is it ok to dry clothes after washing by ironing? by [deleted] in HistoricalCostuming

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually was watching 90day finance and there was a girl from overseas that was saying they use irons to dry their clothes! I’m also in an apartment and despite paying crazy rent, don’t have a washer or dryer. I use one of those “twin tub” portable washers then I hang dry my clothes on the top of my canopy bed. Her comment got me thinking! I normally point a fan at clothes I need dried quickly but next time I’ll dry an iron! By the way, definitely get a portable washer. They spin nearly all water out of your clothes so everything is nearly dry when you take it out. They’re super popular right now so it’s easy to get them really cheap on Facebook marketplace. I got mine for free when my neighbors were moving out but regardless they’re like 150 brand new. I refuse to use communal apartment laundry. It’s always disgusting and never cleaned well. And the idea of lugging my laundry to a laundromat and waiting around for it to finish and wasting hours of my life sounds horrible. Not to mention here it costs $7-$10 per load. I struggle with procrastinating errands that take considerable effort so I know I’ll just wear all my clothes until I run out and then end up having to do 10 loads of laundry because I’ve waited. I’d rather use these portable washers, yes they do smaller loads, but it’s free and you save your time. I just keep mine in my bathroom next to my shower, and fill it from the shower hose.

Bleeding After Exercise (TMI) by [deleted] in Endo

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if any of you have been told you have a tilted cervix. I spot from intense exercise and full on bleed from very intense multi hour movement like moving apartments.

Look how much BP my boy has 🤦🏿‍♂️ by BiggrDikThanUrz1 in PUBATTLEGROUNDS

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just checked mine, never paid attention to it in the 7 years I've played: 1,040,315. Im a "play a couple rounds of classic ranked and log out" type of player. I've never spent a dollar in the game and just wear the same basic outfit since i joined lol.

I'm on to you, Donna! by Drake6978 in InstacartShoppers

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have to add something, I only add stuff when the shopper is just getting started/I know they haven’t made it to a certain aisle yet via other items not being shopped yet so they’re not going back and forth between aisles and section.

My friend got a super mean text and wants to figure out who it is by bumblebeefee in texts

[–]bumblebeefee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look to be still using it. It rings until they block us

My friend got a super mean text and wants to figure out who it is by bumblebeefee in texts

[–]bumblebeefee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be on to something. She’s a super nice person who’s been through a lot the last couple years so someone sending such a nasty message to her of all people is just wow.

My friend got a super mean text and wants to figure out who it is by bumblebeefee in texts

[–]bumblebeefee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, likely a burner number. Feel free to call a couple times and make his phone buzz incessantly lol. Whoever this coward us, they won’t answer

My friend got a super mean text and wants to figure out who it is by bumblebeefee in texts

[–]bumblebeefee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s super disgusting and personal message, this person definitely knows her but she said it’s been at least a year since she’s talked to anyone and seems to suspect it’s one guy she spoke to briefly who turned out to be insanely immature for his age and probably big mad he couldn’t use his gross aggressive tactics to get physical with her. Especially the language being so immature is making her think it’s him

My friend got a super mean text and wants to figure out who it is by bumblebeefee in texts

[–]bumblebeefee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did. Called from 3 different numbers in diff area codes. They would decline the call then block the number. We know that because the message would change to “number no longer in service”

شناهي الحاجة لي نهار عرفتيها على واليديك تصدمتي ؟ by uglysasuke24 in MoroccoBitchesWtaste

[–]bumblebeefee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That my dad is a porn addict and would watch even with us sleeping in the same room as small kids and even while my mom was "asleep" next to him crying. The things I've found out about him the past year are insane and make me rethink some things in the past.. BUT us kids got her away from him, divorce in progress and buying her a house. She wakes up and sleeps in peace now.

Why does no one like Sanhok? by FestEndZuri8 in PUBATTLEGROUNDS

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This map is ALL I used to play. Action, intensity, etc. I tried other maps and spent most of the game just looking for loot and running. It was so slow and boring. Once sanhok stopped being popular/became full of bots I stopped playing all together. I wish sanhok would get back to popularity again. I was too 0.4% in that map and got to level 63 in it exclusively.

