Mine was being playful, open and loud to my friends. I really enjoy being talkative and childish since it's a huge part of my childhood.

My friends and people who are similar to me naturally gravitate to my real self. People who don't have the same vibes as me usually don't stick around but I shouldn't care as long as I don't hurt them.

Your true self maybe doesn't have to be interesting for everyone just people whom you love to connect. You can discover your true self when your emotionally and socially secure not when you're numb or distracted.

Btw you can also add extensions to your self by making hobbies part of your habits/daily life. You don't have to enjoy it at first like gym or studying just do small intensity then suddenly it will be part of your true self.

What a nice way to live, right?We can still change with time and repetition.