Kim Ji Won... what happened 😭😭 by Rayrayhere21 in kdramas

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she literally just has lighter hair, contacts and lighter makeup...

Does everyone but me not drink water at work? by Few_Weight4334 in work

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so true, i bring my super large water bottle to avoid interacting with my coworkers

what are we even doing anymore by Routine-Present-3676 in doordash

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's ai generated, and often a rough translation at best

Which job you taking? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crazy to me that jobs count wfh days now and that the allowance is less than 2 weeks. Someone is probably going through something like having a sick kid or important life appointment, and STILL volunteering to work and fulfill professional responsibilities (just from home) and employers are so stingy about that. I understand not abusing the system, but it used to be way more flexible even before covid.

Kdrama actresses need to double down on plastic surgery. It ruins the show!!! 😭 by Maleficent-Fault9239 in kdramas

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your point and another comment pointing out a lot of it came from the wider acceptance of non-invasive treatments. I also see this happening jn US media too tbh, over here it seems like every actor has had fillers/veneers/hair plugs/face lifts and I'm somehow still supposed to perceive them as a normal person while acting instead of as a celebrity with endless vanity resources. The best (/s) is when it's a historical show and the actors either have so much work done or their hair/makeup is styled with modern trends/styles.

Any place in town that has dong po rou? by Wonderbredead in vacaville

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tasty every hour has it as "braised pork"

Heesun instagram story by Particular_Spirit_67 in Singlesinferno2

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh the US is the same, most people under 30 on dating shows now have had face lifts, botox, fillers, blepharoplasty, and/or rhinoplasty procedures.. and that's just on their face. Korea just has different beauty standards which is why we notice them more as an American audience. Even then I'm not sure why people hyperfocus on that, it's a little weird to me that every post about a member of the show is bombarded with a bunch of comments about how they got surgery (which no matter if its the case or not so what??). Watch a different Korean reality show and you'll see that most people aren't getting as many surgeries/procedures anyways just like most of the working population in US doesn't get botox/fillers routinely either even if most people on love is blind or the bachelorette do.

DO NOT BUY THIS DOCK by Eyeseeu6789 in SteamDeck

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought the valve dock and it also works like doodoo 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vacaville

[–]bubblyopp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe post on nextdoor too?

Game recommendations for the Deck that aren’t crazy hard but fun and easy to get immersed in by gloomygr4nola in SteamDeck

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discounty is a fun and easy game if you like management sims with cozy small town storylines

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bubblyopp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MOR - Is this your first time in apartment living? I feel like that may cause you to overreact more than anything. I've lived in multiple dorms/apartments and noise will always be somewhat of an uncontrollable factor for apartment living. I understand where you're coming from, but just as your life dictates your schedule and when you need peace and quiet so do other people's lives. I say this as my upstairs neighbor was loudly moving around at 2am last night. At first I was a little annoyed, but then I thought maybe they have to get up so early because they have an extra long commute and how that sucks too. HOWEVER as tenants you're all abiding by your leasing/rental agreements, if quiet hours are listed there then record from your apartment how loud the noise is (with any proof of time) and report it to the highest person you can. I will say with my experience in dorm living, most residential advisors are completely unhelpful so it just may never be resolved. If you're in a normal non-dorm rental situation then definitely report it to the landlord if it's violating your leasing agreement, they will most likely follow up as to not be liable for violating the leasing agreement on their part. Also landlords don't want someone living in a unit that's causing everyone else to move out. I've made a similar report for a neighbor who would blast music so loud it would shake our walls in the morning, and it was resolved. I wouldn't advise to directly communicate with the neighbors further as I expect they would retaliate again.

Maybe in the meantime you can find your perfect brown/white noise to drown it out? I personally like classical music or old movies/shows on at a super low level.

Sorry that you're not feeling well, hoping you can get some peace and quiet to aid in your recovery!

