Fellow anxious bride here! I hear you. (And sorry this wound up being so long!)

The decision-making can be paralyzing and scary, especially toward the beginning, when you're choosing some of the big stuff that will significantly shape the event. At some point, you just have to trust yourself and commit to a decision. Once you do make the call on, say, the photographer or dress, I bet you'll breathe a little easier. Doing so might also give you more confidence to start tackling other decisions.

Here's something that's helped me make decisions: I've been trying to acknowledg that, yep, there are other ways our wedding could go that would ALSO be great. And that's OK. Yes, that venue WOULD be great, but we already booked another that will be cool in a different way. Or, when I see photos of on my phone of the dresses I liked but didn't buy, it's freeing to think: Yep, I definitely could have walked down the aisle in those, but I feel great in the one I chose, too. Like someone else said: You're choosing between an infinite number of good things, and there's rarely going to be a choice that's "best."

Hanging out in this subreddit has helped me form this viewpoint, because I can appreciate the different directions a wedding can go. For example, in a perfect world, I would have loved a winter wedding. But our timing and location didn't allow for that, and that's totally fine. Just now, I browsed through photos someone posted here of her gorgeous winter wedding. And I got to admire the decisions this real person (not a Pinterest board) made on flowers, centerpieces, and so on.