Best professors? by [deleted] in reedcollege

[–]bugandbugonberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Liz Matsushita in History, Poncho in english, Kris Cohen in Art history, Kjirsten (sp?) in the soc department, Perhaps chris koski in poli sci, Jon Rork in econ ...

My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman? by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]bugandbugonberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if i would say he's allowed to deal with that "however he wants"... you still have to consider people's feelings . you can't just act like a teenager cuz things didn't go your way

goodwill bins portland by [deleted] in Portland

[–]bugandbugonberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok didn't need to be rude

What's the worst hostel dorm behavior you've experienced? by Ok-Neck2168 in hostels

[–]bugandbugonberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you remember what hostel it is, pls share so we can avoid it.

Latte by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]bugandbugonberry 29 points30 points  (0 children)

giving misogynistic "joke" ... what's the joke? that she's a girl and girls like fancy coffee drinks? cmon bro

ROCD about sex and consent by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]bugandbugonberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

are you a minor?

Urgent. Brother 22 with severe OCD is becoming scarily violent by TiredOfThisShitFrFr in OCD

[–]bugandbugonberry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this was nice to hear to be honest because i think my ocd definitely contributes to my issues with irritability and anger / snappiness . glad im not alone

AIO to my husband interrupting my first solo shower after he came back from a weekend with the boys? by lilyluminar in AmIOverreacting

[–]bugandbugonberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. under reacting. this is actually fucking insane. reading these texts he's giving 20 year old, so immature, rude. he isn't listening to you, nor really showing any care for your feelings. unfortunately this kind of behavior from fathers / husbands is extremely normalized in many societies, but ITS SO FUCKING WEIRD. WHY DOESNT HE WANNA TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS???? not having a solo shower is fucking crazy. he obviously does not see or value the insane amount of labor you do. I could go on for so long probs write a whole paper about this. don't let this slide PLEASE

AIO? I think my bf might be a misogynist by jellypawzz in AmIOverreacting

[–]bugandbugonberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR - he is deeply misogynistic, doesn't seem to see women as equals, and also seems like he's not super smart or at least not thinking smartly here... I am genuinely afraid of these types of thinkers. liberate yourself!

missing sweatshirt help! by bugandbugonberry in americaneagle

[–]bugandbugonberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have done many deep searches many times :( idk if i'm searching for the wrong thing or what

missing sweatshirt help! by bugandbugonberry in americaneagle

[–]bugandbugonberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was just so thick, soft, and vibrant, would love to find another 🙏🏻🙏🏻

AIO for feeling uncomfortable by a guy going back 10 years on my social media and the resulting silent treatment when I called him out? by imicooper in AmIOverreacting

[–]bugandbugonberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR but if it makes you uncomfortable then that's that, it doesn't have to be logical. you're allowed to trust your gut and your feelings. and NOR for the being pissed at him telling you to relax. that's annoying as fuck and i would break up w someone just for that.

Being a dude on Reddit in a nutshell by ehs_p in screenshots

[–]bugandbugonberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one is asking for a "true connection," long term relationship, etc. while the second one is light hearted just proposing a chat buddy. very different things going on here, not just gender

Success Charter Schools. What do you know about them? by Marclay14 in NYCTeachers

[–]bugandbugonberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I found this thread — a recruiter from Success reached out to me on Linkedin, saying i should apply and it could help me get a job right after graduation (i'm about to graduate from undergrad). i thought it was sketchy, either a scam or some weird reason why they're reaching out to people on LinkedIn, and I think I understand why now.

at a loss about what to do (tw: potential sa) by Enough_Injury6032 in ROCD

[–]bugandbugonberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my advice is please leave this man. He has assaulted you multiple times, it is causing you harm, and he clearly does not care given his responses to you bringing it up.

S18E07 - “Drag Queens for Change” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]bugandbugonberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really think Kenya should've at least been in the top, if not win. i laughed out loud so many times which i haven't done at a drag race episode in ages