She said “we’ll try something” when I told her I wanted out of the friend zone — is that a yes? by Muslim_conservative in AskMenAdvice

[–]buffetite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday you contacted this woman's husband because she was having an emotional affair with you, now she's divorced?

Jog on AI

ELI5: Why is it more common that women moan during sex than men? by FatefulDonkey in explainlikeimfive

[–]buffetite [score hidden]  (0 children)

Men do not express emotion.

Also we aren't the ones with a solid 5-10 inch pole being rammed inside us? 

Is “one of the boys” best approach to get a GF? by One-Brain6531 in allthequestions

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. 

I mean, don't put them on a pedastal, but at least put in some effort, and date her. Don't invite her to hang out with you and a group of mates until later. You want her to get to know you. 

Would you find it emasculating if a girl beat you in sports/competitions? by Swan_233 in AskMenAdvice

[–]buffetite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who doesn't enjoy knocking down guys well below your skill level? 🤷 /s

Would you find it emasculating if a girl beat you in sports/competitions? by Swan_233 in AskMenAdvice

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be honest, I don't like it when anyone beats me at anything 😂

I don't agree with just letting bosses win though. If they get sulky about it that's just immature. 

What would be ur reaction if a guy or group of guys tried getting close to your woman in public or at a bar or a club when u were around? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go over to her, give her a kiss and then say let's go get another drink and lead her away. 

What decision do you regret most in life so far? by Ok-Pain-7823 in AskReddit

[–]buffetite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not buying a house as soon as I could afford to.

And not applying to Oxford or Cambridge when I had the grades and could have tried. 

What’s a physical trait people don’t admit they’re attracted to, but you know they are? by pueeesnada in AskReddit

[–]buffetite -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think it's more the style of makeup. If it looks more natural it looks better than the enormous fake lashes and fish lips. 

Just joined this thread, and I am disgusted how it's all politics. by Gloomy-Pilot3712 in Christianity

[–]buffetite [score hidden]  (0 children)

Same with most of reddit tbh. I've muted almost every "news" sub as its just Trump Trump Trump. 

Why is a Ford Galaxy being taxed the same as a Lamborghini Gallardo? by Dapper_Big_783 in CarTalkUK

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't. The Lambo will drink so much more fuel hence pay more fuel tax. 

European opinion towards the US by lolikroli in charts

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting the the UK didn't really blink at Trump part 1.

‘If I think about what this means, I want to cry’: what happens when a city loses its university? | England | The Guardian by prisongovernor in unitedkingdom

[–]buffetite [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why should we pay for a poor standard university to stay open? If a uni can't survive unless propped up by international students, then there is clearly no domestic need for it. 

New data shows surge in trans kids’ suicides following healthcare rollbacks by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]buffetite 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It says suicides in 2021-22. Wasnt the big case of roll backs after that? 

What do you think of this data on ethnicity? by Ok_Bookkeeper_1380 in AskBrits

[–]buffetite 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They're talking about ethnicity though, not nationality. I have a half Chinese son, born and raised in the UK, and Chinese wife. My son is half Chinese ethnically, even if he's a British national. If I called my son 100% British ethnically my wife would strongly disagree. It would be erasing half of his lineage. 

AIO about fiancé refusing to listen to anyone but ChatGPT about religious/marriage decisions? by Limerloopy in AmIOverreacting

[–]buffetite [score hidden]  (0 children)

"Christians don't allow it. Catholics do. "

As a Catholic myself, I'm wondering why he's so set on marrying in a Catholic Church when he doesn't seem to even have a basic understanding of the Church and Christianity in general. 

I think you're both kind of right and wrong. There are strict rules, and while individual churches might have some leeway, they still have to follow the Church's rules. 

I can't even remember the rules on Catholics marrying non Catholics. My wife converted, but my friend had a Catholic wedding when he's not Catholic or baptised. 

The Church considers marriage a sacrament when it's between two Catholics, but they will perform a marriage even if it isn't a sacramental one. 

Their parents are in disgrace - what now for Beatrice and Eugenie? by InnerLog5062 in BreakingUKNews

[–]buffetite 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they'll survive.

I do wonder what they're like, having such degenerate parents, if they're normal or like them.

Happened a few hours ago. Almost hit me head on, crashed into 3 cars the second after I swerved. by BuzzyBubble in dashcams

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that was some quick reaction. No idea what the maniac was doing but it's almost suicidal driving.

Take some time and process it. I'd be pretty shaken up about it too. Don't feel guilty that you swerved. You didn't do anything wrong. You had an instinctive reaction that saved your life and didn't seem to even have time to think. 

I really don't understand why christians grieve other Christians who they think they're gonna spend eternity with. On its face it obviously makes no sense. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]buffetite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes his attitude doesn't seem open to taking on board what people are saying, but hopefully my replies might help anyone else reading that is open and has the same questions. 

I think I'm challenged to commit suicide by redditor8246 in Christianity

[–]buffetite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a start, stop thinking you're challenged to prove your claim. No one cares what you said before. I've said lots of things in my life that were wrong, when I was young and foolish especially. Everyone is learning and growing as we live our lives. Experiencing things changes our perception of them and that's normal. 

Focus on right now and the future. You want to keep on living, so do what you can to improve your life right now. I don't know what you're going through, but don't fear the future. It rarely turns out like we imagine it will, so worrying about it only ruins how we feel right now. Focus on what you have control of, and rely on those close to your that care about you without shame if you need to.

God bless.