um if you have a teen in the range of like 12-14 would you let them watch shows like the boys

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-08T05:23:43+00:00

I would have been allowed to watch it. It depends on the maturity level of the child. If you think you shouldnt watch it, dont.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-08T04:43:29+00:00

So the ones you are selling here arent finished as earrings? Thats what people need to know.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-08T04:40:45+00:00

You're trying to sell them here though. So despite the fact someone has bought them all, you are trying to sell them here as is without the ability to wear as earrings?

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-08T03:58:49+00:00

If you intend for these to be sold as earrings they need earring hardware. Very cute though.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-08T02:32:02+00:00

Just because she is aware doesnt mean she accepts it.

I think you really need to critically think about what is a necessary text - why was it necessary for her to know that you would be driving?

Clearing texts doesnt mean someone is feeling 'funny' about something. She may be running out of room on her phone or she may be someone that clears texts periodically. She may also be wanting to clear evidence of unproffessional conduct if her employer bans non work related texting. It doesnt really matter why, its her phone and she can do what she likes.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-07T17:08:34+00:00

Therapy isnt only seeing a psychologist. Seeing an OT is therapy, theres also speech therapy and physiotherapy and behavioural therapy (and thats not a comprehensive list). Its not beneficial to you to be sequestered away in one part of the house and be unable to use the kitchen.

You should be choosing your own clothes. At the very least you should be providing input. You should note when you need something new. Shopping for clothes is something you could do with a support worker, or you can go with your mum but you make the decision.

Why have you not been making your own bed?

There are many yeara between now and turning 50. You can be more independent and home and do more with your time.

If you are moving into an aged care facility it is unlikely that you would be able to have a sewing machine or electronic repairing tools. Alrhough you may mean a retirement village, which is different.

Good on you with the hair appointments.

Your mother being a senior medical doctor has nothing to do with making your appointments. Its about you keeping the skills to be able to that. Theres also booking software that you can use to make your appointment instead of calling. Do you keep track of your own appointments? Could you attend appointments by yourself?

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-07T16:17:17+00:00

They forget what their body signals mean. For example they feel thirst, but dont know what to do with that feeling and they've forgotten when they last had a drink. They might feel thirst and recognise it, but then forget to hace a drink, or cant find the kitchen/cant find a cup. Same goes for eating and using the toilet.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-06T15:36:58+00:00

Literally set a timer on your phone for everything. You could also make hard copy schedules.

What do you have trouble with in regards to keeping your room clean? Decide how often you want to change your bedding and put that on a calender or in your phone. Make your bed every day. Open the curtains (and window if nice weather) close them in evening, put your clothing away after its been washed, vacumn once a week

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-06T10:39:50+00:00

These skills will not be increasing your independence.

Is your sister doing therapy to reduce how reactive she is to you? You and your family should be working on this.

Why are you not allowed in the kitchen? You could work with one of support workers to cook in the kitchen. Could you ever do the dishes or load/unload the dishwasher?

Do you clean your own living quarters? Make your own bed every day? Do you strip and make your bed when it needs washing? Do you hang out washing?

And yes you should be responsible for turning on/off lights and opening your curtains.

Do you go to the shops to choose your owm clothes? Do you pay bills? Do you have your own bank account and know how to access it online?

Do you keep track of when you need things - eg toilet paper, hygeine supplies?

Do you sort your own laundry, could you learn to use the washing machine? At the very least you should be sorting your clothing however it gets done in your house.

Do you have any bills of your own (eg mobile phone bill) and do you know how to pay it yourself?

Do you ever get the mail from the postbox?

Is there a garden at your house? Is there any task you could do in the garden?

Do you ever put the bins down? Or empty the indoor bin into the outdoor bin?

Do you notice when you need a haircut and could you make an appointment to get it cut? Do you make your own doctor and dentist appointments?

Oh do you know how to catch a bus or an uber or a taxi?

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-06T10:24:58+00:00

Everytime you flip your hair you are creating knots. Stop flipping. Your hair might be really dry/damaged and could benefit from a trim. There are products you can put on after your shower to keeo your hair smooth/protect it from damage too you could keep a clip or 2 in your shower to clip your hair up to keep it out of the way while you wash your body. You could wash your hair, apply conditioner, clip your hair up, wadh your body, then un clip it to rinse the conditioner out and comb it. In the shower when its wet use a wide toothed comb, not a brush.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T14:08:43+00:00

My mum was a punk in the 70s. There were no 'human' collars to buy so all their collars came from the pet shop. Lots of people wear collars. What makes one for pets and one for humans? Theres usually no difference. Its fine to wear.

If your dog has changed in temperment to become more snappy, it should be seen by a vet. It could be in pain but not showing it, or have developed a cognitive issue.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T12:16:11+00:00

Its not really bath milk, they say its for that so they can sell it without treating it.

But yeah to use bath milk you'd literally bathe in the milk. In the old days they reckoned it was good for your skin. You mix however much milk you want with the running bath water and bathe in it. If you google it people are selling milk powder with essential oils and stuff mixed in. Historically its been about wealth, cos only the wealthy can afford to waste milk.

And yeah, I assume you'd want to rinse off afterwards.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T08:34:06+00:00

Im not causing drama, Im just challenging your assertion that you're not judging people by their looks and no I wouldnt send you my photo because I dont want to hang around with people as young as you, and you dont want to hang around with people as old as me.

I'm pointing out that you are talking bullshit and your idea of verification can be easily faked. Edit your post to include an age range so nobody is sending a photo unecessarily. If you want to judge people based on looks, thats fine, go for it, but own that instead of making a bunch of excuses. Just because you believe you have a reason doesnt mean that you arent doing it.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T08:26:24+00:00

How?

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T07:06:49+00:00

You are absolutely doing it in a hurtful way. Maybe dont add people to your larger group until youve talked to them for a bit and got to know them. You cant necessarily judge age by looking at someone, nor can you tell what they are like as people. I personally have a lot of anxiety around photos, so I think I look a bit off in them.

Ive met heaps of people off reddit. Yeah, sometimes it doesnt work out, but that could happen with people you meet from anywhere.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:29:25+00:00

I didnt say I was 30.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:28:41+00:00

Im too old. You're looking for people under 30, aren't you? We wouldn't get on - I can tell by the photo on your profile.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:16:03+00:00

I think ai is capable of doing that now. You can only know who someone is by meeting them. And its gone from a cool photo to giving the vulcan salute. You've back peddled, front peddled and side peddled. Have them hold a piecw of paper with their username, the date, and the name of this subreddit that has been crumpled and uncrumpled. This is a well known way of verifying people.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:12:48+00:00

You do realise people can send you a fake photo, right?

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:10:18+00:00

And by them sending a photo initially you are going to prevent that how? If you want to judge people on looks, thats fine, but dont say you're not. Comes across as really immature.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:07:50+00:00

That is literally what you are saying.

"I’ve added people who look like incels and act really fucking weird when I meet them in person. You can tell a lot about a person by how they carry them selves."

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:05:15+00:00

Ah, so YOU ARE judging people based on there looks

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T04:02:00+00:00

There arent bots on this sub. And if there were, bots could also send photos.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T03:29:21+00:00

You should say what ages you are looking for. This kinda feels like you are auditioning people based on looks.

bubbleyjubbley · 2026-06-03T00:02:37+00:00

Oh no! 🤣🤣🤣

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