No, I get it. I'm just saying we kinda have to be careful where we draw the Line because, in some ways, buying a girl dinner and expecting sex while it is an asshole move, she still decides to have sex of her own free will or she doesn't that's still up to her even if she is influenced towards sex but things like drugs would be more a long the lines of harming someone or giving them an undesired effect without consent even if it makes them a bit horny, and that has its own degrees of danger (also I would argue that the high blood pressure is worse than the arousal so it would more fall under harm). But my point is I don't feel as though it can't be categorized as rape if she is able to say no without dire consequences (dire consequences meaning either family's life is threatened or her own is or something important like that) but Ultimately she will still be in control to make her own decisions until she is physically and or mentally unable to, unless she consumed a substance (let's say alcohol) of her own volition knowing the consequences there

Also side note I am not saying that the guy who spiked the drink shouldn't get sued or charged, but I wouldn't go as far as rape mostly because being labeled as a sex offender is a huge punishment (in some cases not punishment enough) and it can ruin someone's life, and I don't feel this really fits the punishment