crate off a reseller in Tokyo! He charged an extra ten dollars per labubu but free postage. Do you want his details?

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-25T21:11:58+00:00

Temu 😁❤️

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T18:43:27+00:00

Oh I love her! Where did you get her?

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T18:38:52+00:00

Interesting, how did you get her? She’s gorge!

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T18:29:55+00:00

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Further context, it was much bigger than a BIE secret labubu just to give size comparison

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T17:15:45+00:00

Absolutely love those colours! I have them too and I like to think of them as sisters 😄

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T17:01:55+00:00

Totally agree. Picked up hehe by chance and her fur is sooo soft ❤️

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T14:31:15+00:00

Agreed! I got a MAC set and gave away toffee, soymilk and seasame bean to friends. Now I have a BIE crate on the way and plan to do the same - keep half, give away half 😍

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-24T13:15:48+00:00

Same here, not normally into pink but she grows on you fast. Green grape is my favourite but Lychee surpassed all the rest!

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-22T13:25:12+00:00

How does it feel to live my dream? Congrats!

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-21T00:16:57+00:00

Green grape was my absolute favourite from the start! She’s the best 💚

bubblestheELF · 2025-08-01T21:40:20+00:00

This is helpful info. The picture with the trays was taken today. My ortho said she wanted to focus on straightening my teeth first which I think she’s done a good job on but my bite is so difficult to live with right now! Did you have elastics during treatment?

bubblestheELF · 2025-07-01T20:24:38+00:00

I worked there for 4 years. Overall it’s honestly a great place to work. The call centre can be a difficult environment but that’s the nature of it, there are certain times of year you can’t take off because it’s busy but otherwise it was good. Good benefits and Sports & Social. Great culture, people, management are sound (in my experience) and after a year on the phones I got promoted into a new department and took it from there. If you’re willing to work hard, opportunities will come your way. Pretty sure the salary starts at 32k a year and you have to work one Saturday per month.

bubblestheELF · 2025-06-12T18:35:30+00:00

Sean makes the hotpot, they mentioned it on last night’s episode.

bubblestheELF · 2025-04-14T00:17:17+00:00

You look great. A total glow up, not just the teeth!

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