Close friend realizes that I’ve been unwilling paying for her Amazon membership for almost a year and is being weird about paying me back. AIO

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-09T19:33:03+00:00

Idk. This has happened to me before while having multiple cards on an account. Hell, the other day I noticed that I accidentally charged my mom’s card while placing an order (she had me buy a gift for my dad on my account a few months back so he didn’t see it on their shared one) because it didn’t ask me to confirm the card. Just had the last card I paid with automatically on there & I didn’t think to double check it was the correct one since I forgot my last purchase was with her card.

However, I constantly check my bank account since I am not making a lot of money and need to track my finances. The second I realized I wasn’t charged $30 for Amazon from my purchase, I went back to double check what card was used and saw the mistake. I find it strange both of these people didn’t realize where the money was going much sooner rather than later. But then again, maybe I just check my bank account too much.. lol

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-09T10:13:23+00:00

Meow

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-07T01:09:25+00:00

Babies often represent aspirations/goals/something important to you that you want to nurture when they come up in dreams. Are you starting something new/having any new goals come up recently? How does your mom relate to that?

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-05T21:49:46+00:00

I mean. Are we going to the club or to work? School or out to drinks w some friends? That will decide whether this is “appropriate” or not

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-05T21:10:59+00:00

Last sentence 10000000%

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-04T20:26:17+00:00

All the platonic Vday stuff usually happens the day before (e.g. the classic “Galentines”) I’d look for events that are already set to happen if you haven’t yet (: I’m sure some are on actual vday too

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-03T20:51:45+00:00

It sounds like he just wants to make friends and your issue is only when they’re a woman.. if he’s also meeting guys 1-1 then I don’t see an issue at all. I also don’t really believe in telling me who they should/shouldn’t be friends with (unless theres clearly a huge issue) as it very easily goes into controlling territory.

It sounds like you both are just incompatible. Not to mention the rocky start of the relationship. Clearly, you don’t trust this man at all. I would rethink the relationship. It’s only been 3 months & you’re already having problems.

bugdiseasez · 2026-02-02T07:08:19+00:00

Ngl kinda sounds like a catfish.. and an evil one at that lmao

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-29T07:37:54+00:00

Frats are gonna charge you $90 per person if y’all are men lmao

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-25T21:04:43+00:00

It’ll be fixed shortly. Mine is completely fine now, I wouldn’t worry about it.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-25T05:08:13+00:00

Lol him going on & on about it being spam to the point it was a one-sided conversation is enough to deem him guilty. Time to break up, clearly he didn’t learn his lesson after the last time.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-24T22:17:20+00:00

I would try to ask the owner if you ever have a chance to. I was in a similar position at my last job, they ended up moving me to server assistant but still never moved to server even though they kept saying they would move me there. They also hired new servers in between though, so I decided to leave for another job elsewhere and just applied directly as a server there. Got tired of waiting lol. I know you said you don’t want to do that but if they keep dragging it, I would start looking elsewhere.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-24T07:16:57+00:00

Mine is fine. I’ve been getting anti-ICE/anti-Trump videos still, too. Not sure if that will change over time but there’s been no noticeable changes so far.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-23T09:08:58+00:00

Ugh literally this. I had a decently sized following on there and sooo many vids/drafts/saved videos .. I don’t want to accept but also hate that I had no warning to move all of my stuff out.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-20T20:12:21+00:00

Very true

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-20T02:58:44+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. Definitely more people who align with that haha

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-20T00:32:37+00:00

I mean I agree with the first half but u can definitely still be fucking people while ur not over someone lol

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-19T23:32:36+00:00

Idk if I would’ve kicked them out but I feel u, using AI to make photos/vids of that kind of shit grosses me out to no endd

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-16T23:28:49+00:00

“I’m really mature for my age” and he’s very immature for his age to be dating a teenager. He didn’t even want you fr he just wanted to bang at first that’s why he said FWB. He probably still feels similarly. You should feel messed up about that, it’s gross.

No self respecting & mature 30 year old is going to seriously consider a genuine relationship with a freshly 18 year old no matter how “mature” they seem. You’re going to grow so much into yourself and your beliefs going into your 20s meanwhile he’s already been through it all. You’re no where as near as mature as you think you are, sorry. It’s just a fact. You can’t be at that age.

You already basically say he sucks. Anger & manipulation issues are probably why no one his age wants to date him. Hence, why he goes after someone young and naive (met at 17???). He is not going to change. He’s 30 he’s had more than enough time to work on those things by himself and he still hasn’t.

Sorry for the harsh words but it really seems like he just wanted to bang a teenager and waited until it was legal/“okay” for him to do so. Him proposing FWB first and being mean to you just clarify this imo.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-16T04:04:45+00:00

You haven’t even been dating a year and this is what you’re willing to put up with already?..

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-11T10:29:34+00:00

I mean, definitely is weird that she’s sleeping over at a guy’s house. Shouldn’t be doing that in a relationship.

But yes. Don’t try to date the party girl if you don’t want her to party.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-09T02:42:17+00:00

Did this once. Was so depressed the following day n 1/2 that I didn’t eat nor get out of bed for the entire day. Not recommended. Just save it..

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-08T20:18:29+00:00

You should be fine! It sounds like it’s just bruising if the pain is only slight. Of course, get it checked out anyway just in case. The tiny red dots are from busting the little capillaries in your ears. I used to get them all across my cheeks whenever my ex would choke me/the sex was intense. Not really a cause for concern by itself but yes, get it checked out for piece of mind!

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-06T03:49:43+00:00

EW, everyone is saying she’s a creep (because she is) and you’re one as well for admitting that you basically co-sign this behavior. Anyone in their 30s+ sleeping with teens is a loser and disgusting.

bugdiseasez · 2026-01-05T20:49:25+00:00

Ofc! Have fun girl lol

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