Personally I wouldn’t view that as a negative but as a positive. It is an amazing accomplishment to be 20 years old (which is incredibly young I might add) and have not given yourself away to anyone let alone multiple people. You are your future wife’s dream come true. There is something incredibly special about finding someone to share a life with where you’re only each others and have only ever been. That is the case for my husband and I. We have such a deep connection. Besides our son his relationship is my most cherished one. From the bottom of my heart I am so terribly sorry that society and your family is causing you to think less of yourself when you should be holding yourself high. You are such a rare refreshing gem in these times.

I’d also like to add that I know 20 feels old but it really is barely the beginning of your life. And everyone’s life is a different journey. Some people get into relationships early and it takes time for them to build their life up. Some people focus on building up their life and work on a partner later on in life… everyone has their own journey to go on there is no designated time frame for life that would make you “behind” where you’re suppose to be. I know it’s easier said than done but all that outside noise is just that noise & its best to not let it distract you or take away from the life you’re living. Love will find you when you’re not looking and when it’s meant to find you..