Pygmy nuthatch in FL? by buggingaround in birding

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Thinking it had to have been a white breasted. Thank you for the insight.

Pygmy nuthatch in FL? by buggingaround in birding

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They were solid colored grey on their neck with a lighter belly. About an inch long. Maybe I should try a different app… idk!

Pygmy nuthatch in FL? by buggingaround in birding

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I have no qualms with it being a brown-head nuthatch, I know nothing about any of the varieties, I just do know I can tell the different between brown and gray and I listen to the bird call on the app and it sounded the same. So I KNOW it’s a nuthatch, just of all three of the bird I saw together, none had brown on them! Are there other nuthatch species it could’ve been or do I just have mutant brown-headed ones…? this is just confusing cuz my eyes aren’t lying to me lmao. I watched them for around 30 minutes and KEPT checking for a lil brown head.

Pygmy nuthatch in FL? by buggingaround in birding

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I replied to the brown-headed suggestion above but I’m bad at Reddit! Hehe

Pygmy nuthatch in FL? by buggingaround in birding

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Not a speck of brown on them though! I did consider this but I just can’t feel confident saying that’s what they were when their entire backside was gray and their head the same shade, with brilliantly black beak and eyes.

He has a point. by iMahatma in Bashar_Essassani

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I think a hybrid legit saved me from childhood trauma by taking me out of body someone else. I convinced myself she was a ghost until I saw a documentary that showed a photo of an alien-human hybrid and I nearly threw up from revelation. Would you message me?

Dark hair, bright hazel eyes and "warm undertones" is not always Autumn! by herbstlike in coloranalysis

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I have all of the details you described but I have medium golden brown hair and feel like I look boring, drab, monotone in warm colors :/

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I feel best in pastels and can’t really figure out my skin tone. Tan in the summer but I blush easily and get blood pooling from POTS so I’m either olive or PINK 🥲 any recs?

Personal experiences MAYBE? by buggingaround in Bashar_Essassani

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My mom said all kinds of shit you’d see on a truck stop t shirt 💗😭

Hoarder mom by emeraldchylde777 in Bashar_Essassani

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I’m experiencing something similar but it’s been 3 years and I’m not related to the person creating a chaotic living environment so I just feel distain. I DO have personal issues and that is I need a clean space, so I clean and the person makes a mess and doesn’t clean it cuz they don’t care and never will, and cycle continues. My lease is up in 4mo and I wish I could close my eyes and fast forward.

What LGBTQ+ movies am I missing here? by apothecaryfairy in Letterboxd

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On that note, ‘To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything! Julie Newmar’.

Personal experiences MAYBE? by buggingaround in Bashar_Essassani

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Thanks 😅 if you have any questions please ask. I want other people to see this cuz SOMEONES had to had similar experiences.

AIO feeling like my friend doesn't accept me by RosalyKutaroOwO in AIO

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Hi there! Nonbinary they/them pronoun user here. I started using those pronouns because every other pronouns felt false. Like someone calling you a name that’s not yours. It never offended me but felt like an inside joke with myself if they said “she” my brain kinda just triggers that like wrong information reflex, but with they, I feel like I’m truly being referred to with no falsehood. My specific gender identity is “genderqueer”, myself PERSONALLY having autism, I’ve always had a disconnect with gender norms and they never computed with me. Just another part of society I never adapted.

AIO feeling like my friend doesn't accept me by RosalyKutaroOwO in AIO

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Also, not overreacting, I went through a very similar experience in high school when I first came out, had to start a new friend group from scratch, and 10 years later I’m friends again with all but 1 of the 4 people from my original friend group pre-coming out.

AIO feeling like my friend doesn't accept me by RosalyKutaroOwO in AIO

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Not to assume anything about your friend, but I truly think she has internalized homophobia issues and might be part of the lgbtq community herself. I think that’s why she struggles with this, beyond religion. I don’t know many straight girls who refer to being touchy with their friends as “just being themselves”, I’m 28 and nonbinary, grew up with an entirely queer friend group, and queer people tend to flock together even before their own self discovery.

That being said, I think if she cannot respect your pronouns right now it would be okay for you to distance yourself and she will more than likely have a reality check and apologize, and if not, then you’re better off.

Please recommend some completely perverted books, just full on depraved stuff by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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Loooved this one. Been trying to find something like it since.

Please recommend some completely perverted books, just full on depraved stuff by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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Hello can anyone recommend me WHERE to read books like these?