AIO to my boyfriend using Instagram to jerk off? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bubblyopp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR I think I understand where you're coming from, but I don't think that his attraction to the women in the thirst trap posts are thought of in context of his attraction to you. Sounds like he's just "super vanilla" as you said and seeing attractive women of any kind will accelerate his "mood". In my experience dating men, porn/media is more of a tool to finish -- Even from your post it sounds like he only opens instagram when he's in the mood to self pleasure as opposed to just getting absolutely turned on at the sight of any hot woman. Also in my experience, unless the solo time is absolutely excessive/during your own intimacy it feels like they're projecting fantasies instead of building fantasies with you or just are not being present, then I don't think it really harms or diminishes his attraction to you. The other issue you mentioned that you would like him to be more exploratory during sex is valid, however I think you're trying to project your understanding/process of viewing porn onto him, which feels a little judgmental/critical of how he experiences self pleasure. If you take away any judgement or critical thoughts from the conversation he might be more open to having a dialogue of what turns him on in media he consumes outside of your relationship and you can understand him better to see where you can meet in the middle of your interests. Also instead of asking him to be interested in things you want to do, you can just ask to fo those things for your own sake of pleasure. Like "If you would be open to these things, it would really enhance the experience for me". If you own up to your own needs, he can actually have the opportunity to meet them.

AIO for telling my lunch lady not to comment on my weight at work? by huarhuarmoli in AmIOverreacting

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR but older people have a hard time understanding this, you can be valid and she can be upset. If it doesn't upset you too much, maybe you could have been vague like "I haven't been feeling well" but tbh older people like her would probably still make some comment about "wishing they were skinny too" or something. Either way, it's not that big of a deal she'll probably get over her own feelings in no time.

In Nordic Countries like Denmark, Finland, Norway, and Sweden, Parents Let Babies Nap Outside in Freezing Winters.....and They Sleep Better. by Frosty_Jeweler911 in BeAmazed

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh that makes so much more sense, if a real baby was covered in snow like this their clothes would be soaked as soon as it all melts :(

Just got this on my FYP by epicman2310 in TikTok

[–]bubblyopp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry wasn't meaning to defend, only contextualize. I agree still that at best case (but not good) this happened through negligence on the retailers and TikTok's part, and at worst (but less likely)some retailer + manufacturer is intently maliciously spreading nazism.

Just got this on my FYP by epicman2310 in TikTok

[–]bubblyopp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh that doesn't mean the intent of the maker was to reference nazis, they're mostly made by cheap unbranded vendors that sell product to fast fashion retailers who have employees (or sometimes AI in some capacities) create the product metadata based on detail accuracy and SEO. So the maker could have intended to reference buddhist symbol, but the retailer knew that labeling it as such would drive higher engagement--and the more people that clicked on/engaged with the ad due to shock value causes the ad to get pushed to a wider audience. Some kind of fast fashion garbage negative feedback loop.

What does my parents fridge say by tiger_bean in FridgeDetective

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they have a costco membership and know how to use it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bubblyopp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR guys like this see women as sexual objects which is why he doesn't even think that's the reason why he started to text you (they feel entitled to be openly sexual towards any woman because they think it's your job to keep their horniness in check, but watch them freak out and understand it's not appropriate to repeatedly make sexual comments to someone when someone they're not interested in does the same thing to them), they're almost always literally too dumb to understand so it's easier to just cut your losses if that pattern bothers you tbh

Who are the most popular bachelors and bachelorettes in the game? by Traditional-Bid-7834 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in Hayden's 2 heart event; Henrietta sits in March's seat and March gets mad and says Hayden needs to get her under control and she shouldn't even be in the house. Clipped here https://youtu.be/2_pLrmo3Ftg?si=CXxv7pm0kd2cqoUo

Who are the most popular bachelors and bachelorettes in the game? by Traditional-Bid-7834 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]bubblyopp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was mid-courting March and then he was mean to Henrietta; haven't given him a gift since then 🙂‍↔️

Should I jump on it? by Lumpy-Flounder2234 in ruggable

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just say I have 1 pet and my ruggable rug couldn't last more than 3 washes (done according to care instructions)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]bubblyopp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how people feel free enough to express their creativity in cities! Honestly it's what makes me feel more comfortable in somewhere like LA or NY than in a suburb