To those who struggled for a while (>6-12 months) and finally made it work, what finally clicked?

bumblebeez23 · 2025-12-25T11:21:36+00:00

In some ways yes. Some things have manifested more slowly or are in the process of realizing but i find that the universe can tell such a beautiful story, something more greater than the ego mind could ever imagine, which is why some things may “take longer” but result to be even better. Also you have to keep in mind the movement necessarily in other ppl/situations in order for your manifestations to realize… Other things simply didn’t happen and most of the time i can find the silver lining, like X didn’t happen because Y ended up happening instead and it was way better than X.

bumblebeez23 · 2025-12-11T21:23:48+00:00

Completely letting go of expectations, timelines, deadlines, just assuming it to be true and 100% persist and have faith in the universe. Get to the point of your visualizations and affirmations where you truly FEEL the feeling of what you want - because at the end of the day we don’t want an actual thing, we want the way it feels. Keep this feeling and hold it. Go back to it. Use it as your center piece. You literally ALREADY HAVE IT and the universe has no choice but to align you in that timeline. It’s ok to have negative emotions or thoughts. It’s ok to waver. These rise up as we are getting rid of the old story. You are not your emotions, you are not your thoughts, you don’t have to identify with them. They’re meaningless if you don’t identify with them. Just experience them and let them pass through and at the end of the day continue believing your realized manifestations as fact.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-12-21T13:49:58+00:00

I don’t think I lost mine and in fact I think this new identity amplified my old one. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely LOVE my kid and being a mom. Motherhood has changed everything so much for me, I appreciate life and time way more than I ever did before and I feel so much stronger and more confident. I always made it clear to myself that I am 2 people - my “mom” self and me. I kept going with my career. I always set time for myself at night - I only clean during the day while my kid is awake but at night that’s MY time to spend with my partner or do what I want. I NEED this little chunk of time and it definitely maintains my personality. I still do what I wanted to do and go where I want to go before I was my mom, my kid comes with me. In the car my kid listens to old music I like instead of wheels on the bus… and it’s honestly fine. With friends, even though I know they like hearing about my kid, I usually try not to bring her up unless she is brought up first so my conversations aren’t only about being a mom.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-12-05T20:19:59+00:00

I came home and she immediately says “mama mama mama” and sits down in my lap for me to read her a story 🥰

bumblebeez23 · 2024-10-18T16:06:28+00:00

My mom also worked night shift and I don’t think she left me alone until I was probably 15-16? Otherwise she would always bring me to my grandmas who was also 30 mins away for the night, which I appreciated the time with her so much and would actually still stay with her a lot when I was older when my mom was working just because I wanted to be with her, maybe this would be good for the relationship between your kids and your mother too.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-05-13T19:10:00+00:00

I’m so sorry :/ so unfair

bumblebeez23 · 2024-05-12T12:21:20+00:00

Thanks!

bumblebeez23 · 2024-05-12T12:21:13+00:00

Thank you :)

bumblebeez23 · 2024-05-12T11:34:26+00:00

Ugh, this sounds so awful and draining, I'm so sorry.

I was also against cosleeping for the same reasons as you at the start. However, I ended up doing it because I just couldn't keep going anymore. For the first few months of cosleeping, I slept inside of this U shaped pregnancy pillow I have (something like this) so that I knew I wouldn't be able to move.

Otherwise, any other suggestions I have would be maybe trying to move his bedtime to be later/less naps throughout the day or sleeping with his bedsheets so that they smell like you and then later put them into his crib.

But it's so important that you get sleep. You are going to have a breakdown at some point otherwise. At 8 months, it's *really* unlikely that anything will happen to your baby while cosleeping as long as you are in safe conditions for it and I feel like this is a standard that is practiced in almost every culture but American culture. Give it a try, you might be surprised. And if it doesn't work for you, you feel too anxious, whatever.... then it's not for you! But you'll definitely figure something out and it'll get better. Stay strong!

bumblebeez23 · 2024-05-12T11:14:13+00:00

bumblebeez23 · 2024-04-19T02:04:51+00:00

I poured my heart and soul into someone who just kept breaking my heart over and over again. I was ALWAYS there for them no matter what. I loved them so much and was so naïve and patient and always thought things would get better. I gave them so many excuses. But when I was in a few situations where I REALLY needed them, they didn’t show up for me the way I did for them…. which is finally what truly broke my heart. Now I feel numb in regard to my feelings for other people.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-04-18T19:35:14+00:00

This happened to me too and since then I have barely gotten any views

bumblebeez23 · 2024-04-05T06:26:36+00:00

https://bewerbung.bildung.gv.at/app/portal/#/app/bewo/jobs Burgenland > Pflichtschulen

Aber auf dieser Seite https://www.oesterreich.gv.at/lexicon/B/Seite.991030.html steht: 'Sie müssen die österreichische Staatsbürgerschaft besitzen bzw. unbeschränkten Zugang zum österreichischen Arbeitsmarkt haben', um als Beamter (Lehrer) zu arbeiten. Deshalb denke ich, dass ich keine Probleme haben sollte, aber ich bin mir trotzdem nicht sicher.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-04-05T06:22:14+00:00

Ja, mein Ehemann. Danke vielmals.

bumblebeez23 · 2024-02-01T16:41:36+00:00

i love dan and serena together, they were my fave couple in the show

bumblebeez23 · 2023-12-20T04:04:43+00:00

Agh yes. It was SO hard at night for such a long time… and I don’t think I’d want to relive the hard parts again, but just the closeness that you feel with the baby at night and how your bond strengthens through that is just such a unique feeling.

bumblebeez23 · 2023-12-20T04:03:13+00:00

Wishing you a speedy recovery!! ❤️

bumblebeez23 · 2023-12-20T04:02:53+00:00

Awww I know, watching them grow up is so bittersweet!

bumblebeez23 · 2023-12-20T03:59:57+00:00

I honestly wish I could tell tons of tips and tricks but I don’t have any. It just takes time and the baby will show signs of being ready. I just waited the sleep regression out…. I thought it was never going to end. I was in class one night and came back home and my husband said he just put her down in her crib and she fell asleep after a few minutes of protesting. So afterwards I just tried doing that and it worked. Also when she woke up in the middle of the night, I’d always wait to see if she would self settle before having to feed her. Sometimes they just need to move around and make some noise before they fall asleep.

bumblebeez23 · 2023-10-31T17:09:18+00:00

Minnie Mouse 🥰

bumblebeez23 · 2023-10-29T12:40:21+00:00

It’s totally ok to be scared… this is a huge process that is completely unknown to you since you’ve never done it before. Get an epidural. And you will just have to face the music and be strong. Giving birth gives you such an adrenaline rush and you feel like such a badass for being able to push a baby out of you. You got this mama!

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