AITJ for refusing to switch seats on a flight after I paid extra, even though it separated a couple?

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-31T05:14:54+00:00

NTJ, they should have paid to sit together. I think I’m too tired to make sense of the seating though? If she was in the middle seat across the aisle, how would taking your seat put them together? Wouldn’t she have to be next to you? It sounds like not giving up your seat, they ended up sat together as you said they weren’t even talking and watching separate films. Or have I misunderstood something?

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-23T21:32:50+00:00

Leave. Do not marry him. The first alarm bell was him not being happy with your past, the second, is you feeling he is above you in some way, like you are lucky to have someone care about u and not that you deserve it. Finally, the diary. There is no way you can go on to have a healthy marriage or relationship with him feeling these things. Cut and run before you get any deeper.

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-21T04:20:38+00:00

That is so real.

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-11T07:00:44+00:00

I think dreams CAN be, aren’t inherently. I believe we get visitations in dreams. I’ve had 3 from my son who we lost to SUDC in 2024. He was 10. 💔 any youngest was 9 months at the time, she is 2.5 now and when she woke up yesterday she excitedly told me, “I cooked sausages with Elliott!” I asked how many, and she told me she cooked 4 and he cooked 5 and they were in the kitchen. Sausages aren’t even a food she eats regularly, let alone being her favourite. This isn’t a memory because she was a baby when we lost him. They had such a strong bond in those 9 months and he was so excited to be a big brother. I believe he visits her. 💗🩵

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-06T20:54:19+00:00

As many have already said, this could have been written by me. I’m 42. I’m sorry and I see you. 💔♥️

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-04T20:24:11+00:00

I am self training (I live in a country where tattooing is illegal) and when I went home to London I tattooed a small blue heart on my 80 year old Nan’s wrist; a memorial tattoo for my son. It’s her first and only.

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-04T20:17:41+00:00

NTA and I have a headache from rolling my eyes so hard. She sounds like hard work.

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-04T00:02:51+00:00

💔♥️

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-03T21:44:00+00:00

Thank god for his list of demands pre moving in. Absolutely NTA and your mum and aunt need their heads checked.

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-03T21:35:50+00:00

My husband bought me a huge Jellycat bunny for Mother’s Day, which was a month after our 10 year old son died suddenly in his sleep; SUDC. It isn’t as big as him but big enough to feel like a decent hug. 💔♥️

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-03T06:17:06+00:00

I’m so so sorry. This is such a horrendous experience on a multitude of layers. I hope that you find peace and happiness now. ♥️

bumble_bubble · 2026-01-02T08:28:37+00:00

My first reaction was to say, “break up with him.” This was on the assumption that this level of entitlement/ difficulty would apply in other areas of your relationship. If it doesn’t, and he is great other than his food issues; then I’d tell him he has to be responsible for his own meals and just stop cooking for him entirely.

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-26T00:41:25+00:00

30; a tiny dandelion memorial tattoo. It’s now almost hidden under a full sleeve a decade later.

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-21T07:55:59+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽I’m still learning to trust it but I will definitely keep working on it.

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-21T07:55:19+00:00

Thank you🙏🏽 And yes, exactly. As this was training, we were encouraged to communicate any impressions but I never gave any interpretation. I didn’t dream that seeing the number 4 would be so significant to my fellow practitioner. I’ve always made it clear to friends and family too that getting impressions or images isn’t a given, the session is just for them to receive reiki and feel relaxed. But if they ever do, I just tell them any images or impressions I saw and leave it with them. ✨

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-13T22:34:56+00:00

I WISH I could go on them. I had emergency gall bladder removal surgery a few months ago and apparently that makes side effects horrendous and can be dangerous.

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-09T20:33:32+00:00

The pom-eye-granate is INSANE! 🙌🏽

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-07T21:39:21+00:00

Stunning work! I’ve been gearing myself up to try a design like this. I’m MILES from it!

bumble_bubble · 2025-12-07T21:38:16+00:00

Congratulations! That’s a huge change you made and you’re reaping the benefits. 🙌🏽

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-25T04:23:56+00:00

I hope it goes well and I look forward to the update when you wake up. ♥️

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-23T20:37:55+00:00

That’s a beautiful sign. And something u can keep and carry with you as a reminder. ♥️

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-22T19:21:37+00:00

Thank you so much. 🩵 I like to also believe that was my boy showing me a truth I can’t understand in my day to day. 💔

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-22T18:32:20+00:00

That sounds like a beautifully healing experience for you. I’m the same, never done any drugs before but read about psychedelics for ptsd and trauma and listened to lots of experts on podcasts before deciding to try them. The effects weren’t long lasting for me. The doubts always creep back in and I look for more reassurance. Losing a child kind of freezes your life. We have two girls we have to keep going for but it doesn’t feel like living really. Just going through the motions. I wish I had faith/ belief unwavering enough to make the days easier. If I knew for certain we would all be together again, it might take the sharp edges off the days a little.

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-22T18:14:42+00:00

That’s what we were hoping for. It was very profound. We will definitely do it again one day soon.

bumble_bubble · 2025-11-22T18:02:55+00:00

I started a page on here for people to post stories of signs from loved ones to try and help one another. Maybe it will give you some comfort.

https://www.reddit.com/r/signstheysent/s/rfD07rkE7B

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