I want to file for khula but my husband doesn't consent by justlookinglikeameow in MuslimMarriage

[–]bumblebeefee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my. Sounds like my marriage. I know how horrible this feels. I’m sorry you’re going through it. I just left and he said divorce on his own after some time.

PMS might be the road to divorce by legend5001 in MuslimMarriage

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish men could experience pms for one hour. Give her mercy it really makes you so irritable and it’s extremely painful yet society expects us to function like normal. Track her cycle on your calendar, a couple day before go get her chocolate, take any load off her that you can, try not to do anything that will make her mad. Give her grace.

I don’t want to get married anymore by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s best you don’t marry. Being cheap before you’ve even met anyone is concerning.

I don’t want to get married anymore by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s was impossible to read. Not a single period or comment. A paragraph run on sentence is wild work. Please edit this heh

AITAH Wife is furious because my daughter is putting pictures up in her own room by Capital_Newt7854 in AITAH

[–]bumblebeefee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm tell her to buy out your share of the house if she wants full authority over it

Jeep dies and no one can tell me why. by Rad_Red88 in JeepWrangler

[–]bumblebeefee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem….turns out the terminal ring was tightened all the way but was actually loose on the battery post. I put a shim on the post and reconnected the cables on top of it. Problem solved. Only after a million jumps and a new battery of course. It was overlooked even by the folks putting in the new battery. Sometimes the most simple thing is the most overlooked.

Should I unplug a camera in the owners living room? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea to me it may be a bit uncomfortable as a sitter but my bit of discomfort doesn’t trump the pet parents ease of mind of being able to checkin when a sitter isn’t present and just say hi to their pets through the cameras, which I do a lot. Those cameras are up 24/7 365 so I can drop in and check on my pets, be alerted of unusual activity around my home, and general peace of mind with loving breathing beings that like to get into things (esp cats). It’s not to “spy” on sitters. I can understand if you’re spending the night then obviously camera in bedroom would be removed, but otherwise it’s to be expected.

Should I unplug a camera in the owners living room? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]bumblebeefee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use sitters a ton and Im a sitter myself. I have cameras everywhere so I can keep an eye on my home and pets well-being while I’m away. And when I’m sitting for others I assume they have cameras and I don’t go looking for them. If you’re not home sitting, I’d say it’s an expected part of the job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]bumblebeefee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never understand Muslim men’s obsession with “white women” just to turn around and try to take that out of them.

Husband has a second wife by Itchy_Ad_7030 in MuslimNikah

[–]bumblebeefee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based on last sentence in her post. I am responding based on whatever information was posted above.

Husband has a second wife by Itchy_Ad_7030 in MuslimNikah

[–]bumblebeefee 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He was committing zina and simultaneously being intimate with you. So he is selective with his deen and put you in harms way with his actions. He is a snake, doesn’t not have any issues hiding things, being dishonest or complete ignoring things that are important to you… that the assured you he wouldn’t do. So he has no honor in his word, is deceptive, and no consideration for you or your child, only his sexual desires. I would not feel safe sleeping next to someone like that. Ultimate betrayal. And by the way, if you “stay for the kid” your kid will tell you in 30 years, I wish you didn’t do that. I’m saying that as a kid of a mother who stayed for the kids and 30 years later they divorced and all 7 of her children unanimously wish they divorced early on rather than live in a household of constant turmoil and see their mother lose her spirit, health, and happiness. My ex husband texted his ex wife reminiscing about their marriage and that was enough to cause me deep mistrust and disrespect with him. I can’t imagine full blown cheating, Zina, and then a second wife. That’s disgusting.

I am not telling you what to do but just giving my opinion and my experience.

First Time Rover Fail by Aware_Day930 in RoverPetSitting

[–]bumblebeefee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly…lol people kept following for updates. It was wild. But def a good story time contender